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Topic: Just Friends??
ValerieK's photo
Sat 08/28/10 07:59 PM
How do you know if a guy wants to be just friends or if he is just taking his time?

ProPhotographer's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:01 PM
ask him?glasses

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:04 PM

ask him?glasses


Brilliant!

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:14 PM
Did he say he just wanted to be friends?

ValerieK's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:18 PM
Thanks, I guess i should have went into more detail, we were friends years ago. We both were envolved with someone at that time, years went by and finally we reconneted and have been talking and seeing each other for about 10 months, but there has been no romance, maybe just a hug now and then. But he is always inviting me to go places with him and his children, is he just being nice or does he just want a friend???

ValerieK's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:19 PM
He has never said he just want to be friends, he has said that he is very shy.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:21 PM
It sounds to me like the guys are right... If you're interested the ask him if he is and let him know you are.. If he's shy then he may be afraid of rejection...

ValerieK's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:23 PM
thank you, he has told me he doesnt like rejection.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:23 PM

thank you, he has told me he doesnt like rejection.


Most people don't... I think it's even harder for shy people..

venusenvy's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:24 PM
flowerforyou

Thanks, I guess i should have went into more detail, we were friends years ago. We both were envolved with someone at that time, years went by and finally we reconneted and have been talking and seeing each other for about 10 months, but there has been no romance, maybe just a hug now and then. But he is always inviting me to go places with him and his children, is he just being nice or does he just want a friend???


After "seeing" each other for 10 months, if he was romantically inclined Im sure he would have let you know by now.

Goofball73's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:27 PM

thank you, he has told me he doesnt like rejection.


Neither did Glenn Close in the movie Fatal Attraction, and we all know how that turned out.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 08/28/10 08:27 PM

flowerforyou

Thanks, I guess i should have went into more detail, we were friends years ago. We both were envolved with someone at that time, years went by and finally we reconneted and have been talking and seeing each other for about 10 months, but there has been no romance, maybe just a hug now and then. But he is always inviting me to go places with him and his children, is he just being nice or does he just want a friend???


After "seeing" each other for 10 months, if he was romantically inclined Im sure he would have let you know by now.


Very good point and I'd think the same thing BUT he could just be terribly shy... I think asking him and letting him know she's interested is the only real way to find out..

Suzanne20's photo
Sat 08/28/10 10:39 PM


thank you, he has told me he doesnt like rejection.


Neither did Glenn Close in the movie Fatal Attraction, and we all know how that turned out.


rofl: rofl rofl

Suzanne20's photo
Sat 08/28/10 10:40 PM

How do you know if a guy wants to be just friends or if he is just taking his time?


I always get stuck in the "friend zone" so if you find out the secret, please share it.

kc0003's photo
Sat 08/28/10 10:43 PM
Edited by kc0003 on Sat 08/28/10 10:48 PM
stick your tongue down his throat and see what happens.....anything short of him biting it off will be a victory! but just in case....you may want to have the number of a good plastic surgeon handy.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sat 08/28/10 10:48 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Sat 08/28/10 10:49 PM

stick your tongue down his throat and see what happens.....anything short of him biting it off will be a victory!

shades


ValerieK's photo
Sun 08/29/10 06:07 AM

stick your tongue down his throat and see what happens.....anything short of him biting it off will be a victory! but just in case....you may want to have the number of a good plastic surgeon handy.
He might go into shock...lol

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/29/10 06:26 AM

flowerforyou

Thanks, I guess i should have went into more detail, we were friends years ago. We both were envolved with someone at that time, years went by and finally we reconneted and have been talking and seeing each other for about 10 months, but there has been no romance, maybe just a hug now and then. But he is always inviting me to go places with him and his children, is he just being nice or does he just want a friend???


After "seeing" each other for 10 months, if he was romantically inclined Im sure he would have let you know by now.


Not if he is SHY


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Sun 08/29/10 07:32 AM


stick your tongue down his throat and see what happens.....anything short of him biting it off will be a victory! but just in case....you may want to have the number of a good plastic surgeon handy.
He might go into shock...lol

hahaha well ..just invite him to a serious date..like something who includes yr family and close friends..and u will c hes reaction..and probably if d't want smtg serious..and wanna wait..he won't make it

darthwiz's photo
Sun 08/29/10 08:13 AM
After "seeing" each other for 10 months, if he was romantically inclined Im sure he would have let you know by now.


You clearly never met a guy like me (or ever noticed he was interested).

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