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Has anyone else out there experienced the feeling that you are falling in love with your best friend of the opposite sex? What do you do?
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Ummm - yeah. I just let it happen. It was really nice that my best friend WAS the opposite sex, too ...
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Not since I was a kid, good friendships are had to come by , something like that could ruin it.
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Not since I was a kid, good friendships are had to come by , something like that could ruin it. It could thats true....guess I'm just trying to figure out what is holding us back. Some of his friends that I hadnt hung out with much until recently asked us when we dated, because the way we interact and get along and i guess whatever he has told them about me made them think that we had dated before. We talked about it a little....I'm jsut not sure if we are both scared of losing the friendship or??? |
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My friends have always been more like sisters to me, but there were a few I've thought about wanting to be more than friends, one I have dreams about every now and then, but I otherwise don't really think of her anymore.
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I can see that....he and I are definitely...close to say the least...and not really in a brother sister sort of way
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Go for it. You never know what could be until you try.
I kinda wish I did. |
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Not since I was a kid, good friendships are had to come by , something like that could ruin it. It could thats true....guess I'm just trying to figure out what is holding us back. Some of his friends that I hadnt hung out with much until recently asked us when we dated, because the way we interact and get along and i guess whatever he has told them about me made them think that we had dated before. We talked about it a little....I'm jsut not sure if we are both scared of losing the friendship or??? If you get along that well as friends chances are good you may make a good couple . At the very least it would seem awkward in the beginning but should you choose that route just be prepared that it may not not end up so well. I guess you need to figure out the value of your friendship before making a decision. |
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All good relationships start as friendships. If your friendship is strong even if the relationship doesn't last you may be able to remain friends. I say go for it. You only live once.
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...and you've never had a 'drunk moment' to test the water? Yes...but necessarily even drunk for that....like i said...we are really close....hes one of the best men i know.... 
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Does he date much? I wonder if he has a secret. You are so cute, I wonder bout this guy. awe well thank you...and i dont think he has a secret...not a bad one any ways....all of his friends are quality people with hearts of gold just like him. he hasnt dated in a while that i know of. hes in the process of finishing his schooling and trying to get his career going. |
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one of our friends said that it seemed like we were both waiting on the other to make a move.....
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definitely doesnt help my wondering if maybe they are right about that...and right about the thought that we should date....hmmm
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hey bee bee! you never know until you try.
talk with him about it and see if he wants to date. you surely know each other well enough to decide whether you both are really interested in taking it to the next level - and if the timing is right... good luck! it sounds very exciting!
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definitely doesnt help my wondering if maybe they are right about that...and right about the thought that we should date....hmmm You can ease into it. Go on a few dates with him and see what developes. Friendship and dating have differences and if the same chemistry is with you guys while dating as it is with friendship, then you have found something special! Best of luck to you and let us know how things turned out. |
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hey bee bee! you never know until you try. talk with him about it and see if he wants to date. you surely know each other well enough to decide whether you both are really interested in taking it to the next level - and if the timing is right... good luck! it sounds very exciting!
Hi! it is exciting....and a little scary...combine that with some changes to come on the job front makes me a mess! 
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and yes I will let you know what happens...
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Has anyone else out there experienced the feeling that you are falling in love with your best friend of the opposite sex? What do you do? oh dear..been there, done that, regretted it aftewards.. 
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i think im just gonna go for it....
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Do it!
 I hope it works out for you. Either way, atleast you won't have to wonder about what could have been if only you took that chance.
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