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I wonder how it is that by seeing two words “condescending much” you can derive all of these assumptions. You’re obvious infatuation with same gender sex is probably a deep rooted issue for you, even now, as you are reaching your middle age. Not to worry though, you do have your grade school philosophies and pedestrian psychology beliefs to fall back on. I truly hope you work this out. It saddens me to someone in such denial. Turbulence can be such a burden, I’m sure. oh, my adoring little man fan just can't stay away...  ooh... i feel sperm swimming toward the birth canal. it's ok. i understand you pain. but you need not worship me to feel better. such worship i deserve not. really little man. you'll find one to love. really, fear not. waste not your love on me. i don't dererve such adulation and facination. just do it. do it. conquer the beast that lie within. do it. |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 10/25/10 01:38 AM
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You know…once someone can filter through this drivel you leave as responses, it is not difficult to see the truth. My experience of people that are always criticizing others is that they are deeply unhappy, have a low self esteem and are perhaps even depressed. When people are depressed, sad or insecure often the world becomes very dark and they do see the enemy everywhere. Some people are very jealous of other people and deeply resent their own circumstances. They then start to 'act' out.
It can also be a form of projection. (Which is where you fit this equation)They project onto others what they feel about themselves. When they call you a loser, or as in this case gay, really this is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves. It is likely too that they consider this how you think about them so they get the insult out there first. The more unkind they are to you, the more distance you create between you, and this results in them trying harder to get your attention. They feel rejected and try with inappropriate means to re-establish a connection. Look at how 'naughty children' behave when trying to get attention. (Ring a bell?) The attention grabbing efforts are always negative and not positive. Is it possible this person has yet to learn these methods are not effective! It is also done in an effort to establish a self-fulfilling prophecy. I am deeply sorry, but this is never going to happen, so please turn your generic Shakespearian 16th century speak towards someone who might actually be impressed by such ridiculous and passé phrasings. |
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You know…once someone can filter through this drivel you leave as responses, it is not difficult to see the truth. My experience of people that are always criticizing others is that they are deeply unhappy, have a low self esteem and are perhaps even depressed. When people are depressed, sad or insecure often the world becomes very dark and they do see the enemy everywhere. Some people are very jealous of other people and deeply resent their own circumstances. They then start to 'act' out. It can also be a form of projection. (Which is where you fit this equation)They project onto others what they feel about themselves. When they call you a loser, or as in this case gay, really this is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves. It is likely too that they consider this how you think about them so they get the insult out there first. The more unkind they are to you, the more distance you create between you, and this results in them trying harder to get your attention. They feel rejected and try with inappropriate means to re-establish a connection. Look at how 'naughty children' behave when trying to get attention. (Ring a bell?) The attention grabbing efforts are always negative and not positive. Is it possible this person has yet to learn these methods are not effective! It is also done in an effort to establish a self-fulfilling prophecy. I am deeply sorry, but this is never going to happen, so please turn your generic Shakespearian 16th century speak towards someone who might actually be impressed by such ridiculous and passé phrasings. hum...so you see all this as negative huh? kinda telling whom hath a negative insight, lol... im havin a blast. i thought all this was but in good fun? ah... wow... such pent up anger. what planet you been on son? tell ya what. you must think yourself dealing with yourself. since obviously your taking all this personal... having no sense of humor at all. then we need force you to look at yourself, to find your own remedy, and to see that each thing you think of another, be precisly the real you. i propose we have a duel... yes. since you believe in your insight as supreme, and deem mine to be inferior, which fyi, was never disputed, lol... then let us get actual proof, and see who's words hath more power, as the one's who's words be the most just, always have the most power... hum... how shall know for sure, who's words are actually self idolizing delusion's of grandeaur? both could sound as such. yes, thats true. but, for such to be so, then the true motive would have to be the wish to be self idolized? hum... oh. i got it! how about, whomever can come to the other in their dreams, be the winner!? sounds like a good plan to me. so, let us begin... now please a little quiet, as we cast the spell... well, it not really a spell, but a little more like an exorcism. lol... so, to make such known to the unknowing, we shall send grand supreme blessings, and fine adulation's, so much so as to overflow your house, and even all your doing's, the total outpouring of all the blessing of the cosmos we wish for you, and to engulf you showers of divine rain. cool... now, just kick back, and enjoy the blessings those you despise that love send your way, since no wrath be found in this realm... such grand divine blessings it shall be as a roller coaster ride... lol... uh know, kinda jerky around each corner, as the brain rattles under the pressure itself... oh. but it will be fun. no need to thank me, for not returning any form of curse, as that would not be nice at all... nice people dont do such things. oh, and no need to send any payment, as the blessing come at no cost to you. but, if ya wanna thank me later. hey. a little gratitude. never hurts. enjoy the ride. sure. would never turn down a needy friend. ditto's |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Mon 10/25/10 03:09 AM
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Personal?....to the contrary
It takes much more than this to incite me. Are we projecting again? I do apologize however, for keeping my response limited to one of the coherent points you just made. Perhaps my senses are a bit off because of the late hour. Thanks for the laughs tonight, they have been positively received. |
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well, so glad...
