Topic: betrayal
nataliepr's photo
Sun 10/24/10 01:51 PM

what's the worst thing a so called friend or significant other has ever done to you?


my ex sold my playstation 3 in a yard sale and didnt even tell me... didnt even get the money.

Queene123's photo
Sun 10/24/10 01:57 PM


what's the worst thing a so called friend or significant other has ever done to you?


my ex sold my playstation 3 in a yard sale and didnt even tell me... didnt even get the money.


what a freaken a'ss i would had made him buy you one
he deffently was totally greedy and had no freaken hearr
if it was me i would had draged him down to the store to by me one

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 10/24/10 03:22 PM
Just because I was betrayed at some point and then relate the story of the betrayal does not mean I feel sorry for myself or am miserable. I actually laugh when I tell the story now. :tongue:

incidius's photo
Sun 10/24/10 05:09 PM


what's the worst thing a so called friend or significant other has ever done to you?

I don't like talking about my past much but since the question was asked, I figure why not share a little. 
What so called friends have done doesn't really bother me much because they aren't apart of my life anymore, good riddens to bad rubbish. The last year and a half of my life has been nothing but a living nightmare. 
It starts with her father saying that I didn't do anything around the house anymore( so the only thing that I did was take care of my daughter and myself) Then he came home one day and said that he was leaving us. We were together for 14 years and he wanted me to be the stay at home mother and I was ok with it until I wanted to work and get out of the house just a little. Any job that I took was nothing but a complain after complain, so I had to quit. It wasn't worth living with the constant complaining. So when he said that he was leaving, I asked if he wanted my help to pack his things up. Well I guess it wasn't the response that he was looking for. The relationship was over by that point, to know that the guy that I once loved and trusted was just going to bail on us, was devistating to say the least. I had nothing more to say to him, there wasn't much to work out. I prepared my family for it but no one clued in until it was over and I answered a bunch of screwed up questions that they didn't like the answers too. Anyways, I was a single mother and I felt like I had a few fears to face after feeling like an inmate for so long. I sware that prisioners had more freedom then I did.. lol. Yeah, I can joke about it now because it's over with and staying that way. Almost forgot to mention my mom and bro sticking their noses where they didn't belong and my sis trying to take my daughter away from me, but I'm just suppose to let it go, like water under a bridge. After almost drinking myself to death, I decided that if I actually made it to the new year then it was all going to be different. I dropped contact with most people and finally started making some good friends that actually have helped me a lot and most likely without even knowing, but just by hearing what they have gone through has helped. 
I just finished my course and with a slight medical issue, I'm now going into my biggest challenge ever but I know that I'm ready to finally get it over and done with. I have my daughter and one day, I know that I will have someone else to share our life with once again. After everything that I just went through, well I'll say that there isn't too much left to really fear but maybe the unknown and actually the unknown isn't really that scary anymore. Thanks for posting this topic incidius and you are right, it does help to talk about it. :-)
Take care,
Glo (hugs)
just came back to this thread today i had no idea you had went thru all that sleepless! i must say i am impressed at how youve pulled urself up and especially staying as upbeat as you have youre obviously a very strong woman. and yes it does help (hug hug)later

davidben1's photo
Sun 10/24/10 05:36 PM
the op wanted to know "the worst another has done to self"...

and the title of the thread was "betrayal", of course, TO SELF...

lol...

if that is not staring at self pain, i don't know what is, lol...

carry on, what the **** do i care?

you must have me mistaken as a clone of youself...

expand the self ignorance until it burst thes inflated stagent air of the stench of death, nothing more then emotional flatulence that smells sweet to the self sympathiser, risen to the head and sucked out all the brains, leaving nothing but hollow void as space as good knowing, lol...

it was not asked, WHAT VALUABLE LESSON'S HAS SELF LEARNED FROM BEING TREATED LIKE ****....

hello....

