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| Topic: WHEN YOU HAVE PLAYED BY THE RULES AND STILL GET &*@%$%...... | |
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i agree, then i complained to much. if i called him on his ****....he complained if it was to sunny or if he got a great blow job some people just can never be happy...
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thats not true
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !!
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why is it so damn hard to find a guy that is charming,likes boobs,has a job,don't cheat, non abuser, the list goes on. i'm hot i pay my bills,i take care of my ****...why is it men want some broke down *&)*% so they can walk over or try to mooch off the good ones? are there any good men out there? what happend to being honest? Because when we try to holla at ya 'you keep on passin us by'.. |
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Edited by
DACRAZEDCAMARO
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Wed 06/16/10 06:51 AM
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !! I would say i'm Mr right for you but then i see it didn't work for r.kelly & aaliyah or r.kelly & the girl he made the sex tape with..  You have a cute baby in your pic darling.. |
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !! because you are responsible for your own happiness, it's not a mans job to "keep you happy"... OP: Seems like your decision maker is faulty... examine yourself and your choices... seems what you think is a 'good guy' is in fact not (as you describe)... *sigh* $.02 
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !! You put the key word in your post here...."Chose". You chose these guys. No matter if they charmed you to get a date with you, or you charmed them, you still chose to get with these guys. And that is what this all boils down to. Dating is a numbers game. There aren't any rules. Guys are all different, just like girls are. Some women are total biatches. Some are money grubbing whores. And then there are those who are awesome. Most guys are pigs. Those of us who realize we will have our "pig" moments accept it. Some guys are total jerks who are into themselves and only want to get what they want. And then some guys really want a woman....just one....to be with. If you are lucky, you find the true gems early on in life. But mostly, you have to play the numbers. Anyways, I am growing tired of threads like this. See, a dude or a chick will come on here and whine about how guys suck, or how girls suck. Blah....blah. How about looking at it from the point that maybe, just maybe, if you are having a hard time finding a good girl or guy, that perhaps how you pick them has something to do with it? Look back at your own track record, discover the pattern you obviously go by, and make some changes. |
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This is just my experience on my past relationships but it seems like the guys I've dated weren't able to handle me because I don't NEED them. Guys want to be needed, they have a primal need to protect and provide for women. Just like women have the primal need to be nurturing. Role reversals in society have been slowly becoming more and more accepted but does not change these "primal" (sub conscience) needs we feels as men and women. I have had a few boyfriends who truly cared for me but I think just couldn't get past not having to be the MAN and take care of everything for me.
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !! You put the key word in your post here...."Chose". You chose these guys. No matter if they charmed you to get a date with you, or you charmed them, you still chose to get with these guys. And that is what this all boils down to. Dating is a numbers game. There aren't any rules. Guys are all different, just like girls are. Some women are total biatches. Some are money grubbing whores. And then there are those who are awesome. Most guys are pigs. Those of us who realize we will have our "pig" moments accept it. Some guys are total jerks who are into themselves and only want to get what they want. And then some guys really want a woman....just one....to be with. If you are lucky, you find the true gems early on in life. But mostly, you have to play the numbers. Anyways, I am growing tired of threads like this. See, a dude or a chick will come on here and whine about how guys suck, or how girls suck. Blah....blah. How about looking at it from the point that maybe, just maybe, if you are having a hard time finding a good girl or guy, that perhaps how you pick them has something to do with it? Look back at your own track record, discover the pattern you obviously go by, and make some changes. That was like serious and stuff |
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I have been single for almost 9 months now, because i choose to be. I get a bit lonely sometimes, But i refuse to settle for less than what i am looking for. Tip: buy a vibrator until you can find the right man (works for me)
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why is it so damn hard to find a guy that is charming,likes boobs,has a job,don't cheat, non abuser, the list goes on. i'm hot i pay my bills,i take care of my ****...why is it men want some broke down *&)*% so they can walk over or try to mooch off the good ones? are there any good men out there? what happend to being honest? Maybe if those are the guys that you attracting and that is all you get, becomes the time to lokk at the self and the image you portray. Why are you attracted to that kind of individual? What makes you chose what you chose?  The generalization here is not the "status quo".
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I feel tha same ! I have yet to find a guy that can keep me as happy as i am, or bring me up ! I feel like i chose the wrong guys in the past and they did nothing but tear me down. I want to know where i can find Mr.Rite ! Thats jus gunna keep it real with me & be MiNE >=/ i know im young but COME ONNNN !! You put the key word in your post here...."Chose". You chose these guys. No matter if they charmed you to get a date with you, or you charmed them, you still chose to get with these guys. And that is what this all boils down to. Dating is a numbers game. There aren't any rules. Guys are all different, just like girls are. Some women are total biatches. Some are money grubbing whores. And then there are those who are awesome. Most guys are pigs. Those of us who realize we will have our "pig" moments accept it. Some guys are total jerks who are into themselves and only want to get what they want. And then some guys really want a woman....just one....to be with. If you are lucky, you find the true gems early on in life. But mostly, you have to play the numbers. Anyways, I am growing tired of threads like this. See, a dude or a chick will come on here and whine about how guys suck, or how girls suck. Blah....blah. How about looking at it from the point that maybe, just maybe, if you are having a hard time finding a good girl or guy, that perhaps how you pick them has something to do with it? Look back at your own track record, discover the pattern you obviously go by, and make some changes. Standing applause for the Goof. THANK YOU for saying what needs to be said. 
