im new to this and i think im a decently attractive guy but so far i havent even gotten so much as a match. im just wondering if i did something. wrong. so if you got an idea or something to help me let me know please. thanks for your time

You are adorable!! Maybe not the word you are looking for, but considering that I am probably old enough to be your mom, or at least your very favorite and coolest aunt, I thought I would play nice. As soon as I saw Oceanside and saw that short hair, I thought Marine.....nice. I am shocked you are not getting any hits, back in my day, I would have been all over you. I used to live in Oceanside, my oldest daughter was born on Camp Pen. Keep your chin up, you'll be drowning in women before you know it.

Its best to participate in the forums. Then people get to know the inside as well as the out.

With the age you have listed, you will
not be showing up in any searches.

for one how the hell do u know this from your first post? for 2 im off to look!

Best advice!

ok here it is.. hot body! is there something else u wanted to hear? cause your profile doesnt say much at all... effort gets you places.. im not seeing any.. other than you are relying on your body... hot damn and i thought i was old! .. ok i hope u dont take that to heart .. i am blunt! but most truthful! good luck on here!

Your age is wrong so that might be putting you out of some searches. I don't think anyone is looking for a 1812 year old boyfriend other than that... it is a pretty good profile for what you must be looking for because you are hot.

I think it would be better if you said more about yourself and what kind of person you are. There's not enough detail in your profile to attract someone's interest.

I know your interests are listed, but I'm not sure how much attention anyone pays to that - in the same way that most people don't 'read' a telephone directory.

Take the time to write a paragraph about yourself, what you like to do, what you're looking for etc.

thanks everyone for all the help had no idea my age was wrong. and i will add alittle more to the about me section

From someone nearly old enough to be your father, I'd say that you need to share something personal about yourself. Also, instead of saying something negative about girls from the past, talk about positive qualities that you would appreciate in ladies in the future.

I get it. You are attractive, sexy, fun-loving, but do you do anything that isn't just fun or is there something deeper about you. Please take this as helpful advice, not a criticism or an attack on your person.

Hang out in the forums - while you meet and get to know the ones who post regularly, a bunch of others who never post will still see you too - it'll increase your response rate.


Nice "V"


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