Ok I think im just going to get right to the point. Im the type of guy
that is soft hearted. Guess you could say that I have the feelings that
women have. Sensitivity, emotions, things like that. I hate people
hating me and I would do anything for a girl when there with me no
matter what it was. But what I dont get is why is it that everytime I
get to know someone and when we are dating she leaves me and says im not
ready for a relationship and starts dating someone eles like two days
later? What can I do too make things work?

Just be yourself bro

You might just found the wrong

People ... JMO

I agree with Romeo
just be yourself and when the time is right u will find what u r looking
for
it hasn't been my right time in three years, but it will come. I'm sure

Women like assholes and want to be treated like crap.

Your a nice guy and that bores them as there is no challange in a nice
guy. Plus women like to have guys cheat on them so there is lots of
drama.

The trick is to find a women that is not like most of the women and
nothing like the above.

Good luck you'll need it, as we all do.

Diclaimer
I am not talking about any women on JSH

nice save there. lol

@ Robert's comment

I agree there

as far as u refer of any woman as an asshole, u started really wrong.
there are several other ways to say things

not a save
women only see one thing...that first line!!!!!!!!!!!!!

your being to attached i was the same way. do anything for them makes
them feel like you attached to them. and they would leave me and date my
best friends. just don't get attached if you can help it it took me alot
of work to be able to do it. they feel that they are too young to settle
down too young to be hitched to one guy too young to be with just one
guy and not see what else is out there so if you can help it just don't
get attached till you are ready to marry and even then you shouldn't
because when hate to be attached to someone and they hate being crowded
take it from me i was just like you and did the same thing as you did to
get that. and all my ex g/fs have dated my best friends no lie.

Read it again TLW thats not what it says.

"Women like a**holes and want to be treated like crap."


They LIKE

I do apologize

awe, okay....
that clarifies it Ron.
Think a lot of women do, but some of us do not.
holding out for the special one that knows how to treat
a woman right!

No prob bro.

I am not stupid and I would never say anything about the beautiful smart
and great ladies on this site.

At 18..your dating age range is pretty similar I imagine,that being,
young women around the same age?

Well, most young people aren't looking to settle for serious at that
age, but rather, to 'taste' the different relationships out there.

A lot of people are out for the 'rush' of dating, but don't want to do
the work, of a long term committment...the 'instant gratification,
disposible' society that we are creating, has not a lot of room for
genuine, and honest people, who care for their partners.

It's all about the latest trend, fashion, commodity, but people aren't
just a commodity, a 'quick fix', and the genuine ones do tend to get
trampled by the selfish.

I guess, just be consistently you, and eventually, someone of equal
calibre will arrive in your life, that shares the same values as you...I
guess, instant gratification, doesn't work, when it comes to real and
lasting relationships.

I agree with Jess, but to me. To much,to fast,to soon. At the age of 18
most of ill say didn't or don't know how to control or understand our
emotions....we tend to hang on to tight and not seeing what we are
actually doing. It's not easy to break out of that pattern but with time
and a few somewhat relationships,we begin to grow and learn from the
past...that is only if we chose to really be honest with ourselves and
look at what is really going on.

You know i agree with you jess. It seems like the "field" is like that.
But I dont know, just seems hard without someone there you know? But
thanks everyone that has replyed. You guys really helped alot

just remember the golden rule nice gyes finish last bad boys get the
girl woman want a nice gye with a bad boy througn in

Fix your car first of all and don't let her walk all over you bro. Be
strong and be true and express your sense of mind. Good luck dude!

You can try this,


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about something ridiculous?

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Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.

So let me ask you... if you were an attractive
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how would YOU go about figuring out which one or
ones were the "real deal" and which were merely
FAKING strength and confidence?

Of course... you'd have to TEST them.

But you couldn't test by saying, "OK, I'm going
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No no NO!

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HIM WITH THOSE TESTS. This way, if he turned out
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easily.

This would give you the power...

Of course.

And if you did this OFTEN, you'd eventually
become so accustomed to doing it, that MANY of the
tests would become SUBCONSCIOUS and work their way
into your NATURAL, EVERYDAY way of communicating
with men.

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That's what is going on with beautiful women.

Many of the tests that they use with men are
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automatically!

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good chance that you won't get another chance.

In this fast-paced world, we humans don't have
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look her in the eye expectantly.

Love it.

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!!!!!

This is NOT something I wrote, or tried. I was hoping someone else would
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