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This is just my experience on my past relationships but it seems like the guys I've dated weren't able to handle me because I don't NEED them. Guys want to be needed, they have a primal need to protect and provide for women. Just like women have the primal need to be nurturing. Role reversals in society have been slowly becoming more and more accepted but does not change these "primal" (sub conscience) needs we feels as men and women. I have had a few boyfriends who truly cared for me but I think just couldn't get past not having to be the MAN and take care of everything for me. I will be a man and own up that Myka is right about that "primal" need, or whatever you want to call it. For some reason, it is drilled into us dudes that we have to be the protector and all for women. And, in some cases, we do. But in today's world, I don't get why a guy has to want a woman to "need" him like this. Hell, we should look at it as that she "wanted" to be with you. She doesn't "need" to be. But she chose you because she liked alot of things about you. Isn't that what it IS supposed to be about? I dunno. I give up. I'm going gay! 
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I have been single for almost 9 months now, because i choose to be. I get a bit lonely sometimes, But i refuse to settle for less than what i am looking for. Tip: buy a vibrator until you can find the right man (works for me)  Note to self : Steal all vibrators out of next girls house.. |
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This is just my experience on my past relationships but it seems like the guys I've dated weren't able to handle me because I don't NEED them. Guys want to be needed, they have a primal need to protect and provide for women. Just like women have the primal need to be nurturing. Role reversals in society have been slowly becoming more and more accepted but does not change these "primal" (sub conscience) needs we feels as men and women. I have had a few boyfriends who truly cared for me but I think just couldn't get past not having to be the MAN and take care of everything for me. Good point. I run into these type of men all the time and it has a lot to do with my serving in the military. I find it rather silly that in 2010 that some men are still living in the 50s. They really need to get with the times. I can honestly say that I am not nuturing though; didn't have the time for that while trying to keep people alive. |
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why is it so damn hard to find a guy that is charming,likes boobs,has a job,don't cheat, non abuser, the list goes on. i'm hot i pay my bills,i take care of my ****...why is it men want some broke down *&)*% so they can walk over or try to mooch off the good ones? are there any good men out there? what happend to being honest? I will be honest with you. You come across very full of yourself.......  That was my very first thought 
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hmmmm a i hate men thread
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I was absolutely not bashing on men at all. Just stating that from the time of cavemen certain societal roles have been drilled into us (men and women) that we can not just overcome with "mind over matter" or "put yourself in the other persons shoes". I'm not placing blame anywhere just trying to show a different perspective for the readers to think about. Women's bodies are made for reproduction, a man can be just as good of a parent but he certainly can not produce breast milk. Men are bigger and stronger and made to protect and provide. Society changing doesn't change any of these facts, therefor unavoidable conflicts arise. As a human race we will continue to evolve over time but it's certainly not going to happen in 50 years.
I am a very strong independent female with a very strong independent female role model in my mother. My brother being raised by the same woman could probably handle a female more like me having been brought up in that environment. We're all a product of our environment whether we embrace or rebel against it. |
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I was absolutely not bashing on men at all. Just stating that from the time of cavemen certain societal roles have been drilled into us (men and women) that we can not just overcome with "mind over matter" or "put yourself in the other persons shoes". I'm not placing blame anywhere just trying to show a different perspective for the readers to think about. Women's bodies are made for reproduction, a man can be just as good of a parent but he certainly can not produce breast milk. Men are bigger and stronger and made to protect and provide. Society changing doesn't change any of these facts, therefor unavoidable conflicts arise. As a human race we will continue to evolve over time but it's certainly not going to happen in 50 years. I am a very strong independent female with a very strong independent female role model in my mother. My brother being raised by the same woman could probably handle a female more like me having been brought up in that environment. We're all a product of our environment whether we embrace or rebel against it. She also gave you like, the greatest AZZ ever 
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I had a lot of fun things to share about the Op......I'll hold back. What I will say is.....men are wonderful. They are strong when we need strength...even though sometimes we don't like to admit it. They are "fixers", mess makers, wonderful foot in the mouthers. Men rock, my dad, brother and son have shown me how truly wonderful men really are....sometimes they just don't know what to say when we need them to say something......that is where our friends come in handy.
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