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Edited by
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So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you You made a general statement about all girls. You are going to poison your success and over all opinion of women if you keep this wall. It's not healthy to make absolute statements of any kind. I don't know why PEOPLE do it; however, I would venture to guess they are cowards. When someone can't face a situation it's usually because they don't know how to handle a confrontation or the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. In other words, leading someone on is easier than saying, "I'm not interested." BTW, texting is just a cowardly as ingoring someone. CALL them!  Texting is so stupid in reference to dating. If the person doesn't answer your call - they are NOT interested in you. Move on! Don't dwell in the drama of asking these kinds of questions. Why would you want to "figure" people out like this anyway? Aren't there better people in the world to meet rather than wasting your time?? He or she is just not that into you. (Yes, Goof, I quoted that stupid chick flick again)  You made the statement about girls not me lol I asked generally speaking from a guys point of view, I'm hardly going to ask why does a guy do it as ive never experienced it and I'm not gay. Texting is cowardly? lmao..texting is a big thing here, I also call. But you can't call 24/7. People are busy, or don't want to talk much so thats why text. People use text like a messenger here. Its common sense. So after the conclusion of this post, I've learned nothing, and I'm guessing your the same person constantly attacking me.I can't remember the last thread and won't bother looking either.Nice try. I must of really got to you. You don't know me, my life, my success, all you know is a screen name, so to make all that up in a paragraph is crazy.. No, you made the statement about girls. Look at your post and the quote I selected from your post: "So why do you do this girls" I have NO idea who you are so don't accuse me of attacking you. If you think my comments are an attack you should grow a thicker skin. I have never even seen your username before nor do I remember you. There is no "nice try" nor is there a calculated attempt on my part to follow you. I don't care about you per se. You didn’t affect me. I simply made a reply to your question. Are you defensive and paranoid? Don’t put so much into this forum. It’s no big deal. I wasn’t “mean” to you; just honest. When you ask a general audience a question, you will get answers; you may not like the answers you get. If you don't want public opinion - don't post in a public forum. You seem so defensive. I just read your comment about me being "blonde". What is the relevance? You also mentioned flaws in my post. Again, what is the relevance? YOU posed a question. I did not ask for an opinion on anything. You came right back at me with an insecure attitude. There is no reason for you to react this way. Lighten up! 
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Edited by
Unknow
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So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you You made a general statement about all girls. You are going to poison your success and over all opinion of women if you keep this wall. It's not healthy to make absolute statements of any kind. I don't know why PEOPLE do it; however, I would venture to guess they are cowards. When someone can't face a situation it's usually because they don't know how to handle a confrontation or the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. In other words, leading someone on is easier than saying, "I'm not interested." BTW, texting is just a cowardly as ingoring someone. CALL them! Texting is so stupid in reference to dating. If the person doesn't answer your call - they are NOT interested in you. Move on! Don't dwell in the drama of asking these kinds of questions. Why would you want to "figure" people out like this anyway? Aren't there better people in the world to meet rather than wasting your time?? He or she is just not that into you. (Yes, Goof, I quoted that stupid chick flick again) You made the statement about girls not me lol I asked generally speaking from a guys point of view, I'm hardly going to ask why does a guy do it as ive never experienced it and I'm not gay. Texting is cowardly? lmao..texting is a big thing here, I also call. But you can't call 24/7. People are busy, or don't want to talk much so thats why text. People use text like a messenger here. Its common sense. So after the conclusion of this post, I've learned nothing, and I'm guessing your the same person constantly attacking me.I can't remember the last thread and won't bother looking either.Nice try. I must of really got to you. You don't know me, my life, my success, all you know is a screen name, so to make all that up in a paragraph is crazy.. No, you made the statement about girls. Look at your post and the quote I selected from your post: "So why do you do this girls" I have NO idea who you are so don't accuse me of attacking you. If you think my comments are an attack you should grow a thicker skin. I have never even seen your username before nor do I remember you. There is no "nice try" nor is there a calculated attempt on my part to follow you. I don't care about you per se. You didn’t affect me. I simply made a reply to your question. Are you defensive and paranoid? Don’t put so much into this forum. It’s no big deal. I wasn’t “mean” to you; just honest. When you ask a general audience a question, you will get answers; you may not like the answers you get. If you don't want public opinion - don't post in a public forum. Lighten up! If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing |
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Edited by
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Wed 09/15/10 01:00 PM
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If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing There is a sickness of posters generalizing on this site. I am not the first to point out those issues. Using the word "people" wouldn't make you gay. I simply suggested using "people" as your subject. Both men and women generalize all the time. To correct one's writing style, speech and attitude regarding generalized statements is an opportunity for growth and education. |
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If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing There is a sickness of posters generalizing on this site. I am not the first to point out those issues. Both men and women generalize all the time. To correct one's writing style, speech and attitude regarding generalized statements is an opportunity for growth and education. All women say this................. 
