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Topic: should i want revenge?
blueeyedcutie93's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:15 PM
Edited by blueeyedcutie93 on Fri 10/01/10 04:18 PM
i jus recently met a guy and rlly strtd t like him alot.... i had swore off relationships for a while and he was the first in 6 months . we had been together for 4 days b4 i found out he was cheating.i found the evidence on facebook n of course he lied to

suncandy25's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:18 PM
Let it go, life is too short.

kc0003's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:21 PM
no, revenge is a short lived sensation.

what you should do is be an adult, put him in your past where he belongs and move on with your life.

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:21 PM
Revenge? That's really not for good people... You dated 4 days, that's not long enough to know if you and a person are going to click for a while let alone forever... I'd let it go and move on....

gosiaczek's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:54 PM
theres no point for revenge karma will get him

no photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:57 PM
Don't even waste any of your time and energy thinking about that stuff. He's not worth it.

mightymoe's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:57 PM
GO GET HIM- teach him a lesson... he's just making all us men look bad

Loy822's photo
Fri 10/01/10 04:58 PM
Personal opinion, but 4 days is more like the beginning of a relationship. Some never take off.

pfarro1's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:06 PM
I would say be glad you learned early, rather than getting totally attached.

pfarro1's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:06 PM
I would say be glad you learned early, rather than getting totally attached.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:14 PM
Sorry I can not say that 4 days constitutes a relationship............And I'm sure he did not see that he was committed either or he would not have been dating other people.

It is always best to ask the other person if they are actually seeing others or have the intention on doing so before sleeping with them..

The way I see it it is best to chalk it up to karma and move on......

no photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:15 PM
A disadvantage to extracting revenge upon another is that your own peace of mind is forsaken.Godspeed!Cy :smile: flowerforyou

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:29 PM

i jus recently met a guy and rlly strtd t like him alot.... i had swore off relationships for a while and he was the first in 6 months . we had been together for 4 days b4 i found out he was cheating.i found the evidence on facebook n of course he lied to


blueeyedcutie93,

Did this guy say that he would date nobody else but you?

If he was just starting out with you, then he may not have been sure that you would be right for him. He may not have been certain of you enough to dump the other woman.

The ball is in your court. Compete with the other woman, or dump the guy.

mightymoe's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:42 PM


i jus recently met a guy and rlly strtd t like him alot.... i had swore off relationships for a while and he was the first in 6 months . we had been together for 4 days b4 i found out he was cheating.i found the evidence on facebook n of course he lied to


blueeyedcutie93,

Did this guy say that he would date nobody else but you?

If he was just starting out with you, then he may not have been sure that you would be right for him. He may not have been certain of you enough to dump the other woman.

The ball is in your court. Compete with the other woman, or dump the guy.
thats crap and you know it...he is playing the field... if you just started dating someone and then found they had a current BF, Would you trust her not to do the same to you? a liar is a liar....

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:54 PM
4days!!!!!!...your kidding right???


after 4 days i would lmao and walk away!:heart:

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 10/01/10 05:59 PM
Ask him if he likes herpes just to screw with his head!

no photo
Fri 10/01/10 06:05 PM
4 days huh whoa

bgeorge's photo
Fri 10/01/10 06:18 PM
i don't think four days a relationship makes, which negates the cheating theory...i do think it would be fun to take andy's advice just for kicks...

no photo
Fri 10/01/10 06:19 PM
4 days...relationship...cheating...

um, sorry but none of these words should be included in the same paragraph...

it was sex..hopefully, for you, it was GOOD sex....consider it a loooong one-nite stand and move on.

mightymoe's photo
Fri 10/01/10 06:24 PM
he's not cheating on blueeyes, he's cheating on his girlfriend...
wake up people...

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