I think you should go on another. A worth while relationship takes time
to develop, you may not be head over heels quite yet, but she may grow
on you. The guy I'm seeing... I wasn't exactly sure about our chemistry
the first few days, but as time has passed he's grown on me tremedously.
I am pretty sure I'm gonna fall in love, if I haven't already. You may
find that also. Whats the worst that will happen? You both decide you
made a great friend? There's nothing wrong with that either.

if you have a good time even if there no spark why not go out again? it
takes time to get to know someone

She may have been up tight on the first date, give her time toloosen
upand be herself, she will know you better the second date, besides you
can't know someone on the first meeting, give her a chance, go for two,
or three, or four, who knows whatyou may have found.

first dates are usually a little nerve-wracking cuz you're trying so
hard to make a good first impression so you may be nervous and not quite
be yourself. so a second date might be good just to see if ya "got all
the bugs worked out" from the first date, so-to-speak, lol, maybe you
and your date will be a little more relaxed the second time around. if
there's no spark on the second date, then ya might wanna call it quits.

My sister was set up on a blind date once. She told me he was the most
boring guy she ever met!!! I told her.....just give the guy a chance, go
out with him again and see if you still feel this way.

She did. Ended up moving in with him and marrying him!!! Hmmmmm, I
wonder if she often thinks he is boring because I can't stand the pr*ck
and the feeling is mutal.

Hmmmm I guess I'm not allowed to stab him with an icepick because he is
family...

Gypsy... who said you weren't allowed? LMAO, j/k, I suggest not stabbing
him with an ice pick. At least not where it'd do any permanant damage.

is she hot?

see thats what u get for making suggestions

now where is that azz shot thread? too bad ive
gained 15 lbs roflma!

Absolutely not! No way!

Just kidding.

Fireworks don't always happen
on first dates.

when i first met the guy i'm now living with a year ago.. i didnt feel
anything but friendship for him .. i was at all attracted to him but we
still hung out over the year and talked all the time.. then in may we
went out for a weekend with my youngest and during that time.. i had
sudden attraction for him.. he was already attracted to me.. and then it
just happened for me too.. now after a month of dating we have been
living together for a month on the 6 of july and even though money is
tight right now.. and we are both adjusting to things.. like me having
help with my kids and him having a woman and kids living with him again
.. we are still doing great and very much in love with each other.. so
yes i'd say even if you dont feel it now.. dont dismiss it as nothing..
be friends go out like that you never know when it will hit you

Humm one should not make full judgement on someone by there first
impressions of them. That is the problem with most they take the first
impressions as some kind of written law and never give a person a second
chance. Its normally there lose for being to quick to judge what they
don't know.

I do not believe "sparks" are necessarily there the first date, however
I think that you can tell if they will never be there. Did that make
sense?

That makes perfect sense. Its like.. If I date someone, in the first
week I can't tell if they are the one or not, but I can tell if they for
sure aren't... I get what you're saying.

thank you Jayme!!!!!!!!!!!

No problem girl, I've been on that road a few times, left a few in the
dust.