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Topic: WHEN YOU HAVE PLAYED BY THE RULES AND STILL GET &*@%$%......
irisheyes79's photo
Fri 06/18/10 11:05 AM
sometimes life isnt fair

freeonthree's photo
Fri 06/18/10 11:11 AM

why is it so damn hard to find a guy that is charming,likes boobs,has a job,don't cheat, non abuser, the list goes on. i'm hot i pay my bills,i take care of my ****...why is it men want some broke down *&)*% so they can walk over or try to mooch off the good ones? are there any good men out there? what happend to being honest?



I think boobs are fine, im retired though, so I do not have a job. I would never cheat or abuse, and I don't believe neither has been done to me.
I think im a very good man. Im kind, honest, I love animals, etc, and I could never mooch off anyone, however, I have been in several realtionships, and I have decided to have women as friends now, instead of attempting another intimate relationship with someone.
I think alot of men these days, just want to be friends, and see what the future brings, as I do. There are alot of men and women in your situation, and they all tell me that they can't find anyone either. They say that other men or women don't seem to be attracted to them. OK, some people look amazing, while some look ordinary, or even a little not so handsome or pretty, but alot of those people are hard workers, and have amazing hearts. I think you, and everyone who feels like you, need to start looking beyond the surface of others. Then you will find true love. Dennis

navygirl's photo
Fri 06/18/10 11:25 AM

I was absolutely not bashing on men at all. Just stating that from the time of cavemen certain societal roles have been drilled into us (men and women) that we can not just overcome with "mind over matter" or "put yourself in the other persons shoes". I'm not placing blame anywhere just trying to show a different perspective for the readers to think about. Women's bodies are made for reproduction, a man can be just as good of a parent but he certainly can not produce breast milk. Men are bigger and stronger and made to protect and provide. Society changing doesn't change any of these facts, therefor unavoidable conflicts arise. As a human race we will continue to evolve over time but it's certainly not going to happen in 50 years.

I am a very strong independent female with a very strong independent female role model in my mother. My brother being raised by the same woman could probably handle a female more like me having been brought up in that environment. We're all a product of our environment whether we embrace or rebel against it.


Agreed that you were not men bashing; just stating an opinion and I share that one with you. Cheers

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