I would say go for it

YES!!!!!





Enough said!

I had a friend once for a couple of years... she was gorgeous and sexy and tall and very-very rich. (By my standards.)

On our first what I thought was going to be a date, she said "Albrecht, (not my real name), I would love to be friends with you, but only if you promise and can handle that we'll never even touch each other."

I said fine. Just remember your own words.

About a year into the friendship (weekly meetings, several phone calls and emails a week, not subsiding in intensity -- we lived in each other's pockets), she would make some flirting remark or touching, after her daily dose of alcohol, which was not much, I admit, only one or two glasses of wine.

I never reacted to them.

She held back with those after the first wave, but then the flirts and come-ons continued, with a higher intensity and frequency.

I said to myself, without speaking, that baby, you are an idiot.

You see, she was honest and stuff, but I was not sure whether 1. it was the alcohol that made her like me, 2. she really wanted me, or 3. she never meant it beyond some flirt or touching, and I was not going to debase myself to that tactic if I weren't assurred that some real nookie was to follow.

From where we came from as far as the relationship is concerned, it was absolutely impossible to tell which of the three was the real one. I could only ask, but that I did not. Due to my pride? Due to scaring her away? Because I enjoyed the come-ons secretly. Due to the fear of being turned down bluntly and brutally? I don't know.

Then towards the second anniversary date of our friendship, she disappeared. Completely.

Your lover should be your best friend




Yes????

YES!!
Who better to fall in love with?

Exactly!!!'

that one person you laugh with

cry with

bump and grind with!!!!

Like you said... Enough said!!

Man-up and ask him Sista...if your as close as you say honesty will be appreciated. I bet my last peso he is thinking exactly the same thing.

we're gonna give it a whirl!

best thing to do is have sex with a person of the opposite sex that was so great but they bailed so you keep chasing and seek that one that was like them...you can always give me a try,i'm easy like sunday morning... that could take your mind off of your buddy

i know it was a sh!tty post but hey i tried...if i was a therapist that would be my advice,no woman ever forgets a good ...well yall know

It's usually the other way around for me...guys I have dated usually get demoted to "just friends" or I stay in the "friend zone" altogether because the feelings are not reciprocated(sp?)

There was this moment a long time ago I thought I felt something for her, but I quickly smacked that goofy idea right out of my head.

Yes, they do. My ex and I started as friends first and then it grew, one day he just kissed me. We were together for 18 years (the last 3 dating after the D) and we are still today, very good friends. It can happen and it was all so very worth it, best memories (and some hard ones) in my life. Things happened, and slowly we grew apart, I got cancer at the wronng time for us, and it was the clincher. he has since apologized many times and I forgave him long before he did. We're only human. Go for it, I don't think you'll regret it. If it doesn't work out, if you truly are friends, things will go back to friends. It's like having a arguement with a lt best friend, you forgive, forget and move on- . Best of luck , truly!

Apologize, hadn't gotten to this page before my words above, best of luck!!! You look and read like quite a great young woman, and think most here would agree and hope for the best for the both of you being togther.

once you meet me you will be in heaven

great!!


Good luck!!!


Tammy