my lesbian girl friend is out of touch since i left for london. we had planned a long distance relationship but it has been 2 weeks and i have not received even a single text from her. I keep on texting her day and night...i messaged her friend and received a reply that my gf is out of cell phone credit!!!
after getting badly ignored, i joined this place. but i still can't get her out of my mind! she has possessed me but now i can't find her!
I love her, I know ... I've always known the fact that she loves me too....but tell me, is this fair???

LDR is a hard one to work on.....esp if only one partner is working at it......



Guess she is not......so



try to move on....yea its hard but you can do it!!!!!

LDRs are the toughest. I see this as a fade away though.

you can put things on the back burner and see where they go and TRY to be patient BUT the reality is it takes two to tango. If the other person is not following the lead of the other there is no dancing.

Really I see you having to move on. you partner may not have had the heart to say goodbye. Sucks but that is a possibility.

Maybe you should write her a letter....tell her how you feel....will probably make you feel better....and it does get better....promise

i have been in a ldr before and yeah it can be hard and very trying.

two weeks is a long time to be out of touch even if it was because of no cell phone credit. i could understand maybe a weeek but two.

anyways ...sounds like they're saying how they feel n what they want without saying it to you.

i have to say that a talk is in order with this person....ask them whats up....if they have had a change of heart or what. and if you cant get a hold of her...then yeh ...a letter would be just a sgood to at least get your thoughts n feelings out.

hope it works out for you

best of luck

Im sorry your hurting time heals all

I agree 100%...........................

My thoughts and prayers are with U in this difficult time U are going through!! Hang in there, things will get better!!

Shshshssh if she is out of minutes then send her money to pay the bill........

I personally think you should come back to the winning side guys always text back =)

you dont mention how long you two have been together..if its only been for a short while, it could be she just wasnt honest enough with you to let you know "out of sight out of mind"..if you two have a serious LTR, then maybe you just need to find a way to get in touch with her and find out what is up with her end of the deal...

good luck..personally I dont believe in LDR..

Hahahaha ya know for some reason I have a hard time believing that and hell I'm straight.......

Doesn't she have a computer? Or access to an email? You could always use snail mail to find out if she just isnt feelin it anymore.

arghh!! her system is all messed up! :(

That would be awesome :) Thanks... I'll write it!!

We were together for almost a year!! ...

hmmm....let me think over this!

O thank u very much !!