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If someone told you that you come across to people in a negative way, do you step back and look at it from their perspective? Not saying you have to agree with it, but do you stop and think about if there is any truth to it or do you just blow it off?
It could be in real life or online disclaimer: not that it helps lol....but this isn't about me. Just a topic for discussion |
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Not really. I would just tell them to kiss my azz.......
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It would give me pause. Don''t want to be that way so, I would look into it.
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I'm stuck right in-between JW & Shoe... some I'd say "kiss it" to, some I would take the time to listen to.
Depends on the advice giver... I look for friends that I see wisdom in... some are better at giving advice than others; some like to give advice in areas they don't have skilz in. I'd listen to you Rose |
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I'm stuck right in-between JW & Shoe... some I'd say "kiss it" to, some I would take the time to listen to. Depends on the advice giver... I look for friends that I see wisdom in... some are better at giving advice than others; some like to give advice in areas they don't have skilz in. I'd listen to you Rose Unless you missed the opening |
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Edited by
Teditis
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Fri 09/03/10 04:19 AM
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No, if you told me that I missed the opening... I'd listen!!
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You know you aren't going to live that one down for a while....right? Just don't aim for the ear
OT: I think regardless of who said it or how it was said to me, I might step back and look at it. I don't have to agree, but I know what I type and what I am thinking don't always come out the same |
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Yeah... even if the advice came from someone that I don't consider one of my "reliable" friends... I would pause and think. Some pauses would last longer than others, js.
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Me too. i might smack them around after the pause or I might say....hmmm you are right.
I think that more depends on my mood |
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No, if you told me that I missed the opening... I'd listen!! Just blame it on the tequila........ |
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No, if you told me that I missed the opening... I'd listen!! Just blame it on the tequila........ Tequila makes his clothes fall off????? |
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If one person says I am a duck.......If two people say I am a duck....I might look for feathers.
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haha, tequila has that reputation & makes for a good 'scape-goat... but no Rose, I'm a more exspensive "date" than that.
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If one person says I am a duck.......If two people say I am a duck....I might look for feathers. what if they are just mistaking you for a platypus? |
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haha, tequila has that reputation & makes for a good 'scape-goat... but no Rose, I'm a more exspensive "date" than that. I'm a cheap date. I'll do beer |
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If one person says I am a duck.......If two people say I am a duck....I might look for feathers. I understand what you're saying but I don't go by what the crowd says either... js. |
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If one person says I am a duck.......If two people say I am a duck....I might look for feathers. what if they are just mistaking you for a platypus? then I better check my bills. |
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haha, tequila has that reputation & makes for a good 'scape-goat... but no Rose, I'm a more exspensive "date" than that. I'm a cheap date. I'll do beer Awww... |
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If someone told you that you come across to people in a negative way, do you step back and look at it from their perspective? Not saying you have to agree with it, but do you stop and think about if there is any truth to it or do you just blow it off? It could be in real life or online disclaimer: not that it helps lol....but this isn't about me. Just a topic for discussion If someone told me I came across as negative, it would prove to me that they didn't get the joke and that I had wasted too much time on that person already. |
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