I am barely a member here for one month. It seems like a lot of people lack sense of humor or common sense. What gives. If you don't get it, why reply? It's fun to mingle but funny how clickish it can be here as well. Just a thought as I read through different peoples threads.

Hello and welcome. I have found that this site has a lot of people with a great sense of humor, some very funny, some not so funny, but like everything else in life, it's interpretive.

As for the cliques, don't really agree, there are those that have been online and have known eachother for a longer period of time or just agree on certain topics, but then again guess it's interpretive as well.

Join the forums, meet more people and you will be having a blast

ohhhhh boy......

ya notice????


most put their heads in the sand and don't say word one....


But if ya been here long enough...ya see one clique fadess...and then another begin...and its usually the same old/same old really saying little if anything ya know...


I am soooooo proud I dont fall into it.....It takes real self confidence....to keep your self apart from it(watch what happens now!)

ok now lets make this thread just you and me...and we will let in only those we deem worthy........


just kiddding.....

cool and we can tell inside jokes that only we get and make fun of all the "idiots who try and reply, cuz they wont get it" LOL j/k.

Just an observation

I can not answer you......that would constitute "cliqish" behavior......

but i will tell ya this....


I like ya girl!!!!

Yeah...like you remember that one time Oceanbluze was all "let's tell inside jokes" and Tammy was all "that would be cliquish." And I was all, "remember that you guys said that." LOL!

I mean LO-effing-L!!!

hey stay outta this clique!!!!


You dont know us!!!!!

wait, I dont get it, you guys are idiots! LOL

Mingle has always been cliquish, but it's not nearly as bad as it used to be.

Many people here do have a good sense of humor, though. Perhaps it's just different than yours?

I wasn't talking about me. I have been browsing the forums for about a month. It's a lot of people on both ends. Those who are ignorant and those who are just trying to mingle and have a good time.

Just an observation in general. Some threads I read but never post on, its present there as well.

This is absolutely true. When I first signed up, there was a clique of "originals" who did everything they could to keep new people OFF the site! Thankfully, that crew is no longer here (as far as I can tell).

The "cliques" that exist now -- and I'm not even sure that's the right word anymore -- are few in number, and not particularly interesting to interact with. Frankly, if they want to do the occasional 47-page thread with only the 6 of them making all the posts, I figure that's OK -- I know what to avoid!



There are a lot of people here with a great sense of humor. But it's true that there are some who seem to have undergone one or more humorectomies. I don't let that have any impact on what I post. Nobody is forcing them to read it, and God only knows nobody can help them understand it.

Thanks Lex, that makes a lot of sense seriously, you totally are getting the point right now.

It's really not bad anymore at all. There aren't people who are extremely rude to new members or members outside of their little circle. That's a good thing.

Definitely. You never see the kind of blatant, egregious incivility that some of the "old cliques" brandished so spectacularly a few years back.

What it is now is just the occasional group of totally insular individuals. They're not rude to anybody, in the proactive sense, they just ignore anyone who isn't part of their crowd.

Which is OK, because once you've identified them -- and there aren't really all that many, although some do tend to post a lot -- you can all the more easily avoid them.

I have a sense a humor.
It's a sense of direction that I have trouble with.
[I knew I should have made that left at planet Neptune.]

I have gotten old and crotchety here, and some if not most would say I have lost my sense of humor..........and they are probably right.





Now get off my lawn.

hehehehehe had visions of Gran Torino on that one.


Me...I got no sense of humor but me and my pecker are our own clique...we tried being an Army of one but that didnt work out...I insisted that my johnson get its own bunk and helmet. They wouldnt go for it so now I am here to snub everyone....except for me....and my pecker.

I don't tell people to get off my lawn.
I let my security personnel take care of trespassers.

I have a sense of humor. I crack myself up. Just try and not take it so serious. Of course people end up in threads with there friends. Isn't that the very point of a social site. I have never seen anyone blatantly harrassed or anything..............

Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves, for they will always be amused.