100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: I really need some advice here.... | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
- Sounds like he doesn't want anything from you except for sex. - Your emotions are following the attention that he is giving you. That's fine if you just want to hook up too. It sounds like your head is telling you something different than your emotions. Since it's hard to see things when your involved, I'll spell it out for you... Your head is telling you that you need to move on. Read your post and listen to what you are saying... then ask yourself why are you persuing him?? I bet your answer is that he spends time with you and he seems nice sometimes or he is really good in bed. Then ask yourself if he really wanted a "relationship", wouldn't he treat you with more respect. Then tell yourself he's not worth it. Then let him know that what ever you have together is over. Make it short and to the point... no sense in draging it out. It's hard as hell, but you need to cut the cord and move on. That is just my little opinion. PS. I can't read women if that helps you at all :) I can honestly say it wasn't all sex, in 2 months.. we only had sex 2 times.. That's part of why I'm so confused.. Yes, he does need to have more respect, and I did tell him that, and I told him it was over, I was done with him.. I don't know why he continues to persue me.... or just try to get to me. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
MG don't worry about the why's or try to figure them out.. If I've learned anything in my "long" years it's that when it's too much trouble, it's not worth the trouble...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
MG don't worry about the why's or try to figure them out.. If I've learned anything in my "long" years it's that when it's too much trouble, it's not worth the trouble... Joy gives the best advice. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
MG don't worry about the why's or try to figure them out.. If I've learned anything in my "long" years it's that when it's too much trouble, it's not worth the trouble... Joy gives the best advice. Awww thank you sweetie... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it.
Good luck to you, whatever you decide 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
he's perfect for you! perhaps that marriage bells i hear a ringin. off in the distance somewhere... na, give the dude a chance. have a little mercy. why, he's only doin what your doin? how's that so bad? i am sure be has been betrayed many times, and just needs someone to look out for him, and love him with REAL LOVE, to cure him from treatin other's like ****... he's stared at his own pain for a long time, then decided it was his turn to take instead of being the abused and without, lol... don't worry about it... you'll straitin' him out, as two birds of a feather have a way of defeatherin' each other. works everytime. I didn't play him, I was straight up honest with him.... He stood me up, so I went out.... He couldn't even call me and tell me something came up or whatever... he left me alone. You can't honestly say that you would have sat by the phone... knowing he wouldn't call. hell no... but, if i tell ya to run TO HIM, then you will GAIN more "self empowerment" to run the other way,if you really want to, and not need advice to feel confident and secure in yourself. YEAH RIGHT, if there a player, run? how many has that saved, lol... you gotta believe in your own insight, without self doubt in the end, so asking other's, is really gonna make it harder in the end. the self attraction and desire is stronger than the logic, lol... **** whomever YOU WANT... whenever YOU WANT. just make sure YOU CONSIDER EVERYTHING YOUR OWN MIND SAYS ABOUT HIM, and the situation that can be crreated, AS ALREADY REAL AND HAPPENING, NOT DOUBTING YOURSELF... for your brain provides data for the "situation" your in, not anyone else... your brain is the on borad onstar for you, in all situation's for you. hear all it say as real, then proceed, however YOU still most wish. and THEN, you will never have a bad surprise, and never have a tear, and NEVER MAKE THE HUGE MISTAKE OF TAKING ON A VICTIM MENTALITY, OF ALL AS SOMEBODY ELSE'S FAULT, MOST BY TAKING AD VICE BASED UPON ANOTHER'S HAPPENING OF THEMSELF, WITH ANOTHER HUMAN ALL TOGETHER... how can one compare human's AND EXPECT accurate insight, when each human be as unique as the face on each body? SUCH REDUCE THE MOST INTELLIGENT TO MERE PEA BRAINS IN TIME. YOUR THE BOSS, IF YOU GIVE NOT YOUR POWER AWAY, BY ASKING OTHER'S! NONE! FORCE YOURSELF TO MAKE YOUR "OWN DECISION'S", FOR THAT PATH HATH THE LEAST AMOUNT OF SAD OR TEARS, AND IS MUCH MUCH MUCH FASTER TO WISDOM. YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED HOW BRILLIANT YOU WILL MAKE YOURSELF, BY HAVING TO WEIGH YOUR OWN DECISION'S, ALL OF THEM. each time one ask for advice for a "particular action", it hath reduced it's own deducting abilities, and given away the brilliance of itself. good luck... oh, but you wont need luck, if you make each one of your own decision's, needing not another for advice. lol... peace |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
sounds like some of the woman ive dated recently... buyer beware in the dating world mysterygirl77 ;)
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
You said you discussed relationship with him and he told you he didn't want that...so what's there to figure out about him?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox I'm sure it is David... glad you're behind me, thank you for your support... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox I'm sure it is David... glad you're behind me, thank you for your support... omg! im freakin! your gald im behind you... yippie kai yay! i get to be "be hind you"... whoa! not sure im ready for such a full time committment. i really do appreciate though, sincerely. i can't believe you noticed me!  i can't hold back thought, even though "behind you" is a little much for so early on in the relationship... you know... it is true though, lol... i must make it public. i have had a secret crush. cruuuuuuuuuuuuuuushin! oh baby! cruuuuuuuuuuuuuuuushin hard. your are so sweet. you flutter like magic thru all the threads, with the words that melt... omg, and thank you for your support! i can feel the supportive energy lika lifting... wow... im floating now... whoa. ok, not so much support. ditto's |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox condescending much? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Alrighty then.. Reciprocation of the sardonic isn't always understood...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox condescending much? such brilliance would slay any a women. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
There are some great people in these forums and they give great advice...some of the ones who responded here helped me see the fault in my last relationship as well. Sometimes you just need an outsiders opinion because as stated earlier, you are on the inside so you have a harder time seeing it. Good luck to you, whatever you decide And there are some that give you a headache when you read what they write and there are others that you say "WTF".... damn, you too? wow... me too! i heard it's pea brain syndrome, it's a new mental disorder just diognosed, that comes from loving to make oneself feel needed, and by adding vice to many, just to get puffy glowing red cheeks for themself, lol... ah... so sweet the wolves really be, whom don't give a **** about anything except getting some pretty little flattery for themself, lol... damn... i hear ya girl! you go girl! i am behind ya 1000% percent! i think your advice is absolutely brilliant as well! ditto's! keep up the good jub sweets. xoxoxoxoxox condescending much? such brilliance would slay any a women. it does.... 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Yes it does....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
wow, i responded and i didn't even have to use the word "hath"
i am good! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
wow, i responded and i didn't even have to use the word "hath" i am good!  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
omg...
i hear wedding bell's for the brilliant! but, i thought you said you wanted me behind you?!  you mean we're breakin up already! you mean it!? i lost another self validater? omg! are you kidding me! ****! what oh what oh what shall i do... oh my. lol. |
|
|
|
|