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If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing There is a sickness of posters generalizing on this site. I am not the first to point out those issues. Both men and women generalize all the time. To correct one's writing style, speech and attitude regarding generalized statements is an opportunity for growth and education. All women say this.................  Jeff to save the day! I expect nothing less from you!! 
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If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing There is a sickness of posters generalizing on this site. I am not the first to point out those issues. Both men and women generalize all the time. To correct one's writing style, speech and attitude regarding generalized statements is an opportunity for growth and education. All women say this................. I blame the drug war. |
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didn't know where to post this but just wanted some thoughts on this... I've been in the position where I wanted to ignore someone,but there was always a reason..like annoying and stuff. I'm talking about being ignored just straight out of the blue for no reason whatsoever, why does it happen, nothing bothers me more than this, one minute your texting and everything is grand and shes all up for everything, straight up says she likes me and all the rest..sounds like a lovely person.. next minute she won't text at all or answer calls. I'm the type I won't let it go because I know I can do it and done nothing wrong, but most times I have to let it go because I know it won't be worth it.. This could happen with someone you just meet, but another example is, I seem to have even lost a close old best friend to it, Told her I used to like her, everything was ok after, then that starts..Shes not that type, but I will never like her in any way again no matter what her exscuse is.. So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you don't think your the only one this happens to, women are weird like that... there is always 5 more that won't ignore ya, so don't worry about it and move on to the next one... |
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Two whole pages of how people ignore you. I think that is terrible. Come on people surely he deserves more than that.
I am not good at texting; Its too much like typing to me. Iddy biddy keyboards I think just suck but still a lot easier than talking over the phone. With typing you don't notice the gaps in communication as bad.
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Edited by
eileena9
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Wed 09/15/10 02:40 PM
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So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you You made a general statement about all girls. You are going to poison your success and over all opinion of women if you keep this wall. It's not healthy to make absolute statements of any kind. I don't know why PEOPLE do it; however, I would venture to guess they are cowards. When someone can't face a situation it's usually because they don't know how to handle a confrontation or the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. In other words, leading someone on is easier than saying, "I'm not interested." BTW, texting is just a cowardly as ingoring someone. CALL them! Texting is so stupid in reference to dating. If the person doesn't answer your call - they are NOT interested in you. Move on! Don't dwell in the drama of asking these kinds of questions. Why would you want to "figure" people out like this anyway? Aren't there better people in the world to meet rather than wasting your time?? He or she is just not that into you. (Yes, Goof, I quoted that stupid chick flick again) You made the statement about girls not me lol (1) I asked generally speaking from a guys point of view, I'm hardly going to ask why does a guy do it as ive never experienced it and I'm not gay.(2) Texting is cowardly? lmao..texting is a big thing here, I also call. But you can't call 24/7. People are busy, or don't want to talk much so thats why text. People use text like a messenger here. (3) Its common sense.(4) So after the conclusion of this post, I've learned nothing, and I'm guessing your the same person constantly attacking me.I can't remember the last thread and won't bother looking either.Nice try. I must of really got to you. (5) You don't know me, my life, my success, all you know is a screen name, so to make all that up in a paragraph is crazy..(6) (1) No...Melody made a statement about PEOPLE in general...you made the comment in your last paragraph "So why do you do this girls" so YOU are the one asking for answers as to why do women do it, well men are just as guilty and Melody was giving a generic, non-gender specific answer for why it might be done. (2) You are asking for a female point of view on something that both genders do, so see the answer above (#1) And no one implied you are gay. (3) Texting is a big thing here too, but for some people, calling is a preferred way to communicate if you are looking for a relationship, actually it should be for most people, the preferred way. Don't get me wrong, I am guilty of having months of 4,000 plus texts too but I also SPEAK to the other person as much as possible. And it isn't convenient to text 24/7 either. (4) Its common sense....there's your answer....if you stop hearing from them Its common sense that they no longer want to speak/text with you. (5) In all the time that Melody has been on here I don't think I have seen her attack anyone or you "getting to her". (By the way, the saying is "MUST HAVE GOTTEN TO YOU" not "must of gotten to you") She is a highly intelligent and classy lady and speaks her mind..RESPECTFULLY.. when answering questions on threads. Methinks, she has gotten to YOU, (beautiful, tan, leggy blonde and she is on the other side of the world) maybe you feel annoyed you can't "get" her so you are trying to pinpoint things on her that didn't happen in her post. And lastly: (6) "your success"???????? Seems like a FAIL [/size=big] to me since the person you are writing about is no longer texting or speaking to you. 
