sorry ghost sandman doesnt come easy here...

Wow... all of you chicks are boring... where do you live... in Hell.
Get up and get out there... pull some guy off a barstool and start
dancing with him... why not

You pull some guy off a bar stool the drunk might fall down.

Look... all I am saying is, do something exciting.
I suppose being agressive could mean pulling a guy off a Bar Stool,
maybe not a drunk one, but depending on where they are he could be.
Sitting at the computer all night is not what hot chicks should be
doing.
These girls are content with that, get out and play.

I didnt say I was content being at home but I am not upset as well with
it, I was married for 10 years so I didnt learn how to go out and meet
people being a single person. I am now single and ready to start dating
and I just dont know how. I dont dance at all, I do like playing darts
and pool I just dont have a lot of social skills to meet people I dont
know. I am very social with friends and co workers just not when it
comes to meeting men I dont know. Has nothing to do with being boring it
has to do with not knowing.

Hey there, just sayin hi on here....kinda redundant huh, but anyways new
to this site so.....

hey shagnac...im originally from the Phx metro area....and theres lots
to do around there

Like?? I know you can go into any bar but that gets old.

Okay, hot chick... I don,t know what it is.
Woman are bold, they do not wait to be asked out, and since you are hot,
I question if you at least make youself availiable to men.
I am familiar with your area, I have family in Chandler, AZ... in fact I
was there on Wednesday.
There is heaps to do there... so get out, and go... put on your skirt
and go.

That is true!!! I haven't really dated in awhile myself but I used to be
pretty involved with the community...getting info from the papers as in
the activities going on...hiking...the arts...theater type
stuff...church...just whatever your interested in...but dating can be
difficult...and in trying to find someone decent...the bar does get old

ontario,
I work in Chandler and I know the areas pretty well as I am pretty much
a Native here. It all comes down to me learing how to do things without
being married. I like to play darts, pool, listen lo music, I like
coffee shops, bookstores. I also feel I make myself avalible as I pretty
much Look at any man who walks past me lol.

Try the gym Shanga is there a 24 hr fitness where you live you could go
right now if you wanted

I go to the gym 5 times a week at the Y and the last thing I want to do
is approach a man when I am all STINKY!! COme on now how attractive is a
women who's shirt is sweat soaken? I work out very hard when I go so I
am not very pretty at that time.

OK Shagna,Ill be up for a while so lets talk. Whats on the agenda?
Actually I am yawning already but not ready to crash.

who said you had to work hard if your going to meet someone just dress
a little sexy and start some small talk. woman talk to me quite a bit at
the gym but they are usually married and I dont play that game but the
ones that arent we can go home and take a shower thats the way I think.

just passing time darlin!!

I hear ya me to

Passing time ah Shagna?
You know,its a cool night and its a good night to cuddle so ill grab my
pillow later :-(
No really its a good night to relax since we dont have a choice.

Shagna...I,m on my way out to a B-Day party, but I want to say to you
that it is impossible for a woman that looks like you not to get hit on
by men daily.
I wish you were in L.A. I would take you to this party with me and watch
the guys fight over you.

I am serious I dont get hit on at all, A couple people at work do but it
is all in fun nothing serious. I wish men hit on me