see? i wouldn't know, i've never been pregnant

The joy of being older---never going to be in that situation

Since one doesn't necessarily have to have sex in a date one can date friends and if they are pregnant then they are just pregnant. I think one can be romantically involved with someone and they still don't have to have sex. I guess I am just enjoying having a lot of female friends. Interesting topic. I guess being noble can get ya in trouble. I am really falling in love with my edit button.

I think she should be worrying about her situation.. Coming from an older generation, if I was pregnant and not married, I would be embarrased to show my face.. I know its a different world now but some people have no respect for themselves...

Definitely an older generation thing there, and no offense meant.

I was raised by both parents, that so long as I could afford to support myself and the baby, one didn't necessarily need to be married to have kids. No one should be embarrassed by having a baby, just because she's single.

And there are certainly enough single women who are ending up pregnant to show that men aren't really truly caring so long as they get their jollies off. Few seem to care to verify the situation and take care to make sure they're holding up their end in possibly preventing a pregnancy.

That was my generation too pretty much, but I don't feel that way at all. I carried a child @ 16 and was very excited about it

Carrying a child is awesome. There is nothing in the world like it, so no matter the situation behind the conception, I would carry with pride

not for me thanks i dont need anothers mans ex drama or the responsibility of their brat

Well, I know my folks were oddballs in many respects. They waited 6 years before deciding to have us, and Mom was 30 when I was born. We were WANTED, rather then accidents. There was no religious indoctrination growing up, and my learning was basic common sense. Sex is sacred, fun and enjoyable, just be careful, safe and responsible. There was no excuse about not understanding. Both dad and mom are feminists, so both of us, brother and myself were taught those responsibilities. It was so open and out there information-wise, that it was a real non-issue growing up, and there was no sneaking around and such.

Ya know

I keep thinkin bout this

when your preg with a mans child

1. It should be a wonderful time between you and the man

2. A marriage is nice

3. Your spending nine months thinking and breathing this new life. Not who can I date

4. If you have sex. I don't know the thought of one mans penis inside while another mans baby in my belly is repulsive to me


Am I just to old school about this? Yes??

i agree

fade2black is so correct. Just because she's single and expecting, doesn't mean I'm going to get some. Just as vacationing with a woman, doesn't mean sex.

I woudn't date a pregnet woman as she would probably be too young for me. If I were younger I could see me doing it though. If she was in her late forties/early fifties, sure.

The only questions I would have is how she got pregnet; if she was dating around and having sex or was this a LTR. Unplaned or planed?

Ron

delilady, If that is a recient picture and you being 54. Be still my beating gizzard!

Quoted for Truth.

NO!!!! Why the heck would I want an unspoken, yet growing daily reminder of her past relationship? Its bad enough that yet another guy is running away from his responsibility, but now the woman is trying to find comfort/support from another man. Something just isn't right, no matter which way you look at this situation.