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:(....wow how this place has died,seriously folks enjoy the whatever....peace
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i know i was thinking the same
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Peace Out Brother
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Edited by
Shasta1
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such.
There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . |
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . it seems to be getting worse and worse..... |
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Man, you snooze, you lose around here.
What did I miss? |
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Careful now... world peace might break out. |
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Edited by
sweetestgirl11
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Sun 08/15/10 06:14 AM
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Anyway my point is that these threads are really a much better environment than most - glad to meetcha |
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i use this site less and less, however did I ever meet a nice woman through mingle2 - my first ever meeting through this site...there aren't as many locals on mingle2 as compared with plenty of fish, so I am a bit surprised that I met someone I like here...it's not always about the number of members here it's about the quality of members here :) |
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He'll be back. Everybody comes back. You can check-out anytime you like, but you can never leave!
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:(....wow how this place has died,seriously folks enjoy the whatever....peace Ahh, it's been a nice weekend, maybe folks are just outside!!  Ooo, or even better yet, maybe some folks got some dates and went dancing!! 
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Actually, these boards are very well monitored....sometimes too much so, but I'd rather too much than too little. But, no matter where you go, online or IRL, there are those who just have to stir the pot. I handle it by ignoring it all. If someone emails me about someone else I just ignore it now. I don't get involved anymore....everyone has their own views on things and most of what we think about someone is simply our own perspective and judgement made with limited facts. Yep, you definitely need to have a thick skin to post regularly in the forums. Over sensitivity will get you nowhere. Just ignore the bad and keep coming back for the good. I would miss you if you left, Shasta. 
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:(....wow how this place has died,seriously folks enjoy the whatever....peace RK, I miss the old you. You were always a little "off the wall" but you used to be a happier person. At least that's how it seems now.  
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its to nice outdoors to sit on this thing all the time
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Actually, these boards are very well monitored....sometimes too much so, but I'd rather too much than too little. But, no matter where you go, online or IRL, there are those who just have to stir the pot. I handle it by ignoring it all. If someone emails me about someone else I just ignore it now. I don't get involved anymore....everyone has their own views on things and most of what we think about someone is simply our own perspective and judgement made with limited facts. Yep, you definitely need to have a thick skin to post regularly in the forums. Over sensitivity will get you nowhere. Just ignore the bad and keep coming back for the good. I would miss you if you left, Shasta. Yes, well my brother calls me Ms. Tact.  .Thank you Ruth,Iam sincerely flattered  You really get to see the inner workings of people on a place like this. I've seen people say things that really change my vote about them, mostly men. Not that they aren't nice people, but just those parts of them I wonder about. Being here almost a year, I can read threads and posts without looking who wrote them and can pick out alot of youse guys<G>. I used to be sensitive but learned over the years that there's a time and place for everything in this world. I just know that I have come to this place and walked away feeling real good yet more and more are seeing little things that sit on the fence- so the OP/poster can say 'what? why that? I didn't mean' and the thread contnues. Has the whole world gone to apathy? And I walk away in disappointment. |
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Careful now... world peace might break out. scary,scary. I guess M2 is just a shrunken world planet without the Holocaust, but then, it ain't over 'til the fat lady sings. |
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THESE ARE GENERALIZATIONS FOLKS, NO ONE IS BEING POINTED OUT. Maybe we've realized, as fun as it can be, there are still a handful who make life here rather difficult/dreary to be on here. I know I have .Who needs the grief, arguing, the dissing of people in threads. Not me I'm here for instance but there is absolutley nothing new on the boards, just the same few threads managed by a small handful of the same people in each one. When someone new makes a comment, they are ignored (maybe as a initiation rite- Couldn't figure that one out) or someone makes a smart aleck remark and more than once I have seen people deactivate from their own thread because of such. There needs to be a little more explicity on the ground rules about adult behavior, since apparently some don't know what it means. Also respecting others space, allowing them to be who they are, what they think. . Anyway my point is that these threads are really a much better environment than most - glad to meetcha Maybe am too much a hopeful optimist. This place really is a great place, just like mentioned- it's wearing when things are all haywire due to a couple of posters and their non-intimadating ways. If I go any further, some mod will kick my butt out. I just want to be able to go in and have some real intelligent, thought provoking, problem solving conversations with real folk in certain areas without feekling it is a few's ground and they run every thread down to their liking.
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I dont think its so much picking on the newbies, rude is rude no matter how long U have been here!! I will NOT tolerate anyone degrading someone else, no matter who it is. I will NOT set by and watch that happen, thats just the I was raised and cant change it!!
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I dont think its so much picking on the newbies, rude is rude no matter how long U have been here!! I will NOT tolerate anyone degrading someone else, no matter who it is. I will NOT set by and watch that happen, thats just the I was raised and cant change it!! It's called *class* Mike. Some have it, some don't. 
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And I agree with U my dear friend!!! We all have our differences but U cant degrade someone for not agreeing with U!! Discussion is great, but we have to do it in a respectful way!!
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