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Topic: who feels it's better to wait til marriage before having sex
xman2000's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:16 PM
just a question to see what different people views are on the subject

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:18 PM
again?????...no friggin way!!!!!:heart:

Chishio's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:20 PM
I agree strongly.

msharmony's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:20 PM

just a question to see what different people views are on the subject



I think its better, but much much more difficult

Dodo_David's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:41 PM
I am not a moderator, but it seems to me that this thread may be on the wrong board.


Welcome anyway, xman2000.

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:45 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 10/06/10 02:48 PM
I would never wait until I was married to have sex with someone. Sex is way too important: from the mechanics to the esthetics.

What if two people are not sexually compatible?

What if one is not as experienced or too sheltered to have an open sexual relationship – ie, they are boring in bed, they can't please their partner or are unwilling to learn new things (too up tight).

What if appearances are not pleasing? To use a bad example (sorry), I don’t care how yummy certain dishes are, if the presentation on the dinner plate is not appealing, I’m not eating. I like pretty body parts, and parts that are of a certain size ( winking ). I want to know he is circumcised, that he shaves below the belt, and that he is knows good hygiene.

Sexual chemistry is very important. It is a big cog in the entire machine of marriage.

For me, I need to know before I make the life-long commitment.

no photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:49 PM
I would never get married again, but I hope to have sex some time in the future.

no photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:53 PM
Naaaagh!Throw caution into the wind.Slide one of them fire & ice condoms on & dive right into that warm,glistening taco.:tongue: laugh

boredinaz06's photo
Wed 10/06/10 02:54 PM



Absolutely not

no photo
Wed 10/06/10 03:29 PM
No way!!! Sex is all part of getting to know the other person.

msharmony's photo
Wed 10/06/10 03:42 PM

I would never wait until I was married to have sex with someone. Sex is way too important: from the mechanics to the esthetics.

What if two people are not sexually compatible?

What if one is not as experienced or too sheltered to have an open sexual relationship – ie, they are boring in bed, they can't please their partner or are unwilling to learn new things (too up tight).

What if appearances are not pleasing? To use a bad example (sorry), I don’t care how yummy certain dishes are, if the presentation on the dinner plate is not appealing, I’m not eating. I like pretty body parts, and parts that are of a certain size ( winking ). I want to know he is circumcised, that he shaves below the belt, and that he is knows good hygiene.

Sexual chemistry is very important. It is a big cog in the entire machine of marriage.

For me, I need to know before I make the life-long commitment.




I respect that, but to me instant chemistry isnt the norm or the reasonable expectation

sexual chemistry is learned through communication and interaction,,,for me anyhow

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:04 PM
I perfer to wait.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:05 PM
why start then?

msharmony's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:08 PM
why start what?,...lol

USmale47374's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:15 PM
I think that waiting until you're married to have sex is a very unwise idea. Sexual compatibility is essential for a successful marriage. Why wait until after you're married to determine whether you should have married at all?

msharmony's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:16 PM
Edited by msharmony on Wed 10/06/10 04:17 PM

I think that waiting until you're married to have sex is a very unwise idea. Sexual compatibility is essential for a successful marriage. Why wait until after you're married to determine whether you should have married at all?



well that all depends upon whether sex is the reason for the marriage

there are many other and more important ingredients to a successful marriage/relationship, in my opinion, and when those things work the sexual chemistry is not hard to develop

beautyfrompain's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:18 PM
[Yquote]

I think that waiting until you're married to have sex is a very unwise idea. Sexual compatibility is essential for a successful marriage. Why wait until after you're married to determine whether you should have married at all?



well that all depends upon whether sex is the reason for the marriage

there are many other and more important ingredients to a successful marriage/relationship, in my opinion, and when those things work the sexual chemistry is not hard to develop

Exactly

Lpdon's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:24 PM
What's sex? :laughing:

mightymoe's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:28 PM

why start what?,...lol


not big on sex...

AndyBgood's photo
Wed 10/06/10 04:34 PM
NO WAY! If I am not tapping it I am not waiting. I have a rule a relationship has to last two years before I even begin to consider it. There is no way I can live with a woman for two years like that and NOT be tapping it repeatedly.

There is nothing wrong with pre-marital sex as long as it is done responsibly. All that religious stuff is a lie.

Why be stuck with a woman who will not learn to move around under me while in bed? Dead lays are the worst!

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