rest up, for that roller coaster of cosmic blessings can take a lot out of ya. your not used to such i can assure. as no one you have ever met, in your mortal existence, hath wished such happiness for you as i. the sad need their rescue i understand. |
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To-morrow, and to-morrow, and to-morrow,
Creeps in this petty pace from day to day, To the last syllable of recorded time; And all our yesterdays have lighted fools The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle! Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player, That struts and frets his hour upon the stage, And then is heard no more. It is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing. -from Macbeth... |
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wow...i can see why you would be magnetized to such.
you know, you really aren't such a bad, you just have no idea what your own words hath the power to create... since you have been assuming all are as you think... ah, and he says i buy do the same, lol... but hearken dear lass, you are not as i. i know you esteem to be. but such be for later. when you have grown. when the shell of the turtle hath been removed from thy back, and the skin of the serpent hath been peeled from your body, when the nuts of self wisdom the busied little squirrel of ignorance have been devoured, then shall you find it profitable to wish yourself as i. for now, you must sit upon thy ignorance, and nourish it until oneself has been filled, until it's belly has soured with the dour taste of itself. but have no worries. all come to understanding. in their day. in time. i shall tutor you if you like. there is potential. even though it be so microscopic that only the trained eye can see. but, you shall have no pudding, until you eat your spoiled meat. upon ingesting. regurgetate, then regurgetate again, and then again, once more, until all impurities have been cleaned from the self. then, the mind shall be as new. even so, be my fine friendly wish for you. since indeed, one should never dissapoint their fan's. fine sailing. even though the seas appear shall soon appear as very choppy. yea. it is only but the rotten meat, cleansing the soul. take courage. for tomarrow we set sail. you and i on a magical mystery tour. yes. i shall be your guide. for you would never make it thru alone. but. so be it. it is fit. |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Mon 10/25/10 03:44 AM
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trust me on this one......
i am well aware of what i can create with my words. every once in a while, i've been told, i get it right. |
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ooooooooooooh kevinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn?
where art thou? i forgot just a few tidbits of info you may need! when i appear to you in your dream, BE NOT AFRAID. it is only to awaken your subconscious mind. no harm shall come to you. it is only BUT A DREAM. promise. now as the voices whisper in your ear's, FEAR NOT! they are not "demons"!!! just the small regrurgetations of thyself. well, a couple of them large one's. ok... some small, some large. but again, HATH NO FEAR. you shall make it thru. it is only but a test of the emergency broadcast system. it is only a test. well, kind of. but FEAR NOT. i know my ugly mug be not so pretty, so just wanted as a friend, to comfort and soothe thy weary soul, so as not to induce too much fright. again. again. again. after your cleansing of the delusion's, you shall be good as new, and fresh and perky. ok... good luck. fine sailing kevin. lol... yes, i concur with you, it has indeed been quite intertaining. i believe more fun than i have had with a mouse a teer in quite some time. lol... damn, you have freed my spirit. thank you. i fine lass you are. close all windows and doors, as they are calling for storms i think in your neck of the woods. safety first always. sail. on |
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Edited by
davidben1
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Mon 10/25/10 04:05 AM
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lol...
