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Topic: Does this seem like "being friends" to you ?
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Fri 09/10/10 04:58 AM
Hit it and quit it.

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Fri 09/10/10 05:32 AM

Finally the answer I was looking for ! well actually I did subtly enquire about her relationship, and she always says its going well...but I mean if its well how come she's online all the time ??? wouldnt you prefer to go out with your boy friend at night or on the weekends instead of talking to some guy on the internet for 1 or 2 in the morning ?

Personally, I rather go to bed and get up early and go fishing rather than talk to some guy on a PC until two in the morning, whether I had a BF or not. But hey that's me.........LMAO......

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Fri 09/10/10 05:47 AM



Sounds like she's not super happy in her relationship. You're giving her what her man isn't, which seems to be attention and communication. She probably is interested on some level but while she has a man you're just the back-up plan.
would U be my back up plan?bigsmile :wink: flowerforyou


I know this scenario all too well... back-up plan is my middle name. Grass is always greener on the other side, until you get there and realize it's astro-turf.



Isn't THAT the truth eh? laugh

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Fri 09/10/10 12:12 PM

you know you want to do her..go ahead..then get ready for all the hell and drama you will unleash by that one lustful act....devil


I hear ya !

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Fri 09/10/10 01:37 PM

Hit it and quit it.


No. No. The correct phrase is "Hit it fast! Hit it strong!"

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Fri 09/10/10 01:38 PM


Hit it and quit it.


No. No. The correct phrase is "Hit it fast! Hit it strong!"


you DO say the most romantic things....love

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Fri 09/10/10 01:39 PM



Hit it and quit it.


No. No. The correct phrase is "Hit it fast! Hit it strong!"


you DO say the most romantic things....love


It's all about the words!

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Sat 09/11/10 06:20 AM

I met this great girl online, we became friends and started chatting for a while...she has a boy friend that she talks about every now and then. I donno why I got this vibe yesterday that she's interested in me not in a "friendly" way. I told her how I think a certain model is hot, then she threw a whole bunch of her modeling pics at me to convince me that she's hotter...and likes two weeks ago she asked for my number and asked if she can call me, I told her I was busy at the time, so yesterday when we were chatting her modem went off and she texted me telling me that. so I told her its fine il chat with her some other time...then she texted back saying "I'll just tuck myself into bed and call you to say goodnight"...am I overthinking this, or is she really interested in a non-friend way ?


I was actually the first person to respond to this a few days ago but for some reason the mods deleted my post that had absolutely nothing wrong with it.

In reading some of the comments, the first thing I'd say to the OP is that you commented to someone about getting the answer you are looking for. In my thinking that is an intellectual wasteland. What you "appear" to be asking for is opinions but what u really want is , apparently, affirmation for am immoral relationship. (I know standards of morality are variable and that is another topic).

I stand by my original answer that the mods deleted, and it is: She's just playing to have fun with no intention of letting anything get started for real, or she is just playing YOU. Either way, I feel sorry for HER boyfriend. Were I you, I would evaluate her as someone who cannot be trusted. namaste

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Sat 09/11/10 06:20 AM

Hit it and quit it.
this is also an option, and possibly what she has in mind

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Sun 09/12/10 09:28 AM
Has episode 2 been aired yet? laugh

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Sun 09/12/10 09:38 PM

Sounds like she's not super happy in her relationship. You're giving her what her man isn't, which seems to be attention and communication. She probably is interested on some level but while she has a man you're just the back-up plan.
yup

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Mon 09/13/10 01:02 PM

Has episode 2 been aired yet? laugh


Yeah now its aired...I havent talked to her in 4 days, and I got a message from her saying hi and all, then she sent another message with a certain address of a motel and asked me to send her a message with just this address, and she'll explain later ! when I asked her why, she said to forget about it and it doesnt matter...I sent the message after all but I have a very wierd feeling.

what could it be ?

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Mon 09/13/10 01:03 PM
noway

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Mon 09/13/10 01:47 PM
I'd say you're in this on your own. laugh

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Mon 09/13/10 01:55 PM
drinker

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