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Topic: tell me am I wrong?
FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:28 PM




You just set off a really big red flag for a lot of people I think.

On topic, who the **** cares? It is the internet, scammers have been around since the dawn of the internet, scammers will be around until the internet dies off...live and learn, or, as you have, live and ***** about it.
she said... someone emailed her! not her emailing them! let me bend over for you!laugh laugh smooched


The same comment applies. Wipe it off and move on, I've realized that a lot of people like to complain around the forums about a site that is pretty much completly free...

Kind of like complaining about the cook at a BBQ you were invited too. Eat the food and shut the **** up.


i can complain if i want- even if this sites free or not, if i don't like you or like what you got to say then im going to keep it trucking on to the next,

i don't waste my time on ppl im not interested in and i never even talked to this person,

he just up and emailed me cuz he got all butt hurt over what i wrote on "MY PROFILE" Caps to stress that it's what I wrote on "my own" page/profile.

Lots of ppl wont date a fat person or a handicap person ok no bigg that's their preference to do so and choose to live their life date whom they want as they please...

Ppl wont date me cuz im black and puerto rican, oh well im not gonna go email em and go off and call em out they names cuz of it. i dnt care but my Q was lol what do you think? what would be this persons reasons for even commenting to me?


Hey, try eHarmony...they're ****ing awesome.

**** him, who cares, he is a nobody...it isn't like you have any vested emotions in some dude that randomly emails you telling you he doesn't like your preference.

Preferences are preferences, they are unique to the individual at hand, if someone doesn't like them...**** them. Who cares? They aren't this heavy hitter in your life, they are not this preferential person that suddenly has so much to dictate over your choices.

It is the ****ing internet, move on and find someone else.

Totage's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:28 PM
Aw kum peepole rarez da rove?

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:29 PM



brb i need to go shed a tear! dang fear why u so mean to me?laugh laugh


I don't intend it to be mean. Really, it is all logical, no one has to pay for this site and this site offers a pretty damn good free program. I see absolutely no need to complain at all.

Or I could raise a ****storm because I get an off e-mail from some random that isn't even near me...yeah...that sounds awesome.
lol! i know ! u should know me by now!.. on a brighter subject.. wow my meatloaf rocks! i made spaghetti too tonight!


Meatloaf is awesome! Spaghetti too!

I love both at the dinner table. Yummy!

MizzBrooklyn's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:30 PM

You absolutely right you have a right to your preferences. what ever they are. Just consider the source. Those type of emails are the ones I read/delete.
I refuse to engage...


lol i agree and did just that but as long as I've been online that's a 1st for me! most emails i read then delete if it's not what I'm looking for
but it still irked the hell outta me that he emailed me about it lol i think it was more what he called me.( least he didn't use any racism)

MizzBrooklyn's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:33 PM
I so agree with you but im not gonna run with my tail between my legs over someone i don't know plus i dont like that site i like this one i got cool friends on this one rght here.&& as you said there isn't anything there to cause any real drama/harm, i just wanted to know and get feed back since honestly that the 1st that's ever happened to me.

but YUP your right!

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:41 PM


You absolutely right you have a right to your preferences. what ever they are. Just consider the source. Those type of emails are the ones I read/delete.
I refuse to engage...


lol i agree and did just that but as long as I've been online that's a 1st for me! most emails i read then delete if it's not what I'm looking for
but it still irked the hell outta me that he emailed me about it lol i think it was more what he called me.( least he didn't use any racism)


I do have to agree with Eileen also since I have been on the net I have met some wonderful people around the world. A couple of years ago I was able to meet some in the Real time. So making it known what your preferences are is great... I also think holding the door open for friendship is one of the greatest things about the internet.
Good luck out there

MizzBrooklyn's photo
Fri 07/23/10 11:46 PM

Did you mean he called you by your given name and you are upset about it? It's a very pretty name, but you might want to take it off your profile then. flowerforyou

