this is this guy that i met back in march
and the connection was so uncanny it blew my mind
he reminded me so much of a old bf that had died several prior
and even some of his actions are the same
and within the last 3weeks or so he has been busy either working or helping with catering of friends weddingss
which is fine but not communicating is not good even if he had left a goodnite text that would be fine but of course he didnt
he said he would be over on sat but i was going to be gone and i told him i would be back at a certain time which i was but of course he had something that came up
and i told him i was free on sunday. well i waited around and of course no show so i called and to find out he had to run out of town to help a buddies son with his car and someother things..

i didnt even hear him say that..

well any how i figured sense he in some ways igonred me by not calling i would do the same.. well on monday he text me.. and of course i didnt respond... tonight (thrusday) he leaves me a few texts and decide to email him (which of course he not going to check maybe for a few days) so i ended up calling him..

i had ask him if he was going over to the deaf school for the extreme makeover is redueing the school (awsome)

and his response was he didnt give rats "a'" about the deaf school
and this man works with the disbailty.... COME ON

he pissed me off and i hung up on him
he called back and said that i was rude by hanging up....
i dont care. i wasent going to hear that crap from him

and he thinks putting smilies in emails is rude
(meaning he doesnt like smilies)
i was thinking geeze i should send him one with the figure in the aire

Yeah, I can think of a few smileys that could really get the point across at times.

Oh I would be sending a whole email of nothing but smileys...

I would be sending him the waving smileys with the one that shows the butt cheeks saying kiss this see ya.............

Myself if they do not make a attempt to contact me I cut off all contact to them.... I don't play those games. Either they want to see me or they don't... And if they can't make up their mind I will do it for them......

LOL i seriously thought that
it would be funny on my end..

but i didnt i sent him a brake up note
his attitude is just like a old bf of mine
and im not going to continue with that anymore

yea i care but he also has a issue hes a dang alcoholic
and i have dealt with one in the past
im not going to deal with that again
im not around him when he drinks
for he wont come over, which is fine

Wait...what?

Magic 8-Ball says that you should totally dump the dude!

If he's an alcoholic
and you won't deal with that
then you just answered whatever question you may have
regarding him.

Get what I'm saying?

Otherwise you've decided to occupy your time with something hopeless.

yeah ... he would hate that ^^^

Dontcha hate it when the answer is right in front of your nose???

<<<not practicing what I preach

i never have been around him when he has been drinking
for he tends to stay home to drink
he claims hes a drunk but when i stated you mean a alcoholic he got defended (its the same)
but what pissed me off was when i mention if he was going to watch extreme makeover work on the deaf school his action was why "f' should i his exact words were i dont 'f' care
and this guy works with the disabilty and by his actions in my opion he was puting them down

I agree, i dont know if guys are not into txting or what. I have had issues with two way communicating. If someone does not put forth an effort then it's clear they arent that interested in me, even when they say they are---- if they can't show it, they can shove it up their bootay! i AM TOO OLD FOR GAMES.

If it was that offensive to you regarding the deaf--- dont waste your time with him seriously. You obviously have a HEART, and his is cold. It's just the decent thing to do and if he didnt want to help out he still didnt have to react that way.

i didnt say if he was going to help out, i said was he going to go and view and see what they had been doing
and his action were plainly stating why 'f' should i
that just shows me that the profession hes in he shouldnt be working with any form of disabilty

....he's a drunk..enuf said,what do you expect and why would you even get involved with someone you know is a drunk....alcoholics and abuse go hand in hand ..stay away from people like this and you won't have to deal with the drama....move on ...jmo