That's great, if only everyone felt the same way I think we would have a lot more cheaters learning their lessons and not cheating anymore.

Allstate will do the breaking up for you. You don't have to break it off yourself. Your in good hands with Allstate.

of course that's based on the idea that they're exposed. the ones that keep it concealed rarely learn from their mistakes and revel in their slyness.


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yup. I agree but have mixed feelings about that. When I hear a woman, female friend complaing about her guy - repeatedly - I think it's often stuff he's doing on purpose cuz he wants to break up. I mean each situation is a little different, and this includes cheating - sometimes he just acts up cuz he wants attention. But that is really immature though.

So ya, cheating is a symptom of other problems.

I would have more respect for a man who approached his mate to discuss things in an adult manner (no yelling, no freak outs)

the corollary to that is that he has to have a mature woman to talk to....and that isn't always a function of age

and it can all work the other way too - with woman being the bad girl

Sounds like you moved on in your own way. I had a friend at work who moved on in a different way. I thought the one he had was a good person. We all were surprised when he moved on. His new girl was putting the move on him and knew about the other one he was with. Even his sister thought that his move to the new girl was a good idea. I couldn't help but feeling sorry for the one he left. Actually, he told her to vacate the premises with her daughter. Logic told me not to interfere as it was none of my business. But I couldn't help but to feel sorry for the one he left. She seemed such a nice person but when you are the outsider one only sees what others can want you to see.

Never have cheated.
Never been cheated on.
This is a very big and obvious deal breaker
that is best weeded out before beginning a
relationshop.
I think the ones who would cheat are even
spottable in here, if you pay attention to
their posts.
Likewise, the ones who would not.

This internet is an instant gratification
tool.
"Marry in haste, repent at leisure."

Hey, I cheat death, at cards, playing Bingo.

I cheat on my taxes (YEAH I WISH!!!)

I cheat on tests.


I never had an opportunity to cheat on a Girl Friend though...

So what are you saying.

Be Quite!! I cheated on my doll twice but she dont know it!! (She reads these threads!)

Make sure you put that in your profile!

i had a member on here awhile back
that said 90% of woman on here or any dating site cheat
and he stated all woman loved him......what a dang ego

Me too!! And even IF .. why drag out dirty laundry for alllll the world to see. Get counseling, get healed, move on with your life.

I think everyone is sick of these threads, and i rather move on with my life and not blame it on everyone else. Although some past experiences make you take a different outlook on things. But i still love men!!

I don't know that I've ever been cheated on - and I prefer not to agonize over whether it did happen or not. I have great memories of my 3 relationships. They were all long term and the only times I said, "I love you."

I also men!

I'm a bad bad man!

I work too hard to make relationships work!

Should I be cheating at that too?


Would I be doing better than I am now???


OH I AM SO CONFUSED NOW!