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well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things....
dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)... it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while. Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference |
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Please take it slow...give yourself time to heal and get your head straight. Go easy on yourself for awhile. Remember the crappiest thing about rebounding is...we dont know we are and all that comes from it is two peeps end up hurt. Have a relationship with yourself for a bit ...your next love affair will be much better for it
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thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow
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I know Ive totally been there...turns out the "hole" is a big wound that needs to heal...and it will. Your beautiful and have everything to look forward too in life. I know it seems impossible, but the day will come when you think about this dude (if you EVER do) and you will just shake your head and laugh at the fool.
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o lord let that day come fast!!!! right now all i can do is get mad and unfortunately cry:(
the thing is.. i already had major trust issues because of previous issues(family and etc. related) and now well lets just say i basically dont trust any guy |
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thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow Maybe I can help you with that!! 
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Edited by
RKISIT
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Sat 10/23/10 03:44 PM
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if he took you to a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him
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Wisdom.
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if he took you took a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him 
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Wisdom. /Pretentious BS. 
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if you arent sure if you are ready to date.. most often from my experience anyway you arent ready.. take your time...
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thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow Maybe I can help you with that!!
ha ha ha OP, I think u are doing fine (withtout the truck guy   )ur dating friend can help to fill that emptiness. not as burden for him but as a joy to u both
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if he took you took a mexican restaurant he is a good man,means he doesn't care if you fart in front of him
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thanks venus.... i will take it slow.. just seems like theres a huge hole there that needs to be filled somehow very slow would be wise. you are the only one who can fill this "huge hole" by healing not by replacing one person for the next. |
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cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent
she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower i think it's great that she keeps company |
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cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower i think it's great that she keeps company company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys" i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship. |
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cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower i think it's great that she keeps company company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys" i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship. no one should trust "all guys" and she prolly never will - she is the only one who knows when it's time for a new relationship. I do agree that just dating for awhile is a good idea. I waited ti date even for about a year after my divorce, but thinking back on it, I wish I hadn't waited quite so long |
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cripes u guys dont want anyone to have any fun just cuz u arent she a date foe crying out loud- not a wedding shower i think it's great that she keeps company company is fine...but as she has expressed, she doesn't trust all "guys" i'm just suggesting that she works on herself before she gets involved in a serious relationship. no one should trust "all guys" and she prolly never will - she is the only one who knows when it's time for a new relationship. I do agree that just dating for awhile is a good idea. I waited ti date even for about a year after my divorce, but thinking back on it, I wish I hadn't waited quite so long you're right, only she knows, but we do see it all too often here. people jumping from one disaster to another and never taking the time they need for themselves. |
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well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things.... dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)... it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while. Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference It will take time. I've been on a few dates since my ex left me, and it still dosen't feel right to me. And we split 5 years ago on oct.31st. Point is, it will take time, sometimes you never do get over it. It all depends on your background, what you've been through and your personality. Best to ya. |
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well i had my first date since me and my fiancee ended things.... dinner (mexican) and a movie (social network)... it was good... feels kinda weird because its not Jerry but i guess it takes some getting used to for a while. Not too sure how fast i want this whole dating thing to move right now. i know im young but when your hurt, age knows no difference 
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