I met this great girl online, we became friends and started chatting for a while...she has a boy friend that she talks about every now and then. I donno why I got this vibe yesterday that she's interested in me not in a "friendly" way. I told her how I think a certain model is hot, then she threw a whole bunch of her modeling pics at me to convince me that she's hotter...and likes two weeks ago she asked for my number and asked if she can call me, I told her I was busy at the time, so yesterday when we were chatting her modem went off and she texted me telling me that. so I told her its fine il chat with her some other time...then she texted back saying "I'll just tuck myself into bed and call you to say goodnight"...am I overthinking this, or is she really interested in a non-friend way ?

Sounds like she's not super happy in her relationship. You're giving her what her man isn't, which seems to be attention and communication. She probably is interested on some level but while she has a man you're just the back-up plan.

what she said... makes the most sense

would U be my back up plan?

Personally, I would tell her straight up you feel like it's getting a little too intimate for just a friendship and that's not cool when she already has a man. This way she will know it's time to stop screwing around with you.

I know this scenario all too well... back-up plan is my middle name. Grass is always greener on the other side, until you get there and realize it's astro-turf.

well we can make it plan A and then run off to the virgin Islands together!! (Although I have to be honest I am NOT a Virgin!!)

this is just talk talk talk...not crap crap crap. ur kinda obsessed. doncha think?

astro turf stays greener longer, and it doesn't die.... and never needs watering

well okay so u might be right on that one..MM

ahhh what the hay beat the brakes off it

I would think she's got more than friendship on her mind. When you're 'the last person a girl wants to speak to before she goes to bed', that would certainly ring alarm bells to me.

OK, you might put once down to coincidence, but if she does that again, I'd say she's trying to cross the barrier from friendship to something more.

You didn't actually say how you feel about her. So, how you react could depend on your feelings. Why do you want to know? Is it because you're curious, or keen?

If you're curious, but not interested, I'd say just ignore it for the time being and wait and see what she does from now on.

If you're keen, you might want to subtly enquire how things are going with her boyfriend. You said she talks about him occasionally. For all you know, they may have split up.

Finally the answer I was looking for ! well actually I did subtly enquire about her relationship, and she always says its going well...but I mean if its well how come she's online all the time ??? wouldnt you prefer to go out with your boy friend at night or on the weekends instead of talking to some guy on the internet for 1 or 2 in the morning ?

Like I said you're the back up plan if/when shes done with her man.

It seems like she just wants attention.

DRAMA - run away as fast as you can.

yeah Im running towards you ! You look HOT IN THAT BLUE BIKINI

You're being played like a fish.

You are such a man ho

you know you want to do her..go ahead..then get ready for all the hell and drama you will unleash by that one lustful act....

pimpin aian't easy

for gents and ladies