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Topic: relationship advice
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Mon 11/08/10 03:29 PM
what are some signs that your boyfriend could be cheating ?

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Mon 11/08/10 03:33 PM
first ask him if he is cheating
then watch closely as he answers
if you see his lips moving when he talks, he's lying

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Mon 11/08/10 03:34 PM
Suspensions and gut feeling normally are the first ones...

He stops calling you as much or coming by to see you.

He makes excuses that he has something else to do.

He picks fights with you giving him a reason to leave.

He calls just to find out what your doing and where your going.

He makes promises and don't follow through with them.

Sure there are many more..... red flags don't ignore them but don't accuse them if your not positive for it will only makes things worse.noway

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Mon 11/08/10 03:35 PM

what are some signs that your boyfriend could be cheating ?

You find him in another woman
He forgets little things like coming home at night
And so on...

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Mon 11/08/10 03:36 PM
He buys new undies.

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Mon 11/08/10 03:39 PM
when you go to a dating site asking for help recognizing the signs.

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Mon 11/08/10 03:40 PM

Suspensions and gut feeling normally are the first ones...

He stops calling you as much or coming by to see you.

He makes excuses that he has something else to do.

He picks fights with you giving him a reason to leave.

He calls just to find out what your doing and where your going.

He makes promises and don't follow through with them.

Sure there are many more..... red flags don't ignore them but don't accuse them if your not positive for it will only makes things worse.noway


good answer my problem is he has been acting strange the last week and when ever i call it goes to voicemall each time, when i ask when he is at home he says he is at work

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Mon 11/08/10 03:41 PM

when you go to a dating site asking for help recognizing the signs.

frustrated

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Mon 11/08/10 03:43 PM


what are some signs that your boyfriend could be cheating ?

You find him in another woman
He forgets little things like coming home at night
And so on...


Yeah, those two are definite signs that he could be cheating.

(rofl) Thanks for the post, Talldub!

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Mon 11/08/10 03:43 PM

first ask him if he is cheating
then watch closely as he answers
if you see his lips moving when he talks, he's lying
:thumbsup:

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Mon 11/08/10 03:46 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Mon 11/08/10 03:51 PM


Suspensions and gut feeling normally are the first ones...

He stops calling you as much or coming by to see you.

He makes excuses that he has something else to do.

He picks fights with you giving him a reason to leave.

He calls just to find out what your doing and where your going.

He makes promises and don't follow through with them.

Sure there are many more..... red flags don't ignore them but don't accuse them if your not positive for it will only makes things worse.noway


good answer my problem is he has been acting strange the last week and when ever i call it goes to voicemall each time, when i ask when he is at home he says he is at work
uh-huh - and what's he workin'?

really I think it's best to avoid commitments until a little time has passed - /BTW if he is seeing someone else - it's open season for u also -

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Mon 11/08/10 03:51 PM
Have one of your hottest friends contact him behind your back and have her act like she is out to steal him from you. Then have her meet him somewhere and be sure she lets you in on when and where. Then show up on them especially when he is trying to kiss her. Or better yet if you catch them totally mac daddy on each other. When he is caught red handed both you and your friend leave on him after you tell him to his face it is over and he just got caught trying to be a player. If you really want to punctuate the moment shoot him in the face with mace and kick him square in his nuggets as hard as you can before leaving if you really want to send the point home. Make sure to tell him that you deal with players by your own rules and he just got played.

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Mon 11/08/10 03:51 PM
BTW, wanna dump the looser and move on to a real man?

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Mon 11/08/10 03:52 PM
I got the I had to work late excuse.


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Mon 11/08/10 03:53 PM

BTW, wanna dump the looser and move on to a real man?

Why, do you know one? laugh :tongue:

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Mon 11/08/10 03:53 PM

BTW, wanna dump the looser and move on to a real man?

laugh

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Mon 11/08/10 03:55 PM

Have one of your hottest friends contact him behind your back and have her act like she is out to steal him from you. Then have her meet him somewhere and be sure she lets you in on when and where. Then show up on them especially when he is trying to kiss her. Or better yet if you catch them totally mac daddy on each other. When he is caught red handed both you and your friend leave on him after you tell him to his face it is over and he just got caught trying to be a player. If you really want to punctuate the moment shoot him in the face with mace and kick him square in his nuggets as hard as you can before leaving if you really want to send the point home. Make sure to tell him that you deal with players by your own rules and he just got played.


not bad. not bad at all...

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Mon 11/08/10 03:56 PM



Suspensions and gut feeling normally are the first ones...

He stops calling you as much or coming by to see you.

He makes excuses that he has something else to do.

He picks fights with you giving him a reason to leave.

He calls just to find out what your doing and where your going.

He makes promises and don't follow through with them.

Sure there are many more..... red flags don't ignore them but don't accuse them if your not positive for it will only makes things worse.noway




good answer my problem is he has been acting strange the last week and when ever i call it goes to voicemall each time, when i ask when he is at home he says he is at work
uh-huh - and what's he wrokin'

really I think it's best oavoid commitments until a little time has passed - /BTW if he is seeing someone else - it's open season for u also -


For sure he seems to be working something....:laughing: :laughing:

As some have said if you have doubts of his whereabouts it may be a good time to play detective.whoa

When trust goes there is not much left in a relationship.noway

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Mon 11/08/10 03:57 PM


BTW, wanna dump the looser and move on to a real man?

Why, do you know one? laugh :tongue:


rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Mon 11/08/10 03:58 PM

I got the I had to work late excuse.


sometimes that one is actually true - but it depnds on his job - if he's a shift worker and you see everyone else on firsts coming home on time..no- they don't keep a line open for 1 person:laughing:


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