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Topic: women getting away with things they shouldn't
msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 09/16/10 04:41 PM
There are both men and women who behave this way so what you should learn from it is how to avoid these kinds of people. Instead you choose to analyze the shlt out of it looking for a formula or some kind of answer as to WHY. Answer is some people suck, a lot. If bltching about things made the situation better our world would have no problems.

Mayhem_J Joined Mon 07/21/08 Posts: 14265	Thu 09/16/10 04:42 PM Edited by Mayhem_J on Thu 09/16/10 04:42 PM
I never told you to grow a pair or to quit whining. I just told you how I deal with it. I'm not defending anybody.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Thu 09/16/10 04:54 PM
There are both men and women who behave this way so what you should learn from it is how to avoid these kinds of people. Instead you choose to analyze the shlt out of it looking for a formula or some kind of answer as to WHY. Answer is some people suck, a lot. If bltching about things made the situation better our world would have no problems. Look. I can make topics about nothing. So instead I make topics about something. I know well some will not like the topics. I also know well that I might be called names or told what I am or what not. It's all fine to me. If I would talk about this at a bar table or in the woods..this wouldn't be such an intense topic really. It just may look like it's intense or there is a lot of emotions to it. No, there isn't...and I'm not being totally serious really.

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Thu 09/16/10 04:59 PM
Men get away with a lot too ya know. Like how it's okay for them to sleep around with whom they want and not get called that special word. but when a woman does it we are that special word. A hoe is a hoe is a hoe. I'm not a ho...I dont get paid for it. I'm a slut. It's all the same whichever way you say it. men and women both are humans and not perfect. is all a life expierience and test

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Thu 09/16/10 05:01 PM
i hate you.......hehe everyones playing games......

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 09/16/10 05:04 PM
dating is a gamble,, there are no guarantees sometimes people think they want something at the beginning and find there was even more to gain(friendship) I wouldnt blow off a friendship with someone just because they may be 'wanting a piece' , but I dont consider that playing games at all its all about honesty if ALL someone wants is a piece, they should be upfront about that and they can avoid the whole issue,,,

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Thu 09/16/10 05:04 PM
I think I finally figured out how to respond to you... will try it next time you feel the need to "criticize women"

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Thu 09/16/10 05:21 PM
I think I finally figured out how to respond to you... will try it next time you feel the need to "criticize women" Ahh come on...it's a habit of mine...if I would be criticizing men, someone would think I'm gay. Be happy that I criticize women. That means that I care. Your mom didn't yell at you because she hate you, she did because she loves you.

Seakolony Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 11968	Thu 09/16/10 05:37 PM
Nope I'm with him because I wanted him all of him and visa versa......the ones I walked out on were for good reason.........I do not want anymore than what I have and enjoy being incharge of my own destiny......if you mean to much independence to do what we please then why shouldn't we I don't want anyone thinking can own me in any shape or form

biglife Joined Sat 08/29/09 Posts: 837	Thu 09/16/10 06:34 PM
I think I finally figured out how to respond to you... will try it next time you feel the need to "criticize women" I don't think he's critizing women as a means of putting them down. His experiences with the opposite sex are exactly that -- HIS experiences. We all see the world through our own eyes. It would be a good thing for all of us to learn tolerance, patience and respect for another's right to an opinion.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 09/16/10 06:41 PM
I know send your hatemails to me, but i don't care, I'm just telling how I see things. I think women getting away with many things nowadays. Why guys would not say anything has to do that they want a piece of them, so they rather dismiss things, that shouldn't be. It's actually worse for the women, than the guys really, because they become self obsessed and other various forms of "not wanted" people in reality. They don't even notice, because they got away with it and they think it's ok to be like that. For an example, and this is all fictional, not happened, although it might have happened or could happen to anyone. Let's say a guy really likes this girl, but she couldn't care less. Instead of telling the guy to get lost, she starts thinking that he is useful for something. She knows that the guy wants a piece of her a$$ so she starts to bargain around. Eventually the guy figures out the whole thing..but he just can't go ahead and call her what she is (insert a common word used for those women) , so she gets away with it. Later on, she pulls the same thing with another victim..and eventually she becomes something else..and she thinks this is ok to do. Now, send your hatemails. I don't really have any hate mail, but it's pretty sleezy and cheezy to identify only one gender guilty of these types of manipulations. Quite frankly, in my considerable experience I see men - because they want that piece of tail - doing the "using" far more often just to get what they want - they will say ANYTHING to use a woman for sex. So in some ways, ya, I think men who do this deserve whatever consequences they suffer if they're just out to use a woman. Unfortunately manipulative and dishonest people exist but these qualities are not characteristics of some members of just one of the genders, but both