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If I said why do you do this guys, I would probably be gay. I just don't like how people take posts and try to make it into someones life story. lol Take what you know from the post and nothing else, anything more is nothing more than trolling..and i've never took anything on the internet serious, I was typing that while laughing There is a sickness of posters generalizing on this site. I am not the first to point out those issues. Both men and women generalize all the time. To correct one's writing style, speech and attitude regarding generalized statements is an opportunity for growth and education. All women say this................. I blame the drug war. I blame Canada |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Thu 09/16/10 08:18 AM
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So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you You made a general statement about all girls. You are going to poison your success and over all opinion of women if you keep this wall. It's not healthy to make absolute statements of any kind. I don't know why PEOPLE do it; however, I would venture to guess they are cowards. When someone can't face a situation it's usually because they don't know how to handle a confrontation or the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. In other words, leading someone on is easier than saying, "I'm not interested." BTW, texting is just a cowardly as ingoring someone. CALL them! Texting is so stupid in reference to dating. If the person doesn't answer your call - they are NOT interested in you. Move on! Don't dwell in the drama of asking these kinds of questions. Why would you want to "figure" people out like this anyway? Aren't there better people in the world to meet rather than wasting your time?? He or she is just not that into you. (Yes, Goof, I quoted that stupid chick flick again) You made the statement about girls not me lol (1) I asked generally speaking from a guys point of view, I'm hardly going to ask why does a guy do it as ive never experienced it and I'm not gay.(2) Texting is cowardly? lmao..texting is a big thing here, I also call. But you can't call 24/7. People are busy, or don't want to talk much so thats why text. People use text like a messenger here. (3) Its common sense.(4) So after the conclusion of this post, I've learned nothing, and I'm guessing your the same person constantly attacking me.I can't remember the last thread and won't bother looking either.Nice try. I must of really got to you. (5) You don't know me, my life, my success, all you know is a screen name, so to make all that up in a paragraph is crazy..(6) (1) No...Melody made a statement about PEOPLE in general...you made the comment in your last paragraph "So why do you do this girls" so YOU are the one asking for answers as to why do women do it, well men are just as guilty and Melody was giving a generic, non-gender specific answer for why it might be done. (2) You are asking for a female point of view on something that both genders do, so see the answer above (#1) And no one implied you are gay. (3) Texting is a big thing here too, but for some people, calling is a preferred way to communicate if you are looking for a relationship, actually it should be for most people, the preferred way. Don't get me wrong, I am guilty of having months of 4,000 plus texts too but I also SPEAK to the other person as much as possible. And it isn't convenient to text 24/7 either. (4) Its common sense....there's your answer....if you stop hearing from them Its common sense that they no longer want to speak/text with you. (5) In all the time that Melody has been on here I don't think I have seen her attack anyone or you "getting to her". (By the way, the saying is "MUST HAVE GOTTEN TO YOU" not "must of gotten to you") She is a highly intelligent and classy lady and speaks her mind..RESPECTFULLY.. when answering questions on threads. Methinks, she has gotten to YOU, (beautiful, tan, leggy blonde and she is on the other side of the world) maybe you feel annoyed you can't "get" her so you are trying to pinpoint things on her that didn't happen in her post. And lastly: (6) "your success"???????? Seems like a FAIL [/size=big] to me since the person you are writing about is no longer texting or speaking to you. ROFL, perfect example of what I mean..why would I be annoyed she is 40 or something. My bad for insulting the internet grammar police. I apologize, Infact to make it up I'll type in some slang for you..y dnt u find sumthin better ta do..What you do in texts or with your phone is not for you to force on other people to do. I stated a fact what the majority of people here do. No one gets to me online, except for a know it all post, even then I'm laughing. So thanks very much for the entertainment. As for success, just because one person stopped talking, doesn't mean there isn't another one I'm talking too. Keep your assumptions or keep proving my point about trolling. Thanks. Also the way you would say have gotten to you, and how we would say it, is all different. Along with alot of other phrases. Not that it matters at all, but just since you know it all, I thought I'd point it out. I get the impression some people here are nuts, no wonder your on here let me start making assumptions? how many dates have you had? 0 I bet. farewell |
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iTS CALLED GAME PLAYING.......
seems to be a national pastime on this site huh.... |
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Edited by
Unknow
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Gee, I cant figure out why someone would ignore him. Its a total mystery. Indeed my friend, which explains why you didn't. |
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Yea that is deffinatly PMS, can you tell me why a guy will do that to me?
