That's the way I feel

but

Is that just romanticising love

like not truly working on the real feeling of it

we all dream this. We all dream that

but

what is the reality. Love is harsh sometimes yes?

Love is harsh, we all want it so very much. We know what it feels like, yet it is so hard to say what it feels like.....It does not happen overnight, but sometimes it feels like it is happening overnight. We desire someone, and they desire us, we go on down the path and try to find our way....There are no promises that it will work, but with that wonderful feeling that we can not discribe we go forward and see where the path leads us.....Yes, love is harsh, but it is worth it when it works.

Love is one of those feelings that regardless what heartache it may bring, your still willing to embrace it with your whole soul............

Sure it brings deep desire

but

what if we act on that desire to soon

and then

love fizzles out and we are left with a hole

usually one is left hurt. The other walks away

so do we put desire aside while working on the love?

No, you don't put the desire aside....you just keep it in check until some time has gone by.

Dr Ruth, you wise lady. Passion and desire are very hard to hide and pretend that it is not there. You know, put it in the little lock box and save it for a rainy day.....Love is great, lust is easy....There is a line there that sometimes is very, very thin.

That is when you realize it was more lust then love......


Never put your desires on the back burner for desires fuel love..... hard to have love without the desire to be with them.

I learned all my lessons the hard way. But, at least I learned em.

We all have. There are a million books that tell us how, when, what, who, how, but I am a chance taker, and i don't read a lot, I act on my gut and feelings. If I am drawn in and all those things are too much to think about it becomes to much....Take the chance and see where it goes, or don't and it is assured to fail.

I agree.

How do you know? You just do. There will be NO DOUBT in your mind or heart.

I agree... after all, how do you know there will be a tomorrow? If something happens to take the object of your desire (and ultimately love), how will you feel knowing you never took the opportunity to express that?

in her best Tamny Dee voice..... Real true love is so hard to find. ESP when it's only felt by one. Sometimes men intentionaly alter a womans life and walk away unhurt. That's called being played! Yes?

i think true love is when 2 people care about each other as much as they care about themselves.knowing when love is real comes from being able to read the others words and actions to determine if they are being honest with you or in some even harder determining if they are being honest with themselves.there are so many reasons people pretend to care more than they really do.

You are a wise man

hi mohnish here from ind

Only a fool seeks to control love, for in the end, love controls all of us. If love has just tidal waved through your life...theres no mistaking it.