Hi, Ladies! I was married for 19 years. I've been trying to get back into the swing of things since 2007. Quetion. Is it ever ok to change a guy...I mean...I've dated some cute guys...there are-obviously 1-5 things I'm not jazzed on...

ex: big ugly mustaches. i like hair on the body...not just a smelly crop on the face and lip. Am I being too picky, or being a *****? Curious. Last guy I dated told me....because I don't like an over abundance of facial hair.....i am doomed to living a life alone......can that be true? is that whky i'm single?

Girls. What do you think? I mean..I like manly men..but I am super sensitive to smell..got a nose like a Bloodhound. AND...too much facial hair makes me break out...

What do you think, girls? I need to know.

Sorry bout the spelling errors. Had a few..

If you ever feel the need to change anybody, you need to question why you're with them in the first place.

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Oh...so true..

for a guy it's just hair , if your important to him he will cut it off if you ask him.

Aw..that's so sweet...

when 2 poeple decide to be together there are changes for both of them , facial hair is a pretty small thing to change.

Yeah, shaving is no problem.

I kinda like shaving actually.

I've even went as far as to dub the process of shaving my balls, "Gettin' pretty."

my ex had really hair feet but i learned to deal with it.overal i dont like a really hairy guy..learn to love his flaws b.c nobody is perfect

thats cool , I'm sure if we talked to your ex there would be some small thing they had to live with

nice. te rare and few..thanks.

I like hair. Don't get me wrong. I'm also into weird quirky stuff..crooked teeth, thick eye brows..cleft chins,.etc etc. etc..

My ex husband like women with short, banging, razor cut, multi colored hair.......When I met him..that's what I looked like. But after 5-6 years...I wanted a change. I gre my hair really long..he got kinda pissy. After that our marriage started to go down..down. down.. I want to know. Is it ok to change?

yeah im sure he did,and know im not perfect im big on personality and how im treated.

swim,my ex wanted me to keep my hair long and wanted to control who i talked to etc etc..sometimes personalties dont mesh

good point!

People change all the time.

Sometimes you have no control of it.

As far as the small things you mentioned above, I believe there were some underlying issues at hand.

Something a little more complex than a hair poopy do.

But... if you feel the desire to end a relationship based solely on a hair cut, congratulations! You have reached the land of superficial bliss. It's a place where unicorns fart rainbows and everything is pretty.

sounds like the communation wasn't there, if he felt you looked better in short hair style he should have sayed that and got over it

well here's the thing.....oh wait, i will follow directions and not comment.

smartass!