What I have been running into lately is endless messaging back & forth, I'm the type that wants to move on to talking on the phone & date or after a few messages meet up. Now after a few messages I tell them that I sense this going no where & don't want to waste any more time. I don't mean to sound rude, I just like to stop bs before it drags on. Does anyone else run into this?

Not too often, but yeah, there comes a point in time when either the situation remains stagnant, or it moves forward in some way.

im to the point if i don't get a number within the first 5 emails

I be on to the next one

it's time quit turning pages ..and start opening new books ..

I hear ya!

I have this horrible inability to not
answer an email.
Just seems rude, so I tell them, save
yourself. Stop emailing me!!

I tell them, I am throwing you back for age,
somehow they take this as not winning the
popularity contest. And they fight it.
If they start talking dirty I tell them this
is the last email.

So, PATS, it seems there are some, no matter
what you say, will take it poorly.
I say, please yourself.
But I have been here 6 months now, I think I
am getting jaded :-)

No but I can see where that would be frustrating. If you are local to the person then there's no reason for an endless string of emails.

I should mention it's not happening here ( there's nothing happening here)

I prefer just emails as I don't want any kind of relationship.

Do i mean nothing to you??!!!

You can't pull the devil card out on me anymore buddy!! After this morning you are so cut off!!!

Hummmm well if they are local then I agree with ya a hundred percent. I'm all for if it is local lets meet up and see if we might want to make a official date or not. Not into all the emails when they live within driving distance...

Now if they are in a different state then no I don't agree. To many not being truthful out there. And it takes me a while before I will call them seems the ones I have they have no idea what they want...

Yes mine are local, they tell me they are interested, want to get to know me more & yet in their messages there's nothing to keep the conversation going, even after I suggest swapping phone #'s or meeting up, it's like yes or no because I can't waste time.

Mmm, well you know, sometimes it is all about them.

Honestly I have had a few guys that heck I suggested we meet. I mean we live within less then and hour of each other they acted as if they were interested. But then put me off when I suggested meeting in person.....Sooooooooooo what did I do see ya sorry I don't have time for those kind of games. Hell only asking to meet up for coffee,tea or soft drink not asking for a 5 course meal shshshs...

I know right, it's not like I said meet me at the alter it just seems they are not serious ( maybe they are married) or just want to play games....freakin weirdos

Don't have time for that either

What do you have time for?

Many things