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| Topic: Ladies, ever wonder why men get 'bored' in relationships? | |
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Personally I see your analogy as an excuse for a person to stay a player. ( Male or Female ) A mature adult will go that park after the second time and see the carousel ride and ride it over and over, recalling the first time it gave such a thrill. Admire the craftmanship it took to still be there and running. And the beauty of well aged and oiled machine, like a fine antique car. The exciting thing about that ride is that each time you can change it up and ride a horse or ride a zebra or even sit in the swan seat. It is the same ride yet different each and every time. Not boring. Boring goes both ways, keep it exciting! Justme has it right, if you love the ride you will always enjoy it. Bumper cars is still fun at 61, because there's so much variation in the ride. Ron |
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I'm still wondering what the point of this thread was. That men have an excuse for getting bored? no not an excuse at all, I have a friend who didn't understand why her SO was losing interest, and I asked her what they did everyday. and She basically listed the same few things, and said that is pretty much a normal day. It was simply my perspective on it, do I think of it as an excuse absolutely not. But is it a possible reality? absolutely. |
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i heard that all a man needs are sandwiches and b.j.`s..............i dunno
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i heard that all a man needs are sandwiches and b.j.`s..............i dunno yeah, but some people can't make sandwiches and quite a few don't understand that B.J stands for something other than Brazillian Jiujistu, and when they do, they use the same tactics to no avail. |
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i heard that all a man needs are sandwiches and b.j.`s..............i dunno yeah, but some people can't make sandwiches and quite a few don't understand that B.J stands for something other than Brazillian Jiujistu, and when they do, they use the same tactics to no avail. 
wow, sounds like lessons might be in order
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People get bored in relationships because they don't care enough to put forth the effort to make it not boring.
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you'd be surprised one ex, literally 'blew' and hard. it didn't feel the greatest lol.
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i heard that all a man needs are sandwiches and b.j.`s....i dunno People get bored in relationships because they don't care enough to put forth the effort to make it not boring. Profundities. |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Thu 08/05/10 02:16 PM
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I'm still wondering what the point of this thread was. That men have an excuse for getting bored? no not an excuse at all, I have a friend who didn't understand why her SO was losing interest, and I asked her what they did everyday. and She basically listed the same few things, and said that is pretty much a normal day. It was simply my perspective on it, do I think of it as an excuse absolutely not. But is it a possible reality? absolutely. The way you wrote it made it sound like you were making excuses. Obviously if a couple is stuck in the same routine all the time, someone's going to get bored. It's up to them to spice it up if they want to keep it going. If they're not doing that, perhaps they don't care enough to keep the relationship exciting. |
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You are mistaken if you think 'human nature' applies only to men my friend. Ditto............. for I seem to get bored with the men I have dated much quicker then they do with me....... 
Could be because their machines are not taking care of and lack the steam to keep them going they are more like the roller coaster that gets stuck at the top and can't get going again........... 
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The way you wrote it made it sound like you were making excuses. Obviously if a couple is stuck in the same routine all the time, someone's going to get bored. It's up to them to spice it up if they want to keep it going. If they're not doing that, perhaps they don't care enough to keep the relationship exciting. You sure hit the nail on the head! Ron |
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you'd be surprised one ex, literally 'blew' and hard. it didn't feel the greatest lol.
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This analogy sooooooo goes both ways. Get off of me already! Have Better things to do. Some men only know how to "ride" one way. They think they're great at it too lol. They're not. I'm not looking for the "Hammer" in bed. yup. |
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Edited by
Kings_Knight
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Sat 08/07/10 10:31 AM
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That scenario might hold water IF the mindset is that the only thing that MATTERS is 'the ride' ... In the real world, 'the ride' is only the icing on the cake ... if 'the ride' is the only thing EITHER party is waiting in line for, they're both gonna be continually disappointed when it's over.
Like the old saying tells us: "You can get by on 'cute' for about fifteen minutes - after that, you better know something." The scenario you describe is more like something I learned a long time ago in Econ 101 - it's called the 'Theory of Marginal Utility'. In brief, it means that the FIRST of ANYthing anyone experiences, owns, purchases, etc will provide the greatest degree of enjoyment or satisfaction. Every repetition of this activity will result in lesser satisfaction with each experience. That's what you're describing here ... |
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Hey Men!! ever wonder why Ladies get bored in relationships??? Hehehe
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Hey Men!! ever wonder why Ladies get bored in relationships??? Hehehe I assume 'NO' would be the wrong answer here ... ? |
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Hey Men!! ever wonder why Ladies get bored in relationships??? Hehehe I assume 'NO' would be the wrong answer here ... ? Nooo that would be the right one
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Hey Men!! ever wonder why Ladies get bored in relationships??? Hehehe Ok venusenvy start a thread on this. No laugh, serious, help us out. Ron |
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Hey Men!! ever wonder why Ladies get bored in relationships??? Hehehe Ok venusenvy start a thread on this. No laugh, serious, help us out. Ron Ahahahha Im just being a brat!! Its my B'day so I can if I want nah nah 
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