Im just looking for a partner. I dont know how though... Advice?

Easier said than done, but my advice to you is to avoid feeling sorry for yourself.. and be patient.. and try not to fear rejection.

Self pity, impatience, and fear of rejection are probably the three biggest reason people remain single, IMO.

I agree with Steven. Patience is a virtue (I know how annoying hearing that is lol)

But when you can just relax and whatever will be will be....it becomes easier.

find someone who shares common interests wit u an take it slowly. the worst u can do is rush it. let time do its magic:)

I thank you and your words

You're young. It takes time. Enjoy your youth

Try throwing yourself out their and talking to strangers. You cannot meet a mermaid unless you swim a little, after all.

I dont exactly fit in.. I'm complicated

That's not always a bad thing. Just take your time

Easier said than done. It's hard to give advice when my track record is dating guys who are totally wrong for me. Give up illusions. Realize that a realationship is more than a banging body, or a pretty face.

that's the trouble. i dont want sex... just life love

Try being friends first. Always be honest.

in my experience it is much better to be alone than to be with someone just for the sake of being with someone. and as cliche as it may sound, and as many people have said, it will happen someday. even if you think you are "complicated", so are millions of other people. i can't believe i found a girl to be with me for 5 years, and have a kid with me. and even though its over, at least i i know someone out there cared for me once, and if she could, a much better person could as well. its easier said than done, but don't worry. life usually works out ok for people who deserve it

Ok Sweetie, as far as your profile on here, you might want to add a few more photos,a nd expand your about me section. Just talk about your interests, hobbies, what your looking for, and maybe your opinions on things. Tehn just be patient, your young and have alot of time. Make new friends, smile at strangers who look like you might want to know, try to meet new people. The more you relax and make your goal of finding out about new people teh more options open up for you. Good Luck, and Welcome to Mingle.

welcome to mingle where most of us do not fit in either!

Yawell, your in the right place then

ever? i think it would be difficult to find a life love partner that does not want some type of physical relationship. when you love your partner, you should naturally want to share that part of you. we can be complicated beings, but sometimes we have to figure ourselves out before we ask someone else to try to.