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Topic: What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make
Sweet_Cupcake Joined Tue 08/10/10 Posts: 142	Tue 08/17/10 03:45 AM
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships...

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Tue 08/17/10 03:48 AM
DECEPTION....building on sand, never works

Sweet_Cupcake Joined Tue 08/10/10 Posts: 142	Tue 08/17/10 04:03 AM
DECEPTION....building on sand, never works thats true.. i agree...

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Tue 08/17/10 07:59 PM Edited by wux on Tue 08/17/10 07:59 PM
Calling their lovers the wrong name (happens with me often, in the last year I blew my chances with 2 women, and in last 5 years, five women put me out the door for this. I just have a bad memory for my old age, that's all.) I remember I once said this to a very beautiful woman whom I did not even like at all, "I love you Barbara", on a hot August night in her backyard, and she said, "My name is Joan... my daughter who had dinner with us is Barbara..." It's true as I stand here. What do you say after that? The funny part is that that was only twenty years ago, and it was only the second time I told a woman I loved her. Women I really love I can't bring myself to tell them that.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 08/17/10 08:26 PM
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships... Choosing HBO over SHOWTIME! That is Blasphemy!

Monier Joined Sat 03/17/07 Posts: 3337	Tue 08/17/10 08:34 PM
getting into relationships they don't really want to be in.

SexiLuvinGirl Joined Sat 07/31/10 Posts: 97	Tue 08/17/10 08:34 PM
Ignoring the signs that the person is not right for us. Sometimes we just stay in relationships because it's better than being alone. Then later on if the relationships end, we always kick ourselves for not following our gut in the first place. I think acknowledging that someone may not be right for us is something that most of us sense pretty early on; but, do we follow that instinct? Most likely not.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Tue 08/17/10 09:32 PM
Lack of communication. Most issues can be worked through if you just talk with whoever your interest is at the time.

Atlantis75 Joined Wed 12/03/08 Posts: 8581	Tue 08/17/10 09:58 PM Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 08/17/10 09:59 PM
What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships... Leaving too much evidence and making it easy for the wife or the husband figure it out very quickly, that they are in a relationship with someone else.

Dan99 Joined Sat 08/23/08 Posts: 14941	Tue 08/17/10 11:51 PM
Those men women often dont shave properly and their voices are too deep. Its also a big giveaway when they scratch their balls.

eileena9 Joined Fri 04/13/07 Posts: 28211	Tue 08/17/10 11:59 PM
Lack of communication. Most issues can be worked through if you just talk with whoever your interest is at the time. DECEPTION....building on sand, never works I agree with both of these gentlemen

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Wed 08/18/10 12:10 AM
being too obsessed with physical attraction to give chemistry time to develop or being too obsessed with physical attraction to notice chemistry isnt developing

mbcasey Joined Wed 02/14/07 Posts: 1805	Wed 08/18/10 09:27 AM
Lack of communication. Most issues can be worked through if you just talk with whoever your interest is at the time. Agree...

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 08/18/10 09:33 AM
Those men women often dont shave properly and their voices are too deep. Its also a big giveaway when they scratch their balls. Well, when you shave down there, it itches!

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Wed 08/18/10 09:39 AM
Those men women often dont shave properly and their voices are too deep. Its also a big giveaway when they scratch their balls. Well, when you shave down there, it itches!

nauibeth Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 334	Wed 08/18/10 10:16 AM
Ignoring the signs that the person is not right for us. Sometimes we just stay in relationships because it's better than being alone. Then later on if the relationships end, we always kick ourselves for not following our gut in the first place. I think acknowledging that someone may not be right for us is something that most of us sense pretty early on; but, do we follow that instinct? Most likely not. a truly wise woman indeed!

Kings_Knight Joined Sat 01/31/09 Posts: 3718	Wed 08/18/10 10:17 AM
Inappropriate farting is high on the list of 'Dont's ...

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Wed 08/18/10 10:21 AM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Wed 08/18/10 10:21 AM
Not starting a relationship on a spiritual foundation. Also.. Not being friends first, and not abstaining from sex until the two know eachother quite well.

JamieRawxx Joined Sun 08/08/10 Posts: 2710	Wed 08/18/10 11:43 AM
Not starting a relationship on a spiritual foundation. Also.. Not being friends first, and not abstaining from sex until the two know eachother quite well. that was always my problem next time i get into a relationship [if i get a new one] i am definitely going to wait a while and if they can't handle that then they're not worth it anyways.

reichandisuki Joined Thu 08/19/10 Posts: 13	Thu 08/19/10 06:53 AM
I was raised to believe that if a man constantly tries to adore his wife and the wife constantly tries to respect the man then happiness should result.