Assuming that you know nothing about a person other than what their profile states and shows...what three things make you move on to the next profile. be genuine and try to explain why.

Drug references - a friend is fine but I am just not interested in dating someone who does drugs

Negativity/Anger - someone who lists all the things they don't want or seems bitter or angry ... it speaks about the character of a person. Do they view life and their experiences through a negative or a positive mindset

Intimate Encounters - I am not looking for that



bad spelling and grammar is a pet peeve ... I'll usually give someone the benefit of the doubt but conversation and communication is important to me. And text speak is a definite turn off.

Someone that doesn't want children. I'm not wasting my time trying to convince someone to have kids with me. Thats all that really bothers me. Well and ugly old guys

- Men with kids or who want kids in the future
- Height/Body: I'm 5.11 so taller than 6.0 is ideal, and I teach fitness; therefore, an active, lean guy suits me.
- Drug users, smokers, criminal history, or personality disorders

I generally do not date men near my age; 10-12 years younger is what I prefer but this is one that might go out the window if I meet a really great guy who is - say - 38!

I never want to change anyone so my preferences are for someone who ALREADY possesses the qualities I seek. I don't want to manufacture a boy friend. I'll wait for the right one for me.

Damn if I just didn't have a criminal history............

For you, Jeff, I would toss that dealbreaker!

definitely height is the first thing i usually look at, because i am 5'10, people who posted on their profile preset questions and answers and it's all lengthy-leaves nothing to discuss later and displays their lack of creativity which is a necessity for anyone I can stand being around, third anyone over 45 is most likely a no-go!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NvgLkuEtkA

I haven't heard that in YEARS!! 1979 or so, right?? They played it at the skating rink!

That was the roller skating days. Slow skating with your girl. Playing foosball and pinball.........

Don't forget the beyond greasy pizza!

Yes the food. I used to eat that before I became a health nut. Smoking in the boys room and pitching dimes, gambling game. Your taking me back......

I just loved that smell of pizza, candy, pop corn and bubble gum lip gloss at the skating rink! The 70's were so much fun growing up. Fast cars, cute boys, and first kisses.

Bubble gum lip gloss adds a very nice touch to that memory....

An inability to correctly construct a sentence, very poor or no punctuation and bad spelling. This, to me, is a big indicator of their general education level. I'm smart, so I need a smartass!

Any reference to how much sex they require or what their sexual preferences are. This, to me, shows loud and clear what their real interest is. I'm looking for more than that.

Those that list what they want, and don't want. Personally, I'm not keen on application forms, and prefer only to complete them in a business scenario. People that do this come across as is they're testing you to see whether you're 'good enough' for them, and need to focus more on what they can 'give' to a relationship.

A few extra pounds.....-preference

Kids...........- Nobueno

redneck crap 4 wheeling

stick my fast cars and bikes

Country girl-i don't wanna sit on your farm and milk the cows

to be honest...i don't think that i have any ideas that fall under a dealbreaker.

Granted, drug use and/or an incurable sexual type of disease would fall into a dealbreaker. Of course, that's a given...right?

druggies,drunks,smokers,bit**ie attatudes,

If I did not love him.
More than life.
It would be a dealbreaker.