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Thu 09/16/10 06:54 PM
Men get away with a lot too ya know. Like how it's okay for them to sleep around with whom they want and not get called that special word. but when a woman does it we are that special word. A hoe is a hoe is a hoe. I'm not a ho...I dont get paid for it. I'm a slut. It's all the same whichever way you say it. men and women both are humans and not perfect. is all a life expierience and test but the point is well taken that there is a easily identifiable double standard regarding sexuality. It is far more socially accpetable to be a man-hoe, than a female one. I think as people age and mature, older women have higher expectations and won't want a man who is promiscuous, but often the younger ladies are naieve to a man's "meanderings" (prolly why u guys like them - we cougars are onto ya and expect u to behave ) and I think it is a positive change when we, as a society, expect men to excersize the same restraint and discretion that they expect from us (women) Then of course there are those who don't care if any one excersizes restraint nonetheless, even in a promiscuous subculture, the permanent damage to a woman's reputation for promiscuity, past or present, far outweighs the damage to a man's reputation, if he even suffers any...I mean to what extent, if any, have things evolved to the point where this is no longer true? I just don't see it.

AndyBgood Joined Thu 12/25/08 Posts: 12437	Fri 09/17/10 07:22 PM
She said Higher Expectations! Should we men be growing better weed?

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Fri 09/17/10 09:41 PM Edited by TexasScoundrel on Fri 09/17/10 09:43 PM
I know send your hatemails to me, but i don't care, I'm just telling how I see things. I think women getting away with many things nowadays. Why guys would not say anything has to do that they want a piece of them, so they rather dismiss things, that shouldn't be. It's actually worse for the women, than the guys really, because they become self obsessed and other various forms of "not wanted" people in reality. They don't even notice, because they got away with it and they think it's ok to be like that. For an example, and this is all fictional, not happened, although it might have happened or could happen to anyone. Let's say a guy really likes this girl, but she couldn't care less. Instead of telling the guy to get lost, she starts thinking that he is useful for something. She knows that the guy wants a piece of her a$$ so she starts to bargain around. Eventually the guy figures out the whole thing..but he just can't go ahead and call her what she is (insert a common word used for those women) , so she gets away with it. Later on, she pulls the same thing with another victim..and eventually she becomes something else..and she thinks this is ok to do. Now, send your hatemails. My girlfriend has several guys like this. One gives her free tattoos, one gives her money when she needs it, one gives her rides and another buys buys her meals. I think it's funny because she's told them all she's not interested in any of them sexually, but they keep coming. They keep trying. It's really sort of sad for them. And just to head off any back lash I know is coming, if she is sleeping with any of them, I really don't care. I was single when I met her and I can find another one to do for me what she does. I guess that's the differance between me and the other guys.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/17/10 10:05 PM Edited by IndnPrncs on Fri 09/17/10 10:06 PM
This is so flipping ridiculous, on and on and on and on how terrible women are... Wow maybe you can get them exterminated and then you can start btching about men and well I guess being gay would follow wouldn't it.. I really feel sorry for you sad souls that have experienced the dredging of the pond... I think you do a great job of showing your true colors and I'm sure smart women appreciate it, no guessing here... I agree with everything Myka said... Shlt is shlt no matters who's doing it, it still smells.. Men can suck and so can women.. Look for the good in people and you'll find good people.. Btch and moan and you'll find similar, misery loves company and you seem to have a lot of company...

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 09/17/10 10:05 PM Edited by Atlantis75 on Fri 09/17/10 10:06 PM
I know send your hatemails to me, but i don't care, I'm just telling how I see things. I think women getting away with many things nowadays. Why guys would not say anything has to do that they want a piece of them, so they rather dismiss things, that shouldn't be. It's actually worse for the women, than the guys really, because they become self obsessed and other various forms of "not wanted" people in reality. They don't even notice, because they got away with it and they think it's ok to be like that. For an example, and this is all fictional, not happened, although it might have happened or could happen to anyone. Let's say a guy really likes this girl, but she couldn't care less. Instead of telling the guy to get lost, she starts thinking that he is useful for something. She knows that the guy wants a piece of her a$$ so she starts to bargain around. Eventually the guy figures out the whole thing..but he just can't go ahead and call her what she is (insert a common word used for those women) , so she gets away with it. Later on, she pulls the same thing with another victim..and eventually she becomes something else..and she thinks this is ok to do. Now, send your hatemails. My girlfriend has several guys like this. One gives her free tattoos, one gives her money when she needs it, one gives her rides and another buys buys her meals. I think it's funny because she's told them all she's not interested in any of them sexually, but they keep coming. They keep trying. It's really sort of sad for them. And just to head off any back lash I know is coming, if she is sleeping with any of them, I really don't care. I was single when I met her and I can find another one to do for me what she does. I guess that's the differance between me and the other guys. wow..finally someone...not attacking me for making a topic like this, but going with the topic. Let's not mention, I didn't blame the women ..as some would think ...it comes down to the fact that men who bend backward for the single purpose of sex is who makes women to be a sort of a "queen with her servants" type of behavior. This could stick with them later..and if they meet a guy who isn't like that, she might have a rude awakening , in a meaning that she might expects the guy to pick up this role in order to please her. ahhh..but the rest is just gonna keep hammering me for offending

