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Do you want to know how many sex partners your date or partner has had in their life?
What difference does it make? Do you classify the "good" partners like LTRs and the "bad" partners like that drunken slip up one night? Me, I don't want to know how many but I do want there to be more than just one. |
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Don't care in the least.
And I figure if I am crazy for him, there must have been a lot. |
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a persons past is history, leave it there as far as i'm concerned. if she is inexpirienced cool, if she's not that's cool too. as far as being in a ltr or a one night stand, the only women i regret are the ones i passed on.
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at our age it probably shouldn't even matter, I would hope a man my age has had a few. . . if not it says a lot about his talents or lack thereof. You should be safe regardless. .
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I put all my hookers through DNA testing, polygraph, drug testing, google searches, etc. But sex partners? Nah. I don't need to know I am not the "biggest" she ever had.
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I don't think it really matters.
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I put all my hookers through DNA testing, polygraph, drug testing, google searches, etc. But sex partners? Nah. I don't need to know I am not the "biggest" she ever had. OMG, Goof, you totally crack me up! |
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Strongly enough, against my better wishes of not knowing, it has been forced upon me on every date. Kind of makes me wonder if people take pride in the numbers achievement.
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Strongly enough, against my better wishes of not knowing, it has been forced upon me on every date. Kind of makes me wonder if people take pride in the numbers achievement. On every date? That's strange because for me, it rarely ever comes up. I never ask and the other people don't offer normally, which is fine with me. But yes, I'm sure there are those out there who do take pride in how many people they've had sex with. |
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Strongly enough, against my better wishes of not knowing, it has been forced upon me on every date. Kind of makes me wonder if people take pride in the numbers achievement. On every date? That's strange because for me, it rarely ever comes up. I never ask and the other people don't offer normally, which is fine with me. But yes, I'm sure there are those out there who do take pride in how many people they've had sex with. |
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Strongly enough, against my better wishes of not knowing, it has been forced upon me on every date. Kind of makes me wonder if people take pride in the numbers achievement. On every date? That's strange because for me, it rarely ever comes up. I never ask and the other people don't offer normally, which is fine with me. But yes, I'm sure there are those out there who do take pride in how many people they've had sex with. I'm not conservative in anyway, so that's probably not it. But, who knows. |
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Instinctively I am in the 'doesn't really matter' camp .The fact is that until we (as in humanity) invent some sort of time machine - and overcome the problems associated with 'causality' - there is actually bugger all we can do about the past; apart from accepting whatever it is that's happened in our lives. Past is 'past', Now is 'now' whilst the future (on a personal level at least) is ours to embrace.
simples .... |
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Instinctively I am in the 'doesn't really matter' camp .The fact is that until we (as in humanity) invent some sort of time machine - and overcome the problems associated with 'causality' - there is actually bugger all we can do about the past; apart from accepting whatever it is that's happened in our lives. Past is 'past', Now is 'now' whilst the future (on a personal level at least) is ours to embrace. simples .... I totally agree with you and this is why I object people continuously brining it up, as they are not living in now. But rather dreaming of the past where things didn’t last. |
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Nah, the past is merely prologue.
I do wanna know their dating "style"... I hate seriel-daters and don't wanna be just another victim in their drive-by-dating body count. |
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I could care less how many partners my man had....
I am reaping all the benifits of his past sex life.... and ohhhhh God Damn Sam!!!!..... did he have a past!!!!! heheheheh |
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I could care less how many partners my man had.... I am reaping all the benifits of his past sex life.... and ohhhhh God Damn Sam!!!!..... did he have a past!!!!! heheheheh That's awesome Tams... WooHoo. I'm happpy for ya and your lucky man!! Not being critical... I surely don't know but on the surface... that sounds like a relationship based soley on sex. (which seems uncharacteristic of you, btw... I trust there's more) Sex is great and sensuality a must but, I want deeper... I want her soul. I don't care if I ain't the first... I do want to be her last... |
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I could care less how many partners my man had.... I am reaping all the benifits of his past sex life.... and ohhhhh God Damn Sam!!!!..... did he have a past!!!!! heheheheh too cute and sweet |
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I could care less how many partners my man had.... I am reaping all the benifits of his past sex life.... and ohhhhh God Damn Sam!!!!..... did he have a past!!!!! heheheheh That's awesome Tams... WooHoo. I'm happpy for ya and your lucky man!! Not being critical... I surely don't know but on the surface... that sounds like a relationship based soley on sex. (which seems uncharacteristic of you, btw... I trust there's more) Sex is great and sensuality a must but, I want deeper... I want her soul. I don't care if I ain't the first... I do want to be her last... Why does it sound like a relationship based solely on sex? It sounds like to me she's enjoying the sex, but there's nothing in there about how that's all the relationship is about. |
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Why does it sound like a relationship based solely on sex? It sounds like to me she's enjoying the sex, but there's nothing in there about how that's all the relationship is about. Because of the number of similar posts over the last few days... myob... I wasn't being critical. |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Mon 09/20/10 05:43 AM
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Why does it sound like a relationship based solely on sex? It sounds like to me she's enjoying the sex, but there's nothing in there about how that's all the relationship is about. Because of the number of similar posts over the last few days... myob... I wasn't being critical. Yikes.. haha. Relax. It was just a question. Some people really enjoy sex. I see no problem with that. I';m guessing myob means mind your own business? Why are you telling someone else to do that when you're not? |
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