oh, but do proceed into the mouth of the self dragon, that steals all essence of life, and leave nothing but a dead rotten carcass...

who would want a dead rotten carcass anyhow, lol...

those create their own hell's into existence....

march on little self declared demander's of self sympathy, and hater's of whom doth not provide it, and to blind to even see, it was provided, BUT IT DIDN'T MATCH THE LIST OF APPROVED WORDS OF 'SELF'...

oh....

i think shall weep, for just a moment...

oh my god, the pain is soooooooooooooooooo great.......

sorry.......

please allow me to compose myself...

drip, drip, drip....

tick tock...

tick tock...

tick tock...

ok.

wow, oh the happiness just overwhelm...

of ocurse, for all that don't such on the nipple of the womb their own pain.





of course, that which focus on it's own pain, and soothe it's wounds, but only know how to demand how other's should speak, do, lol...

the very opposing response is proof the assertion's laid out are indeed, totally true, lol...

but prove to yourself what you wish...

and was the "empathy included" in the first post not read...

of course not, that which stare at it's own pain soon comes to only hear what only comforts itself...

all evil, violence, inner frustration, abuse, comes first by way of another, taking it out on another?

so, these access their OWN PAIN MOST.

so believe whatever you want...

do believe what ya want...

why the **** do you think i would base any knowing on

of course, that is why when another they rape, harm, abuse, cries out in pain, THEY DON'T ****ING HEAR IT.

because FIRST, there own pain was supreme, then, CAME THEIR OWN WANT AS SUPREME, and THEN, a TOTAL TAKER MENTALITY, WILLING TO INDUCE PAIN, TO GET WHAT SELF WANTS...



so, that which stares at the pain of other's, would know a perp from across the other side of the world...

they can NEVER be taken advantage of, as the birth and width of the perception is increased, because self no longer access's it's own "bad", betrayal, pain, worst circumstance, abuse...

i don't need any cheering up, venus, because i don't fixate or even look at my own pain, so it cannot be created into existence...

oh, and by the way, did ya miss all the empathy,






Ruth34611's photo
Sun 10/24/10 05:38 PM
huh

davidben1's photo
Sun 10/24/10 05:56 PM
grrrrrrrrrrr....

tears tears tears tears tears tears tears

omg, i think i might be eaten by a mean smiley face...

****, PEEOPLE ARE BEING MEAN TO ME!

SOMEBODY OUT THERE HEEEEEEEEEEELP.

is there anybody that cares...

the world is soooooooooooooooooo mean....

nobody understands my "pain"....

damn.

in think i shall find a women, that will soothe my wounds...

please, tell me how it was not my fault...

please, convince me THEY were the problem...

oh how the self starer, self accessor, self sympathiser, reduce itself to pathetic, all a long, hating what speak not like itself, and backing itself into it's own prison, a prisoner of the words of other's, lol...

all one has to do is say boo, and these jump...

so ****ing easily manipulated, and taken from, because it was all somebody else fault...

lol...

grow a ****ing hide, and make self immune to pain from any words, or live in a dungeon, and cry, like a little baby, about things that happened years...

speak the past right into the now...

oh how the crier doth mourn for itself.

which be what caused it to seek out the company of that which stared at it's own pain, so of course, TAKE FROM OTHER'S, all the while hollering how other's are the betrayer's, lol...

and does one hear the OTHER HALF, of all all the bad self did in these soothing seesion's?

hell ****ing no.

frown, pout, call other's lunactic's, kindergarten be in seesion...

hell yea, lets get on the kindergarten games...

let the special olympic's begin...

oh, i just looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove pain.

oh somebody, please, give me another dose of that good ole fashioned pain.

hang me up by my nipples, and make that knurple purple...

lol...

carry on oh wayward brain power, that leaks out the eye's with every self tear.

damn, this is fun...

i like embracin my pain.

i believe i have become a convert.

omg...

but i ran away anybody to sooooooooooooooooooothe me?

uh oh.

guess i gotta just live in misery.

free the pee brain, give up the betrayal and the pain, and look at how self betrayed others, be an adult and give up the pain stutter, say the eye in the sky, the demon from on high, the devil in disguise, that rattle all the shutter's, and slam every door, to get the blamer off the floor.

ditto's my fellow betrayed.








venusenvy's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:00 PM

grrrrrrrrrrr....

tears tears tears tears tears tears tears

omg, i think i might be eaten by a mean smiley face...

