It takes time.

The hell you say!

Just watch out for the orange tabby, she can be a testy b*atch when she ain't had her murnin coffee

Lots of time

First impression - seems to me that your family are the cause of your problem here. You should not feel pressured. It's not like nipping out to the supermarket for a tin of beans this dating thing. I am sure that when the time is right FOR YOU - then you will meet up with someone special - HEY - maybe just like waiting for a bus in the UK, you end up waiting for ages - then four come along at once ....

At the end of the day though - please don't allow anyone to pressure you. Dating and relationships are just one part of life - and overall - life should be FUN.

Let's be honest here. Majority of us, when we first signed up to a site like Mingle, all figured that we would be dating right off the bat, and eventually after a couple of weeks we would meet "the one". Sounds silly right? But that is the type of expectations that a lot of people have. Most dating sites claims that their results are so fast. Eharmony, Perfect Match...both claim how awesome their matchmaking is. And, they claim that it happens so quickly. And, like it or not, most people fall for that. So, of course their are high and lofty expectations when it comes to online dating. And it becomes frustrating.

Bottom line. If you are gonna leave a site due to frustration cause it isn't working on your timetable, then best of luck to ya. However, if you can relax, chill and flirt for a bit, then you never know. Anyways, I can't post anymore serious stuff today. So....yeah....I love Hookers. Peace!

People keep saying they want to meet The One...Jet Li sure is popular.

Of course he is. I would marry him.

Who is JetLi? Is that a new member? Is he cute? Blonde? Tall?? Lemme at 'em!!

He has body hair Melody. Sorry. He just won't suffice for you.

I think my sister in law did a movie with him. Maybe it was Jackie Chan I'm thinking of.......

Do you consider 5' 6" tall?

What he lacks in height he makes up for in the ability to decapitate people at will.

Oh, he's an actor. I've never heard of him. Eeew! Not my type.

I've heard of Jackie Chan. He's pretty funny. Jeff, that's cool your sis has done movie projects.

although Im no fan of games, sometimes reverse psychology works


I found that posting my disinterest in twenty somethings actually resulted in a pretty high number of twenty somethings contacting me,,,lol

perhaps you should state that you arent interested in dating,,, or is that what you are doing,,,,

i have NO interest in sex AT all!!

I think you've got a point there. Because I never get contacted by the kind of people I'm looking for, but I'm practically inundated with the ones I'm not....perverse contrarianism or what?

Hummm because what you put out in the universe you get back. Maybe what you want and need are two different things. And there is a learning process so who knows

You never heard of jetli I don't watch his movies but I've heard of him. Kinda of like Bruce Li I don't know if he is funny like Jackie Chan.

I had to kick has azz the other day...he ate the last piece of watermelon...