I just got an email from this gentlemen who assumed to judge me and presume to know what I was thinking when i wrote - "i do not want to get involved with anyone whose not from the USA or hasn't been or become a US citizen or isn't legal to live/work or be in the USA" ,

I didn't say them words exactly word for word... But my thing is, why would you even email me and call me out my name 1st off? YOU Don't know anything about me & if you didnt like my profile why not just skip on to the nest with out commenting???

2ndly when did anyone of US become God to judge me and my preferences or anyone else?

I've been asked too many times to count on this site to help ppl from all over the world become a citizen and or to help them get a Visa to come to the USA.

Now I know some could of been for real but more times then not they're BS artist trying to pull a fast one on me or you or even YOU!

I want to know what you all think and its cool to be honest but we grown so lets also remember to please be respectful.

I have friends from around the world and some I'd help other no I wouldn't Help but my thing is also this- DO NOT think to try and use me and DON'T bother me if your not from the USA or if your not a legal Citizen and lol or if you do not have a work Visa or some other kind of Visa!

That's my thought & my preferences. I do my best not to Judge any one so please don't do it to me is what it comes down to. so again ppl what do you think?

Don't take it personally.

I stopped trying to figure out people a long time ago.

You just set off a really big red flag for a lot of people I think.

On topic, who the **** cares? It is the internet, scammers have been around since the dawn of the internet, scammers will be around until the internet dies off...live and learn, or, as you have, live and ***** about it.

I was accused of being a racist because I wouldn't talk to some guy from Nigeria...

here here!!!!!!!!! I agree... I get that as well well a bit different like i cant take care of myself.. I chose not to work... and I pay for myself... all my life... i have paid for myself.. well now I took time off for me because i can and I earned MY money to pay for myself! not the state! I dont get unemployment or food stamps or anything!yes I am smart enough to be able to live off my savings THAT I EARNED! yes i get judged! sorry about your life!.. no one pays for me . but me! I get judged for that! pfft! I say!

that is long and one day i intend to read it ...


anyway how you doing

she said... someone emailed her! not her emailing them! let me bend over for you!

The same comment applies. Wipe it off and move on, I've realized that a lot of people like to complain around the forums about a site that is pretty much completly free...

Kind of like complaining about the cook at a BBQ you were invited too. Eat the food and shut the **** up.

also.... there are flags sometimes.. an instant asking u to go to yahoo is the first one.. lol but there is nothing wrong with having friends from other countries....

lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well do i have to? I dont do that... nor do i complain about all my spams!

or your emails!

brb i need to go shed a tear! dang fear why u so mean to me?

now thats funny.....

I don't intend it to be mean. Really, it is all logical, no one has to pay for this site and this site offers a pretty damn good free program. I see absolutely no need to complain at all.

Or I could raise a ****storm because I get an off e-mail from some random that isn't even near me...yeah...that sounds awesome.

i can complain if i want- even if this sites free or not, if i don't like you or like what you got to say then im going to keep it trucking on to the next,

i don't waste my time on ppl im not interested in and i never even talked to this person,

he just up and emailed me cuz he got all butt hurt over what i wrote on "MY PROFILE" Caps to stress that it's what I wrote on "my own" page/profile.

Lots of ppl wont date a fat person or a handicap person ok no bigg that's their preference to do so and choose to live their life date whom they want as they please...

Ppl wont date me cuz im black and puerto rican, oh well im not gonna go email em and go off and call em out they names cuz of it. i dnt care but my Q was lol what do you think? what would be this persons reasons for even commenting to me?

Ya ,you are wrong!!

lol! i know ! u should know me by now!.. on a brighter subject.. wow my meatloaf rocks! i made spaghetti too tonight!

You absolutely right you have a right to your preferences. what ever they are. Just consider the source. Those type of emails are the ones I read/delete.
I refuse to engage...

Did you mean he called you by your given name and you are upset about it? It's a very pretty name, but you might want to take it off your profile then.

And secondly, you might have hit a nerve with a scammer and they got annoyed....but what about if the person lives in another country and just wants to talk, there are people from all over on here who like making friends to talk too. No use letting it get to you, just click block and move on to the next.