So I asked out a few just in the past couple of days asking "so what are you doing this weekend".

They have their scedule filled completely.

Then I get a list of what they gonna do. It usually involves some relative visiting, walking the dog, doing laundry, and so on. Basically they all sound like they don't even have a free minute to spare.


Ok..so does anyone know the real reason why would a guy ask a single girl what she is doing over the weekend or is it considered rockets science now?

And there is always a "chance" in the middle of the week of having a few free hours, but as we move towards closer to the weekend, they all start giving me huge lists why they are not available again.

And on monday they complain how they are "tired" of being single.

Maybe it's not obvious why you are asking. If a guy friend asked me and I told him about my upcoming weekend I would not assume that meant he wanted to go out with me.

We fill our weekends because we are single and would rather do something than nothing. Give us a reason to leave some time open for you.

I love it when a guy I'm interested in asks me about my plans. It shows he "seems" to care about me – and he doesn’t wait until the last minute to ask me
(I hate that ).

Usually I'm pretty busy but I opt for being busy so I am not bored.

When I tell a guy my plans, I always make sure to say, "I can adjust my day if you have any ideas for us."

Well..perhaps the question "why are you asking?" would be good.

Why I don't go direct comes from the previous experiences. I had women stopped completely talking to me or immediately started to back away when I just simply told them:

Would you like to meet this weekend? I'm free, It's up to you when..I got nothing going on. "


Soon as I said that, they were immediately bailing out.

I guess I'm looking for a woman who is brave and can stand on her feet. Maybe most of the women aren't looking for a date or to meet face to face, but looking of some sort of a pen-pal or "let's email each other 'till eternity".

We shouldn't have to ask why you are asking, it's your question, we are just answering it.

Sorry that you're finding women who are too chicken shlt to meet in person.

My opinion. Would sound like chit chat. If ya want to spend some time. Flat out ask. Hey baby how would you like to go up to Za's and split some 4 dollar pitchers and shoot some pool......

Trust me, my pick of a restaurant (having worked in one for 4 years) is not cheap at all. It's either an authenic Mexican restaurant with Mexican musicians playing live or Chuck's Stake House which asks for reservations 2 days ahead and I could easily go into a 150 bucks for a dinner for 2.

I also have a few others (Olive Garden, and some other places where they brew their own beer) as a choice if the person in question prefers something else.

Not sure - even if you hate me LOL- why you don't want that sort of a dinner, if not for me, but just eat something good, if I'm such a terrible person, right?

Yes!

Yes, what he said!

you make time if you're interested

That's exactly what I was implying!

She has to KNOW you're interested. Small talk about the weekend doesn't cut it.

Ever stop to think that they are giving you the brush off?Women do that give excuses instead of telling the truth.Not very nice to do. I know I never lead any guy on because just not right or fair.But thats me.

Then what happened to the casual daters? Extinct?

It's either someone who's gonna run away at the first sign of asking her meeting face to face or they want a picture of my schlong in my next email.

LMAO Maybe a pic of your schlong will make them more interested

As long as it’s shaved and circumcised!

What she said.

Aww man! I thought the ladies would be telling us where they went on weekends. That way I'd have an idea where to start looking.

that's what I was thinking too