I noticed, that many women complain of not finding the right guy or being unlucky getting the attention.

Then, in many cases, women thinks that she is "sending out all the right signals" and still no attention.

Well, I got news for you. Smiling and looking pretty won't cut it. Maybe in a bar, with guys vs. girls in a 3:1 ratio, but not online.

Women have to realize, that if a guy want to see naked women, they just type in "naked women" or "boobs" into google and boom, magically there are millions of them.

Same with profiles. Just having a profile posted (at any dating site) will not guarantee you anything. Doesn't matter what kind of a photo you got. Sitting and waiting wont' do it on the internet. You either really send a signal (email) or not. Y

You gotta realize, that guys are getting hundreds of spam mails and fake profiles and emails from fake girls who are really some guy who wants their credit card number , so many guys became sort of immune to just being "attracted" to a certain profile. They will not budge if you don't "budge" them.

Huh!
Well I'm a real girl.
I get email from lots of men in 3rd world countries who would very much like to marry me. I think mostly for the ability to live in America.
I would love to meet a man who really wants an adult level relationship.
Is that reasonable???

Very!

It happens to women too Atlantis. I think we've all had our fill of fake profiles, scammers and trolls. I've had an unusually high number of then lately again.

Women send out emails all the time that go unreturned and ignored as well. It is the nature of this 2D communication medium.

I agree that we need to have much more to offer than a picture. Why do you think my hand is over my face? Anyone that talks with me knows I go much deeper than anything they could 'see'.

But still. It seems to be pictures that capture 'most' people's attention. I deleted the majority of my profile quite some time ago. It was an experiment of sorts but I think it safe to say that very few men ever read it.

I like boobs...google you say????

Absolutely, I think an adult level relationship should be first and foremost in any relationship.

Men are adults?!

It's a LIE!!!!

Of course.
A male-female relationship won't work well if both people are children.

This is absolutely true. I can't even tell you how many times someone has asked me "Didn't you see her flirting with you?" and I have no idea what he's talking about. Who? Flirting? When? I must be missing a chromosome or something, because I'm totally oblivious to whatever this "flirting" thing is supposed to be.

Somebody wants me to pick up on something along those lines, they're going to have to make it really really clear. I'm not saying rent a billboard, although that would probably help.



And they won't try as hard to change me, either.



What makes it worse is that the scammers actually have better profiles than the "real girls." Which isn't saying much....

Right.......I see the prediciment more clearly now......

this is a dating site???

Thank you-I thought I was being reasonable.
What I wrote in my profile is very truthful. I can't account for what others write.
I have written to men first on mingle, and gotten mixed responses. Some guys seem very suspicious when I write to them.....?

Participation on the forums seems to help with the 'suspicious' responses. There are many connections that have been made between those that post on the forums.... some that have ended ... others that have lead to marriage.

Sooooo....you come around here often?