****, PEEOPLE ARE BEING MEAN TO ME!

SOMEBODY OUT THERE HEEEEEEEEEEELP.

is there anybody that cares...

the world is soooooooooooooooooo mean....

nobody understands my "pain"....

damn.

in think i shall find a women, that will soothe my wounds...

please, tell me how it was not my fault...

please, convince me THEY were the problem...

oh how the self starer, self accessor, self sympathiser, reduce itself to pathetic, all a long, hating what speak not like itself, and backing itself into it's own prison, a prisoner of the words of other's, lol...

all one has to do is say boo, and these jump...

so ****ing easily manipulated, and taken from, because it was all somebody else fault...

lol...

grow a ****ing hide, and make self immune to pain from any words, or live in a dungeon, and cry, like a little baby, about things that happened years...

speak the past right into the now...

oh how the crier doth mourn for itself.

which be what caused it to seek out the company of that which stared at it's own pain, so of course, TAKE FROM OTHER'S, all the while hollering how other's are the betrayer's, lol...

and does one hear the OTHER HALF, of all all the bad self did in these soothing seesion's?

hell ****ing no.

frown, pout, call other's lunactic's, kindergarten be in seesion...

hell yea, lets get on the kindergarten games...

let the special olympic's begin...

oh, i just looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove pain.

oh somebody, please, give me another dose of that good ole fashioned pain.

hang me up by my nipples, and make that knurple purple...

lol...

carry on oh wayward brain power, that leaks out the eye's with every self tear.

damn, this is fun...

i like embracin my pain.

i believe i have become a convert.

omg...

but i ran away anybody to sooooooooooooooooooothe me?

uh oh.

guess i gotta just live in misery.

free the pee brain, give up the betrayal and the pain, and look at how self betrayed others, be an adult and give up the pain stutter, say the eye in the sky, the demon from on high, the devil in disguise, that rattle all the shutter's, and slam every door, to get the blamer off the floor.

ditto's my fellow betrayed.











Arrogance is the worst human trait dotcha think??


thayet153's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:03 PM
abuse me and cheat on mesad2

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:05 PM



Arrogance is the worst human trait dotcha think??



:thumbsup:

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Sun 10/24/10 06:07 PM
you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:

venusenvy's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:12 PM

you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:



Awww ManO

vivian2981's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:12 PM

you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:

whoa

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Sun 10/24/10 06:14 PM


you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:



Awww ManO
blushing

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Sun 10/24/10 06:14 PM


you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:

whoa

spock

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Sun 10/24/10 06:15 PM


you people are hurting my arrogant feelings :cry:


Tell me about self and selfs pain.tears

Lets stare at our miserable company. tears
ok, go ahead..:tongue:

incidius's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:34 PM
Edited by incidius on Sun 10/24/10 06:37 PM


Arrogance is the worst human trait dotcha think??


Agreed. I am at this moment unable to think of a more annoying one. Is narcisism the same thing?
no but narcisism is the main ingredient of arrogance and being omnipotent doesn't hurt either

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:43 PM
Putting energy and focus into how and why I betrayed those I love seems to serve me better than to wallow in what was 'done' to me...

southern_bee's photo
Sun 10/24/10 06:43 PM
which ex..every man ive been with has always done something to piss me off laugh

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Sun 10/24/10 06:49 PM

which ex..every man ive been with has always done something to piss me off laugh
huh