I liked my ex so much we married twice and had two beautiful kids. She was a great mother. I liked my deceased so much because she was the friend I always wanted. Something nice about myself now: Hmm. I have come a long ways since becoming a widower. At first I couldn't keep a Venus fly trap alive because the roaches ate it. But now a cat and dog and a boarder are all living here. I have managed to make a lot of friends at work and socialize more. The plant in the bathroom window seal having a hard time is not my fault. I can honestly say you will have to blame the cat on that one. My boarder fixed the plant and I think the cat got the message after my boarder talked to the cat it being her plant and not his litter box.

My ex husband is a very loving, kind, caring father to all our children.

Just because we didn't make it doesn't mean I can't give him credit where credit is due.

Plus he's a Vet .. Any military man is a hero to me

no Fade , it wasn't. But I dated a Mike a few yrs ago who is a pretty good guy - but he's not my ex boyfriend

There are so many beautiful thoughts, comments, sentiments on here that I am near tears. Awesome you guys, I never expected this. - this much love on this thread...

you all have inspired me soooo much that I wanna list good things about ALL of my exes

Only thing I'd add is that some of you forgot to list 1 good thing about yourselves in the relationship - I could do that for you -

everyone on here who contributed comments still says good things about their exes - good karma.

Now Ima havin a beer to celebrate I just wish you all were here to hug!