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So why do you do this girls whats your thoughts on this and how to avoid a situation like this has it happened you You made a general statement about all girls. You are going to poison your success and over all opinion of women if you keep this wall. It's not healthy to make absolute statements of any kind. I don't know why PEOPLE do it; however, I would venture to guess they are cowards. When someone can't face a situation it's usually because they don't know how to handle a confrontation or the possibility of hurting someone's feelings. In other words, leading someone on is easier than saying, "I'm not interested." BTW, texting is just a cowardly as ingoring someone. CALL them! Texting is so stupid in reference to dating. If the person doesn't answer your call - they are NOT interested in you. Move on! Don't dwell in the drama of asking these kinds of questions. Why would you want to "figure" people out like this anyway? Aren't there better people in the world to meet rather than wasting your time?? He or she is just not that into you. (Yes, Goof, I quoted that stupid chick flick again) You made the statement about girls not me lol (1) I asked generally speaking from a guys point of view, I'm hardly going to ask why does a guy do it as ive never experienced it and I'm not gay.(2) Texting is cowardly? lmao..texting is a big thing here, I also call. But you can't call 24/7. People are busy, or don't want to talk much so thats why text. People use text like a messenger here. (3) Its common sense.(4) So after the conclusion of this post, I've learned nothing, and I'm guessing your the same person constantly attacking me.I can't remember the last thread and won't bother looking either.Nice try. I must of really got to you. (5) You don't know me, my life, my success, all you know is a screen name, so to make all that up in a paragraph is crazy..(6) (1) No...Melody made a statement about PEOPLE in general...you made the comment in your last paragraph "So why do you do this girls" so YOU are the one asking for answers as to why do women do it, well men are just as guilty and Melody was giving a generic, non-gender specific answer for why it might be done. (2) You are asking for a female point of view on something that both genders do, so see the answer above (#1) And no one implied you are gay. (3) Texting is a big thing here too, but for some people, calling is a preferred way to communicate if you are looking for a relationship, actually it should be for most people, the preferred way. Don't get me wrong, I am guilty of having months of 4,000 plus texts too but I also SPEAK to the other person as much as possible. And it isn't convenient to text 24/7 either. (4) Its common sense....there's your answer....if you stop hearing from them Its common sense that they no longer want to speak/text with you. (5) In all the time that Melody has been on here I don't think I have seen her attack anyone or you "getting to her". (By the way, the saying is "MUST HAVE GOTTEN TO YOU" not "must of gotten to you") She is a highly intelligent and classy lady and speaks her mind..RESPECTFULLY.. when answering questions on threads. Methinks, she has gotten to YOU, (beautiful, tan, leggy blonde and she is on the other side of the world) maybe you feel annoyed you can't "get" her so you are trying to pinpoint things on her that didn't happen in her post. And lastly: (6) "your success"???????? Seems like a FAIL [/size=big] to me since the person you are writing about is no longer texting or speaking to you. ROFL, perfect example of what I mean..why would I be annoyed she is 40 or something. My bad for insulting the internet grammar police. I apologize, Infact to make it up I'll type in some slang for you..y dnt u find sumthin better ta do..What you do in texts or with your phone is not for you to force on other people to do. I stated a fact what the majority of people here do. No one gets to me online, except for a know it all post, even then I'm laughing. So thanks very much for the entertainment. As for success, just because one person stopped talking, doesn't mean there isn't another one I'm talking too. Keep your assumptions or keep proving my point about trolling. Thanks. Also the way you would say have gotten to you, and how we would say it, is all different. Along with alot of other phrases. Not that it matters at all, but just since you know it all, I thought I'd point it out. I get the impression some people here are nuts, no wonder your on here let me start making assumptions? how many dates have you had? 0 I bet. farewell Maybe you should learn to read, little boy....I found someone and am engaged...........look at a profile. |
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