oh how the self validator deem itself know the cosmos, lol... and all possible in the cosmos. and how it but love the voice of it's validator. the cosmos doth cure all validator's, hence quickly in these days, lest they would walk themself right off a cliff... shall we cheers to double tonight. two to set sail, for the unknown seas of the subconscious seas... wow... this is exciting. to get to meet the cosmic master's first hand! what an honor and priviledge. weep not little lambs, for sheering is totally natural for a lamb. no need to fear. have ye not heard, fear not the reaper? such be wisdom. sail now. |
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trust me on this one...... i am well aware of what i can create with my words. every once in a while, i've been told, i get it right. Yep. You dont seem to obsess on your own perspective, or get confused when other perspectives turn up. I dont have to agree with you, and you dont seem to lash out if that happens. Ive never seen you try to twist words of other people simply to perpetuate your own thought. On the contrary, you are very accepting....There are lots of people on here, in fact, that I have taken for granted. They are blessings, and Im glad I can see that. well, political forums not withstanding.  |
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trust me on this one...... i am well aware of what i can create with my words. every once in a while, i've been told, i get it right. Yep. You dont seem to obsess on your own perspective, or get confused when other perspectives turn up. I dont have to agree with you, and you dont seem to lash out if that happens. Ive never seen you try to twist words of other people simply to perpetuate your own thought. On the contrary, you are very accepting....There are lots of people on here, in fact, that I have taken for granted. They are blessings, and Im glad I can see that. well, political forums not withstanding. I confess, I avoid most political threads. i try to myself... |
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You 'hooked up' with him, then your ex......you won't give him another chance (maybe).....
Easy. He wants what he can't have. |
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GET STRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
   
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It is simple, the guy is not serious.
When you see a serious guy you will know by his behavior. Some people advising you can fit in. |
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Hes a Playa ....Playa's are such a waste of time...they are one trick ponies, thats all they know...dont waste yours.
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well, so glad... rest up, for that roller coaster of cosmic blessings can take a lot out of ya. your not used to such i can assure. as no one you have ever met, in your mortal existence, hath wished such happiness for you as i. the sad need their rescue i understand. Yaknow, your kinda cute...til you open your mouth. In the interests of getting laid in this life-time...you might consider not speaking 
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You 'hooked up' with him, then your ex......you won't give him another chance (maybe)..... Easy. He wants what he can't have. I thought it was more than a hook up with him... he told me he wasn't talking to any other women, but me... he stood me up, I was hurt, and yes, I did hook up with my ex... I made a mistake, I know it wasn't right, but I did, and I admit to that part of it... but as far as easy, that I am not... like I said earlier, him and I only even had sex 2 times in 2 months. |
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Ok, I am really confused, I cannot read men!!! Ok, first, I met this guy. He never really asked me out on a date, we just hung out, and eventually, had sex. We discussed a relationship, but he didn't want that, Like I said, we never even went on a real date. So, last weekend, we were suppose to go out, and he totally stood me up. I went out with my friends, and ended up hooking up with my ex, so it wasn't like a stranger... anyway, now he is really pi**ed off at me, and pretty much called me a who**re. But now, just some fyi... he would tell me about how he tries to hook up with chicks at the bar, but got rejected, and would want me to come have sex with him... I didn't do it. But done this through out the entire... friendship, or whatever you would call it. So anyway, he continues to call me, and stop by my job... and now he wants me to come over tomorrow... What is his deal? I told him to lose my number when all of this first happen. But one minute he acts like he really wants something with me, then the next.. he is unsure. I don't know what to think.... Any advise? just say No - he doesnt want to date u and he stood u up and apparently is not ashamed of that - not only is he thoughtless, he is thinking that since u guys had sex once - he can count on u for that - but he doesnt need to treat you decently....because he didn't have to in the first place. sounds like he's really immature and foolish. He wants FWB which is polite speak for I want to use you for sex until something better comes along If he was treating u decently I might not feel as I do about what you have said |
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