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My ex husband like women with short, banging, razor cut, multi colored hair.......When I met him..that's what I looked like. But after 5-6 years...I wanted a change. I gre my hair really long..he got kinda pissy. After that our marriage started to go down..down. down.. I want to know. Is it ok to change? sounds like the communation wasn't there, if he felt you looked better in short hair style he should have sayed that and got over it That's true. |
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Is it ok to change? People change all the time. Sometimes you have no control of it. As far as the small things you mentioned above, I believe there were some underlying issues at hand. Something a little more complex than a hair poopy do. But... if you feel the desire to end a relationship based solely on a hair cut, congratulations! You have reached the land of superficial bliss. It's a place where unicorns fart rainbows and everything is pretty. Don't I have the right ot be happy? |
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yeah there were definatley underying issues that were there..
but as for the hair thing its just hair..then he shoulda been dropped kicked |
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yeah there were definatley underying issues that were there.. but as for the hair thing its just hair..then he shoulda been dropped kicked Undelying issues. Wjo would've thought. Thanks for your input...got a lot to think about. |
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy
 
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy rule breaker! |
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy rule breaker!  
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy rule breaker! G'morn.kc   
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy rule breaker! *shoots at kc with a paintball gun* |
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy Yeah. I think I have issues. Maybe it's not them...it's me...Thanks for your support.. Much love. |
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 cy why am i getting shot so early in the morning or late as is the case for me....(no sleep yet  )
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cy why am i getting shot so early in the morning or late as is the case for me....(no sleep yet ) lol bc i have an itchy trigger finger? i havent been to bed yet either its 7 am here in tennessee |
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cy why am i getting shot so early in the morning or late as is the case for me....(no sleep yet ) It's time to get some sleep my friend.I tend to choose my words beary carefully w/ s~b.Heck!she has a huge pistola as her default pic.lol.That speaks volumes to me.  Rest well kc. To:OP~hug sent.Godspeed!Cy 
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cy why am i getting shot so early in the morning or late as is the case for me....(no sleep yet ) It's time to get some sleep my friend.I tend to choose my words beary carefully w/ s~b.Heck!she has a huge pistola as her default pic.lol.That speaks volumes to me. Rest well kc. To:OP~hug sent.Godspeed!Cy yeah like im really that scary 
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy Yeah. I think I have issues. Maybe it's not them...it's me...Thanks for your support.. Much love. I think you fell into what most people fall into today. you didn't take care of a small issue, then thing got growing , and keep on going . They grow till there was just to much for both of you |
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cy why am i getting shot so early in the morning or late as is the case for me....(no sleep yet ) It's time to get some sleep my friend.I tend to choose my words beary carefully w/ s~b.Heck!she has a huge pistola as her default pic.lol.That speaks volumes to me. Rest well kc. To:OP~hug sent.Godspeed!Cy yeah like im really that scary oh i know....  and its 6:10 here btw sleep in an hour or so....maybe sorry, i didn't mean to derail this thread...
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I think that you are limiting yourself & possibly turning aside some sound valuable advice by requesting the opinions from one gender only.(jmo)G'luck!dear heart & Godspeed!Cy rule breaker! 2 Cute....
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Since it says "No BOYS allowed", I'm good to chime in. hehe
I have to disagree, to a point, what some guys said. With the right women that they'll shave/cut anything. Ok, some will. It doesn't matter to them (or they're just that desperate). For some it also grows back a lot faster. Yes, women can make guys do things that they normally wouldn't. No secret there. But, if you're a woman, would you want a guy to change that just because you don't like it? Is that much different from him saying that I won't date you unless you dye your hair or shave your ()???? Apparently, I have a bit of a mustache. Would I shave it off because of a woman? HECK NO! Hormones can do funny things, but after a while, they wear off and the "WTF" factor rolls into mind. Does that make for a healthy relationship? You shouldn't try to change or even judge somebody as your 'perfect mate' for something as superficial as that. If you have a fear of facial hair, maybe you have an underlaying issue, but, there's more to a person than the soup strainer! Semi-related to the topic at hand, I've been considering shaving mine all off for the first time in a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time. Feedback? Yes? No? |
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Semi-related to the topic at hand, I've been considering shaving mine all off for the first time in a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time. Feedback? Yes? No? Personal opinion - if you've reached a place where you want a drastic change - go for it! I'm pretty sure it will grow back lol. On topic - People change - but they should change for themselves. You can make suggestions or say that you like something, but personally, unless I LIKED the suggestion or was curious to see what it would be like, I wouldn't do it. You have to be happy with yourself to be happy with someone else. |
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Edited by
fireflysgirl
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Sun 10/24/10 04:52 AM
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Since it says "No BOYS allowed", I'm good to chime in. hehe I have to disagree, to a point, what some guys said. With the right women that they'll shave/cut anything. Ok, some will. It doesn't matter to them (or they're just that desperate). For some it also grows back a lot faster. Yes, women can make guys do things that they normally wouldn't. No secret there. But, if you're a woman, would you want a guy to change that just because you don't like it? Is that much different from him saying that I won't date you unless you dye your hair or shave your ()???? Apparently, I have a bit of a mustache. Would I shave it off because of a woman? HECK NO! Hormones can do funny things, but after a while, they wear off and the "WTF" factor rolls into mind. Does that make for a healthy relationship? You shouldn't try to change or even judge somebody as your 'perfect mate' for something as superficial as that. If you have a fear of facial hair, maybe you have an underlaying issue, but, there's more to a person than the soup strainer! Semi-related to the topic at hand, I've been considering shaving mine all off for the first time in a LOOOOOOOOOOONG time. Feedback? Yes? No? NO-don't do it man! I don't particularly care for men with lots of body hair, but if I fell for a great guy I don't think it would really bother me! If you try to change someone, it usually ends up badly! I just left a fairly decent guy because I have changed so much and I don't expect him to change to suit me. I have enough trouble trying to make a better person out of myself & who am I to say whats right or wrong, but I think there are many other things to worry about in a relationship! good luck girl |
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