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 09/17/10 10:09 PM Edited by Atlantis75 on Fri 09/17/10 10:26 PM
This is so flipping ridiculous, on and on and on and on how terrible women are... Wow maybe you can get them exterminated and then you can start btching about men and well I guess being gay would follow wouldn't it.. I really feel sorry for you sad souls that have experienced the dredging of the pond... I think you do a great job of showing your true colors and I'm sure smart women appreciate it, no guessing here... I agree with everything Myka said... Shlt is shlt no matters who's doing it, it still smells.. Men can suck and so can women.. Look for the good in people and you'll find good people.. Btch and moan and you'll find similar, misery loves company and you seem to have a lot of company... and now..you try to offend me...are you serious indpnncs..you really think I'm bithcing and moaning...all the good words I put in..the other thread..for you..and you think I attract misery ....that's even offending to my friends. I can't believe you said that.. just who do you know what "company" I have and if I live in misery or not?? Do you know who sounds like a sour person here? Don't ask me..ask someone, . ...you take things so seriously you are not afraid to go ahead and offend..and I'm serious this time...I rarely say that..I feel offended by your comment.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Fri 09/17/10 10:16 PM
This is so flipping ridiculous, on and on and on and on how terrible women are... Wow maybe you can get them exterminated and then you can start btching about men and well I guess being gay would follow wouldn't it.. I really feel sorry for you sad souls that have experienced the dredging of the pond... I think you do a great job of showing your true colors and I'm sure smart women appreciate it, no guessing here... I agree with everything Myka said... Shlt is shlt no matters who's doing it, it still smells.. Men can suck and so can women.. Look for the good in people and you'll find good people.. Btch and moan and you'll find similar, misery loves company and you seem to have a lot of company... and now..you try to offend me...are you serious indpncrncs..you really think I'm bithcing and moaning...all the good words I put in..the other thread..for you..and you think I attract misery ....that's even offending to my friends. I can't believe you said that.. Frank no one should be offended as the "you" wasn't "YOU" it was a generalized "you", meaning people that let a few bad experiences taint their whole view of things, whether it be men or women.. The 'on and on' part was not generalized.. You know I adore you but why always b*tch about women? Don't you think these threads are offending to those of us that are your female friends? They are, we've told you over and over...

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Fri 09/17/10 10:23 PM
This is so flipping ridiculous, on and on and on and on how terrible women are... Wow maybe you can get them exterminated and then you can start btching about men and well I guess being gay would follow wouldn't it.. I really feel sorry for you sad souls that have experienced the dredging of the pond... I think you do a great job of showing your true colors and I'm sure smart women appreciate it, no guessing here... I agree with everything Myka said... Shlt is shlt no matters who's doing it, it still smells.. Men can suck and so can women.. Look for the good in people and you'll find good people.. Btch and moan and you'll find similar, misery loves company and you seem to have a lot of company... and now..you try to offend me...are you serious indpncrncs..you really think I'm bithcing and moaning...all the good words I put in..the other thread..for you..and you think I attract misery ....that's even offending to my friends. I can't believe you said that.. Frank no one should be offended as the "you" wasn't "YOU" it was a generalized "you", meaning people that let a few bad experiences taint their whole view of things, whether it be men or women.. The 'on and on' part was not generalized.. You know I adore you but why always b*tch about women? Don't you think these threads are offending to those of us that are your female friends? They are, we've told you over and over... You really are taking things waaaay to seriously..probably along with Myka...read what Texas scoundrel wrote...that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm not writing these things to be ridiculous..it's really out there...and why would anyone take it personally if they know they aren't like that? Ashhle guys are out there..so are women who should start thinking instead of playing..just because I wrote about a certain women behavior, that later becomes a problem..and I even indicated that men plays a serious role creating these types....this has absolutely nothing to do with people on mingle, I'm talking in general..I'm not putting a crosshair on anyone here. oh well...why do I feel like I have to over explain everything here.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Fri 09/17/10 10:25 PM
Since Melody is not on at the moment I will go ahead and fill in for her. You are a guy who has been burned in the past by females but this topic is NOT gender specific. It goes both ways and scummy guys get exactly what they want out of women just the same as women who use men. This is all just human behavior not men or women but both. i didn't know you did impressions....nicely done!