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Topic: Lets go topicless... - part 89
vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Wed 09/29/10 05:53 PM
I'll be OK...just surprised at my reaction is all...I'll quit talking about it now Mary, I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings...that wasn't my intentions..please believe that. No one wants you to stop talking about it, talking always helps...I just want you to be mad at that person, and not let it put you in a position where you are scared all the time. I live an entirely different lifestyle than you...I can't even imagine waiting on a bus to take me anywhere. Hell for that matter I can't imagine living in a city! That alone would scare the bejesus out of me! I can't tell you how to handle any thing. I don't know what you know, or live where you live. I have no experience of it. But I will tell you something that happened to me when I was 22. I was living in a small town where we never locked our doors. One day a stranger came to my back door. he had his arm in a sling. Needed to use the phone. I turned around to show him where it was. He pulled a knife on me. My two babies were taking a nap. You can guess what happened. I survived it. and never again was I without some type of protection. It could have destroyed me, but I didn't let it.

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Wed 09/29/10 05:57 PM
I'll be OK...just surprised at my reaction is all...I'll quit talking about it now Mary, I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings...that wasn't my intentions..please believe that. No one wants you to stop talking about it, talking always helps...I just want you to be mad at that person, and not let it put you in a position where you are scared all the time. I live an entirely different lifestyle than you...I can't even imagine waiting on a bus to take me anywhere. Hell for that matter I can't imagine living in a city! That alone would scare the bejesus out of me! I can't tell you how to handle any thing. I don't know what you know, or live where you live. I have no experience of it. But I will tell you something that happened to me when I was 22. I was living in a small town where we never locked our doors. One day a stranger came to my back door. he had his arm in a sling. Needed to use the phone. I turned around to show him where it was. He pulled a knife on me. My two babies were taking a nap. You can guess what happened. I survived it. and never again was I without some type of protection. It could have destroyed me, but I didn't let it. I wasn't taking offense Vivian, just decided it was time to shut up...I am handling it. We ALL have our past secrets....I REALLY do understand and sorry that that happened to you Vivian....we are strong women....I am a survivor...I WILL HANDLE THIS.....just taking me a moment, ya know? I am such a trusting person...can't change that in me...I refuse to become an angry bitter person...it would serve no one and make me miserable. I am fine, REALLY.

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Wed 09/29/10 06:00 PM
I'll be OK...just surprised at my reaction is all...I'll quit talking about it now if it helps to talk about it were ALL here for you Mary I know Tim, but I HAVE to be strong...I am the head of the family, I cannot be weak so I will shut up and put on my big girl panties...however I have pulled them up so many times now that the elastic is starting to break.... nice graphic Mary

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:05 PM
Back from suvivor.

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Wed 09/29/10 06:07 PM
I'll be OK...just surprised at my reaction is all...I'll quit talking about it now if it helps to talk about it were ALL here for you Mary I know Tim, but I HAVE to be strong...I am the head of the family, I cannot be weak so I will shut up and put on my big girl panties...however I have pulled them up so many times now that the elastic is starting to break.... nice graphic Mary Thought you'd like that

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Wed 09/29/10 06:08 PM
Back from suvivor.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Wed 09/29/10 06:08 PM
Back from suvivor. I am glad that you survived.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:10 PM
Yeah it was a challenge

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Wed 09/29/10 06:11 PM
Yeah it was a challenge But you beat the one legged woman and the old man with bad knees...

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:14 PM
Well I hate to see Jimmy Johnson go

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 09/29/10 06:15 PM
Beautiful day here too but I am inside too scared to venture outside. My neighbor is taking me to work tomorrow because I am too terrified to wait for the bus now. I will try on Friday. I kept having flashbacks all night... OK TEAM....talk some sense into me...it was stuff that was taken from me, I wasn't physically harmed so why am I acting like a BIG scaredy cat baby????? Tho I walk thru the valley of evil, I fear not. for I carry a BIG **ING STICK way to go Jerry!! good advice! I'd carry a big **ing gun but that's illegal

5x10 Joined Fri 01/30/09 Posts: 9017	Wed 09/29/10 06:16 PM
How was everyone's Hump Day? Things better at work Tim and have you hooked back up with your friend yet?

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:20 PM
Me and my assitant manager got into it Monday she is such a pain. Glad the first half of the week is over.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 09/29/10 06:20 PM
Well I hate to see Jimmy Johnson go I never thought I would like JJ but I liked him on surivor, sorry to see him go....but wasn't he OLD

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:21 PM
Beautiful day here too but I am inside too scared to venture outside. My neighbor is taking me to work tomorrow because I am too terrified to wait for the bus now. I will try on Friday. I kept having flashbacks all night... OK TEAM....talk some sense into me...it was stuff that was taken from me, I wasn't physically harmed so why am I acting like a BIG scaredy cat baby????? Tho I walk thru the valley of evil, I fear not. for I carry a BIG **ING STICK way to go Jerry!! good advice! I'd carry a big **ing gun but that's illegal I'd like to go to a shooting range some time. Maybe I twist my son in laws arm.

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 09/29/10 06:22 PM
How was everyone's Hump Day? Things better at work Tim and have you hooked back up with your friend yet? the day was ok, went to see Wall Street. It was pretty good..

manOfewwords Joined Wed 10/22/08 Posts: 29908	Wed 09/29/10 06:22 PM
Beautiful day here too but I am inside too scared to venture outside. My neighbor is taking me to work tomorrow because I am too terrified to wait for the bus now. I will try on Friday. I kept having flashbacks all night... OK TEAM....talk some sense into me...it was stuff that was taken from me, I wasn't physically harmed so why am I acting like a BIG scaredy cat baby????? Tho I walk thru the valley of evil, I fear not. for I carry a BIG **ING STICK way to go Jerry!! good advice! I'd carry a big **ing gun but that's illegal I'd like to go to a shooting range some time. Maybe I twist my son in laws arm. you should learn to shoot.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:22 PM
Well I hate to see Jimmy Johnson go I never thought I would like JJ but I liked him on surivor, sorry to see him go....but wasn't he OLD Well the guy with the stiff knee looks really depressed.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Wed 09/29/10 06:24 PM
Beautiful day here too but I am inside too scared to venture outside. My neighbor is taking me to work tomorrow because I am too terrified to wait for the bus now. I will try on Friday. I kept having flashbacks all night... OK TEAM....talk some sense into me...it was stuff that was taken from me, I wasn't physically harmed so why am I acting like a BIG scaredy cat baby????? Tho I walk thru the valley of evil, I fear not. for I carry a BIG **ING STICK way to go Jerry!! good advice! I'd carry a big **ing gun but that's illegal I'd like to go to a shooting range some time. Maybe I twist my son in laws arm. you should learn to shoot. I think so too

SolitaryMan52402 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 21147	Wed 09/29/10 06:24 PM
Beautiful day here too but I am inside too scared to venture outside. My neighbor is taking me to work tomorrow because I am too terrified to wait for the bus now. I will try on Friday. I kept having flashbacks all night... OK TEAM....talk some sense into me...it was stuff that was taken from me, I wasn't physically harmed so why am I acting like a BIG scaredy cat baby????? Tho I walk thru the valley of evil, I fear not. for I carry a BIG **ING STICK way to go Jerry!! good advice! I'd carry a big **ing gun but that's illegal not if you have a permit, and it will be easer to get one after the 1st of the year