And secondly, you might have hit a nerve with a scammer and they got annoyed....but what about if the person lives in another country and just wants to talk, there are people from all over on here who like making friends to talk too. No use letting it get to you, just click block and move on to the next. bigsmile


lmao are you joking ma'am he called me a name i will not repeat and im pretty sure most ppl can guess what it might be( No not the C or B word either) and i have friends from all over the world, i dont know what he wanted besides to tell me off and call me out my name. i am willing to talk to anyone im just not willing to get serious/involved with anyone whose not from the USA, has a citizenship,Visa and or GREEN card(which pretty much is a visa). lmao he was FINE thou dang it all!!!! lol oh well i blocked him already.

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Fri 07/23/10 11:57 PM


Did you mean he called you by your given name and you are upset about it? It's a very pretty name, but you might want to take it off your profile then. flowerforyou

And secondly, you might have hit a nerve with a scammer and they got annoyed....but what about if the person lives in another country and just wants to talk, there are people from all over on here who like making friends to talk too. No use letting it get to you, just click block and move on to the next. bigsmile


lmao are you joking ma'am he called me a name i will not repeat and im pretty sure most ppl can guess what it might be( No not the C or B word either) and i have friends from all over the world, i dont know what he wanted besides to tell me off and call me out my name. i am willing to talk to anyone im just not willing to get serious/involved with anyone whose not from the USA, has a citizenship,Visa and or GREEN card(which pretty much is a visa). lmao he was FINE thou dang it all!!!! lol oh well i blocked him already.


call me out my name I thought by this, he was calling you by your name so no, I wasn't joking, just giving advice.

no photo
Sat 07/24/10 12:23 AM
Love conquers all and gets the green card. Based on more than a few true stories. The end.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 07/24/10 05:31 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Sat 07/24/10 05:33 AM
People are always puttin on he ritz!!

Always judging one another

HATE IT!!!!


Who makes more money
who has a better car
who's lawn is nicer

HATE IT!! Grew up in it!!

Who the **** am I to Judge anyone?

When Jesus diied he didn't leave me his sandles and say Tammy you take over now"

I try not to judge. Sometimes I slip

don't let people like that get to ya:heart:

mightymoe's photo
Sat 07/24/10 06:31 AM
since when is puerto rico not american? last i saw it was part of america... obviously the guy is uninformed, so why even worry about it?

have and deal with the people you want to deal with.

no photo
Sat 07/24/10 06:56 AM
In my experience:

Any time you state a preference, such as "I do not want to get involved with anyone who ___________ " then all of the people who _____________ will get all bent out of shape and take it personally, as if you made up that restriction solely to exclude THEM. Which is never really the case, since you never even heard of that person until they started complaining about your preferences.

But if you have preferences, what's the point in hiding them or denying them? Believe me, you want to let people KNOW what you're looking for, and what you're NOT looking for, otherwise you're going to be barraged by non-qualifiers.

Bottom line is don't worry about what anybody else thinks. You're not here to please the rest of the world.


Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 07/24/10 07:23 AM

Lots of ppl wont date a fat person or a handicap person


WORD

you_dont_know_me's photo
Sat 07/24/10 11:43 AM

In my experience:

Any time you state a preference, such as "I do not want to get involved with anyone who ___________ " then all of the people who _____________ will get all bent out of shape and take it personally, as if you made up that restriction solely to exclude THEM. Which is never really the case, since you never even heard of that person until they started complaining about your preferences.

But if you have preferences, what's the point in hiding them or denying them? Believe me, you want to let people KNOW what you're looking for, and what you're NOT looking for, otherwise you're going to be barraged by non-qualifiers.

Bottom line is don't worry about what anybody else thinks. You're not here to please the rest of the world.



i agree with lex im very picky and not to be mean but i dont date heavy women or home bodies
i do lots of extreme riding,hiking,snowshoeing,snowboarding
and id like a woman that would be able to join me in these activities

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