This topic is for sexually mature people who are looking for a relationship based on Love (notice the big L); who have variations and nuances in their feelings, not ambiguity.

I wanna live, I wanna give.

I feel love in my gut, not my pants.

Love is more important than sex ? Let's see what that stirs up !

Love is good.

But Sex (notice the big S) is nice too.

I Love Sex!! (notice the big L & S)

Love and passion, passion and sex, love and sex, I think they all go together like a well oiled machine.

Oh, I forgot.....Sex and more sex.

The constant onslaught of third-grade pee-pee and poo-poo commentary gets tiring after awhile. But I suppose the "tangible mind" finds it easier to discuss physical attributes than not-so-tangible emotional states....

Yup, keeping things well lubed is important in any machine.

Not to go out on a tangent or anything but I had to attend six years in an accredited university to come up with some of this stuff.

If there is No Sex, I have NO Love. Not enough to stay with the person

what if you Love Sex

very true, but there are those who believe sexual skill is a stagnate absolute quality and require it for a successful relationship. I am of the opinion that sex is an acquired skill constantly capable of changing and growing based upon COMMUNICATION.
Love ie more important and a seperate issue from sex,, for me.

Sex is more compllcated for woman. If a man doesnt find a willing when ready partner, he should have keep his black book updated, and stay single. There are to many meanings of LOve, even in a commited relationship.

PLACEBO "Pure Morning"

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend with weed is better,
A friend with breasts and all the rest,
A friend who's dressed in leather,

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend who'll tease is better ,
Our thoughts compressed,
Which makes us blessed,
And makes for stormy weather,

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
My Japanese is better,
And when she's pressed she will undress,
And then she's boxing clever,

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend who bleeds is better,
My friend confessed she passed the test,
And we will never sever,

Day's dawning, skins crawling [repeat three more times]
Pure morning, [repeat this three more times]

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend who'll tease is better,
Our thoughts compressed,
Which makes us blessed,
And makes for stormy weather,

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend who bleeds is better,
My friend confessed she passed the test,
And we will never sever,

Day's dawning, skins crawling [repeat three more times]
Pure morning,[repeat this three more times]

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
My Japanese is better,
And when she's pressed she will undress,
And then she's boxing clever,

A friend in needs a friend indeed,
A friend with weed is better,
A friend with breasts and all the rest,
A friend who's dressed in leather


I haven't heard that song in a while, but just thought about it for some reason.

Love is extremely important because it provides the basis for the relationship.

Sex is important too.

I don't know that I would want to be without sex in the relationship.

It is it a great expression of love too.

I remember growing up and thinking that love=sex. I was interested in the love and my need for romance and an exchange of words was great and when I couldn't get the romance, I resorted to asking for/giving sex. Never satisfied that way of course. So one relationship, my last, allowed me to really distance myself from my libido because I found sexual satisfaction, and it's great, I feel so free from thinking that I have to give/take sex. Now I am looking for relational satisfaction. And when I meet a new girl and she really attracts me (at this point, because I am still young, I can't distinguish directly from the sexual attraction and the deeper currents of attraction) I wait it out, and get such a better picture ... rather than going head over heals all the time...gets repetitive, so I am looking for content and sustenance, I don't worry about sex....because the ladies can't resist me

isn't it, I think love and relationships are like multiple conversations going on at once, if you listen to only one voice you miss out the rest

Love is important in any successful relationship. However, some people have trouble distinguishing the difference between love and lust. I am personally to the point now where I am abstaining from intercourse until I am feel secure that I can trust the person with my heart...and since I am a long way from trusting anybody like that, I am trying to connect purely on personality.

Love with out Sex or romance is just companionship or a deep friendship. I've been in an almost completely sexless relationship before and it was ok for awhile. I really did connect with him just not physically and it's what eventually ended our relationship.

both go hand in hand