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| Topic: REAL meaning of 'game playing' ??? | |
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Got an initial email the other day from this guy who asked if we could get to know each other better. I responded with "what do you want to know?" Simple, easy. Or so I thought...
I just received an email back that included this opening statement: "Its nice hearing from you, why are you on here? Are you ready to love, trust and share? Its good to see a woman who is not ready for games because life is too short for all that."  Say whaaaaaaaaaaat????
Of course I wrote back stating his email was concerning to me .. just because a woman may not be ready to get serious does NOT a game player make her ....  
Thoughts??? Are there people who really believe 'game playing' is anyone's charge who doesn't want to jump into serious relationship immediately. Isn't that what sights like this are for. Get to know a lot of different people and then by process of ELIMINATION find the one for you??? |
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Edited by
Mikey117
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Fri 09/10/10 06:03 AM
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the best relationships are the ones U start out as friends and then see where it goes!!! Im a firm believer in becoming friends first and then let things take their natural course!!
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the best relationships are the ones U start out as friends and then see where it goes!!! Im a firm believer in becoming friends first and then let things take their natural course!! Amen to that brother. Word for word. |
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I think these site are different things to different people.
Some come here and build a strong community of friends and "other" relationships. Some come here (specifically) not wanting to build an internet life-style... More like find a spouse and get out. Many come in just to see what it's all about and learn as they go... making mistakes along the way. Such is life anywhere... The difficult thing, imho, is when one group sees the others as being wrong or game-players. But again... that's common in life too. |
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And sometimes it's just a normal person not knowing what to write?
Good luck with that! |
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And sometimes it's just a normal person not knowing what to write? Good luck with that! haha... very true!! I suck at writing. |
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And sometimes it's just a normal person not knowing what to write? Good luck with that! haha... very true!! I suck at writing. Same here!... It's SUPER easy to sound like a dumb ****(trust me)... If the person receiving dissects the e-mail |
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And sometimes it's just a normal person not knowing what to write? Good luck with that! haha... very true!! I suck at writing. Same here!... It's SUPER easy to sound like a dumb ****(trust me)... If the person receiving dissects the e-mail Well I don't see that I dissected his email .. I'm pretty chill so I was just taken back with the reference he made. 
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meaning of 'game playing'
touchdown in football homerun in baseball goal in soccar checkmate in chess |
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I think people who refer to games are the champion game players of the universe. I engage anyway to see where it goes. Im a bit of a blah, blabbity blah, blah. You are so right. I will also 'engage.' For kicks :-) And I love your 'blah, blabbity blah, blah' this just cracks me up. We must blah more :-) |
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And sometimes it's just a normal person not knowing what to write? Good luck with that! haha... very true!! I suck at writing. Same here!... It's SUPER easy to sound like a dumb ****(trust me)... If the person receiving dissects the e-mail Well I don't see that I dissected his email .. I'm pretty chill so I was just taken back with the reference he made.
I just meant "in general" not you in particular sweetheart
You may be pretty chill but I would have asked for an explanation? It's a well known fact... women receive 100X more mail than men... It's just easier for them to sit back and receive initial contacts and judge first impressions... sometimes shooting down a decent brother could have a negative impact on the sender and ultimately deny the receiver a possible match... JMHO |
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I love games...
when I was a kid I used to play Rock´em Sock'em Robots
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Got an initial email the other day from this guy who asked if we could get to know each other better. I responded with "what do you want to know?" Simple, easy. Or so I thought... I just received an email back that included this opening statement: "Its nice hearing from you, why are you on here? Are you ready to love, trust and share? Its good to see a woman who is not ready for games because life is too short for all that." Say whaaaaaaaaaaat????
Of course I wrote back stating his email was concerning to me .. just because a woman may not be ready to get serious does NOT a game player make her ....
Thoughts??? Are there people who really believe 'game playing' is anyone's charge who doesn't want to jump into serious relationship immediately. Isn't that what sights like this are for. Get to know a lot of different people and then by process of ELIMINATION find the one for you??? I only jump on blondes and redheads......and brunettes.....and chicks with different colored hair...... 
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I can top your email Fade.
This chick emailed me about three weeks ago with the following..... "Goof! I think you are hot. I want to feel you inside of me." It was something like that. Anyways, I mean...no "Hello", or "Hi. My name is psycho chick". Just came right out and stated that. I was sooo horrified. Ok, so I wasn't horriefied. I was like "Awwww. My first sex related, treat me like a piece of meat" email. I was so flattered. I am now complete.
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I can top your email Fade. This chick emailed me about three weeks ago with the following..... "Goof! I think you are hot. I want to feel you inside of me." It was something like that. Anyways, I mean...no "Hello", or "Hi. My name is psycho chick". Just came right out and stated that. I was sooo horrified. Ok, so I wasn't horriefied. I was like "Awwww. My first sex related, treat me like a piece of meat" email. I was so flattered. I am now complete.
Ok but you're not supposed to out me like that in the forums... there are RULES you know... No twittering for you tonight. |
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I can top your email Fade. This chick emailed me about three weeks ago with the following..... "Goof! I think you are hot. I want to feel you inside of me." It was something like that. Anyways, I mean...no "Hello", or "Hi. My name is psycho chick". Just came right out and stated that. I was sooo horrified. Ok, so I wasn't horriefied. I was like "Awwww. My first sex related, treat me like a piece of meat" email. I was so flattered. I am now complete.
Ok but you're not supposed to out me like that in the forums... there are RULES you know... No twittering for you tonight. And you chicks say you want honesty! Pffffffft!  
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Fri 09/10/10 11:26 AM
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I can top your email Fade. This chick emailed me about three weeks ago with the following..... "Goof! I think you are hot. I want to feel you inside of me." It was something like that. Anyways, I mean...no "Hello", or "Hi. My name is psycho chick". Just came right out and stated that. I was sooo horrified. Ok, so I wasn't horriefied. I was like "Awwww. My first sex related, treat me like a piece of meat" email. I was so flattered. I am now complete.
You weren't supposed to tell anyone about this remember? 
 Guess Msmyka and I thought the same on this one 
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Great minds ... 
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