I've been 5 months on this website and cheap enough not to sign with Zoosk, my current results are bad 'cause of my stupid high standards but I have to realize that I'm being a little unrealistic. However, everytime I try to seem to click with someone on here, the person dissappears or something. Guess I have bad luck??? Aghhhhhhhh I don't know what to do. I hate being single :( and I hate perverts and guys that just want sex.

hmmm...what is it you're looking for that everyone seems to fail at?

i don't think there is as many people on here as the site says there is...at least active people.

i'm just getting back on here,met a few that are friends an have ben for a few years,,,,,,don't push th fact of looking for that special someone,,,,,,,it will just happen one day

fla is the wrong state to live in if you dislike "pervs".

i myself am a level 6 perv. testing for 7th later this month.

Hey I think I've seen you on craigslist btw????

Idk, for some reason the guys that send me messages do it so merely because they think I'm cute and they just have one thing in mind.

Yeah, well.. That will happen. These types of sites never usually pan out.

Keep your chin up hazel and don't give up hope. Just beware of scammers, was on here a week and had someone who I thought was really cool, suddenly ask about money. So keep the faith but be careful. Just enjoy meeting new people and it will happen, maybe not on here, but you have the chance to make some new friends

yeah...unfortunately i feel that there are more of those than real people

Love happens when we least expect it. It just sneaks right in and smacks you upside your head

I feel the same way. But I'm trying not to give up hope.

What kind of standards do you have? I'm interested. I'm still a virgin boy so sex is the last thing on my mind lol. Also an Air Force worker if that's a plus ^^.

^^ her standards are too high for some virgin who calls himself a boy, and who didn't take note to the fact that the account has been deactivated.

you = fail.

good job, i hope you feel special now.

I have been on here for a few months myself and even though I get messages and lots of profile 'looks', nothing ever comes of it. I am also on Plenty of Fish and have more responses there than here.
Still, no dates. Orlando is a strange town and it's always been like that. People run with their own little circles and 'clicks' and it's hard for outsiders to make friends.
It's especially difficult for women my age: 56. Seems like men want younger ladies because they look better.
What is surprising to me and I found this out when I joined these sites is, a lot of men my age and older are raising young children and it's because they married younger women who wanted a family. Some of the women got tired of their older husbands so they left them for men in their own age group, leaving the kids with the dad.
I can't tell you how many profiles I have seen where the guy is raising his kids.
The men are looking for a lady to help them. I tell them that I have already raised my kids and don't want to do it again. It was tough enough the first time around!! lol.

I really don't know what the answer is to meeting anyone. It's more difficult for me because I don't drink or hang out in bars and clubs. Those days are gone. I'm not going to start going to the Moose club or VFW!! Not going to play bingo either.

hey im new and jus figured id see wats up