Being ADD has it's advantages.

You can talk about anything. Talk about things that interest you and find out what you have in common. Do you play golf? Talk about that. Do you read horror fiction? Talk about that.

Open your mind to a world of possibilities.

What the heck. You seem like a cool guy. Here's the address to my blog. In it you'll find everything you need to know about chatting up women.

http://scoundrellife.blogspot.com/?zx=8a7a72dd11c0fb12

I haven't posted to it in a long time because I forgot my pass words

The problem that I see in some dating sites is this:

You got people who come to these sites to either meet friends, date, and possibly find a lifetime mate. Well, how is that going to happen if they don't at least open up and talk. Sometimes it seems as though you are playing peek-a-boo with some of them. Meet and greet with a three or four line paragraph and you may make them leary of you, they respond with short sentences proceding with extreme caution. Some people want to be won over by one-liners it seems. You only get that one chance, if that one-line doesn't bling...they will layback and see if you come back with a more interesting one-line. but from a one-liner's view In short...you get what you put into it.
from a meet and greet point of view you get shunned. We all need practice in initating and reciprocating conversation. Good conversation skills could cut to the chase.

CeriseRose

Look, here is what you need to ask right off. This lone question will decide if you want to converse with her more.

"How do you feel about anal sex?"

The reactions you get are priceless.

..i find that showing them my weenie usually gets the conversation flowing...

Pull up your big boy pants and talk to women like any adult.

Don't have expectations; just talk. If there is chemistry - the conversation will flow. If there is no chemistry - the awkwardness will be obvious and you can just move on.

Or, you can take Goof's advice. That's how we met!

You should ALWAYS take my advice. You ask that question, and most chicks think you are either (a) drunk (b) you are adorable or (c) they will tazer you. I think MG thought I was adorable but she still tazered me.

It’s not hard. You just have to ask a question or two and let them talk. DON'T THINK TO HARD ABOUT THE QUESTIONS AND KEEP IT SIMPLE. If you listen to them it will hopefully give you a momentum to continue a dialogue. You will click or you won't.

God, Goof, I spilled some perfectly good juice when I read this.