i been doing a little traveling seeing some family in my home country and i meet this guy and we been out a few times and he is really a great guy and so romantic, when i am with him i feel so comfatable and i feel like myself when i am with him,

but i am going back home at the end of the week and he told me he has family in florida and he was moving back there with his 6 year old daughter this week to i ask where in florida and it's the same town i live in how funny,

but my question is this morning he ask me if we could live together in florida, i was not sure what to say since we just meet and all, i do really enjoy being with them and all but living together is it to soon for us to be doing that,

WAY too soon.

Continue seeing him, just take your time.

Yes, way too soon. Since you can talk with him easily, you shouldn't have any trouble saying this and he should understand

SLOWLY.....slowly....take things slowly (you just met and you are way too young to just jump into anything)

since we started dating we all been spending a lot of time together, me and his daughter elena been shoping and went to the swimming pool a few times and i all ready feel like we been together for a long time but we have not

Consider this; you are on vacation, nothing that you are experiencing has to do with everyday life.


When you get home, if he decides to move there then keep seeing him, but do not cohabitate. Let things settle down and see where it may go. Remember he has a child and no matter what happens between the two of you, she too has to deal with all of the consequences of his decisions. (Moving to a foreign country, starting a new life and a new relationship)(that’s a lot of changes...for everyone involved)

elena is only 6 years old so for her the move is going to be easy, and she is starting school this coming year

Th is always some trauma for a young child in a major move .Do'nt kid yourself.Take your time and do'nt make a rookie mistake theres nothing but time

I agree with the others. It's WAY too soon and it might cause more trouble in the long run. Take your time. If he doesn't understand this, then maybe he isn't the one for you. If he can respect this, then that's great.

It's to soon kid!!

Develop a true loving relationship first!!

You've known the guy for a few weeks and he is already talking about moving in together?

Back waaaaayyy up and take a really good look at this.

Maybe it is funny that he is moving to the same town...because he heard you mention it in passing and figured it would cheaper to move in with...YOU!!

Way to soon, in my opinion too.

Better make the 'Make sure I'm not being used' Check before you commit to anything.


I can understand how the both of you could end up going all gaga for each other but the fact that he's letting his 6 year old spend time with you when you barely know him, makes me think she is being used as well.


Put yourself at a distance and let this man do everything for him and his daughter by himself. DO NOT for a moment think about giving him any money before you leave for home. Make him prove that this is a dream come true for you.

Of all the guys that are around you, you just LUCKLY happen to meet a guy that HAPPEN to have FAMILY near where you live? Now. What are the chances of that happening? %%% wise? I would be asking him for their phone# so I could talk to them.
And he just so happens to be going back there right about the same time you are?? Whats the % of that?
And wanting to move in with you without even REALLY knowing you? HOW WIERD!!!!
JMO, I see RED FLAGS, RED FLAGS, RED FLAGS

me and mark have been having so much fun together, me and my sister and her husband and mark we all went camping for a few days when i was over there and lets say i am not that good at getting fish but i love camping and we did some swimming to, maybe a little skinny dipping oops said to much, but do you think there is any way that mark is going to take me seriouly in this relationship i really have not had the best of luck with meeting great guys,

if he's buying the house why not

WAY to soon!!!Moving in too soon together can ruin a relationship quicker than anything I know!!!

I've had a good deal of experience in this and listen to those that tell you "It's TOO soon!"

Uhhhhhh, what happened to your dyke GF that did you in her sleep?

Hummm I'm confused didn't ya just make a post about being tied up by a woman............


Slow down first and get to know them before ya go jumping in with both feet....