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Topic: are men like women?
buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:11 PM
Edited by buttons on Sun 06/13/10 04:11 PM
more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?

eklectek's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:13 PM
It's a macho thing or even an inferiority complex lol

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:14 PM
I think you're on to something Buttons... I don't mean in the general sense but yeah I think there are a lot like that...

no photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:15 PM
I'm not sure I exactly understand your question.

I think you mean in terms of the roles that men and women play in society and culture.

Generally, men are conditioned to believe that it's a terrible idea to display weakness. If you look at psychological studies that's one of the most common fears that men have - being viewed as weak.

I think of it more as unskillful and skillful action. Sometimes you have to act a certain way regardless of how you feel at that moment. This is true for men and women.

In general, I do think that women tend to be more emotional and empathic (that's not a bad thing). That's the biggest difference to me.

no photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:17 PM
Edited by Torgo70 on Sun 06/13/10 04:17 PM


newarkjw's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:17 PM

more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


No, men know they are usually wrong.........smokin

writer_gurl's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:24 PM

I think men are like women in a way...Just don't know what that is right now:tongue:

Down2earthdebbie's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:29 PM
Or can WOMAN be like MAN? rofl whoa Just being a smart***!

Wulfenstraat's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:34 PM

It's a macho thing or even an inferiority complex lol


Are men and women alike? We are more alike "below the neck" than we are "above the neck," if that gives you any idea of how different we really are.

The way these two genders see the world is so totally alien to the other that it requires an absolute suspension of disbelief for them to merge, usually brought on by an overpowering need for sex or love by at least one of them. It's only when one of the two is willing to hold their alien views in check long enough to actually see, feel and hear the other person that there is even a remote chance that these two will get to smell and taste each other...besides the other obvious thing.

If this isn't so, then why are we on the internet, barely making human contact, on this beautiful sunny Sunday? And spare me the sophomoric quips and self-serving excuses. Just admit you have no idea how the other gender sees the world and, as a result, have no adequate means of communicating with that gender, except by belittling them or flattering them.

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:35 PM


more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


No, men know they are usually wrong.........smokin
disagree! lol but wow im thinking most just say one thing and mean something different.. and i love to learn men. and their thoughts. but im sensing.. as looking at all factors maybe they really are more like women that they think they want us to beleive..

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:36 PM

Or can WOMAN be like MAN? rofl whoa Just being a smart***!
ha ha always welcome in my books!laugh :wink:

Totage's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:38 PM
I was going to respond, but couldn't decide how to do so.

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:39 PM


It's a macho thing or even an inferiority complex lol


Are men and women alike? We are more alike "below the neck" than we are "above the neck," if that gives you any idea of how different we really are.

The way these two genders see the world is so totally alien to the other that it requires an absolute suspension of disbelief for them to merge, usually brought on by an overpowering need for sex or love by at least one of them. It's only when one of the two is willing to hold their alien views in check long enough to actually see, feel and hear the other person that there is even a remote chance that these two will get to smell and taste each other...besides the other obvious thing.

If this isn't so, then why are we on the internet, barely making human contact, on this beautiful sunny Sunday? And spare me the sophomoric quips and self-serving excuses. Just admit you have no idea how the other gender sees the world and, as a result, have no adequate means of communicating with that gender, except by belittling them or flattering them.
i agree with you to a point..i know men are different.. but perhaps is that just really different in the beginning?

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:41 PM

I was going to respond, but couldn't decide how to do so.
you! i think you should respond on how you feel! or think! blunt up will ya? laugh :wink:

markc48's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:46 PM
I reserve the right to change my mind. I'm not going to let women have this. And say I cant.:wink: laugh

newarkjw's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:48 PM



more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


No, men know they are usually wrong.........smokin
disagree! lol but wow im thinking most just say one thing and mean something different.. and i love to learn men. and their thoughts. but im sensing.. as looking at all factors maybe they really are more like women that they think they want us to beleive..


Your right. Guess I was wrong..............smokin

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:48 PM

I reserve the right to change my mind. I'm not going to let women have this. And say I cant.:wink: laugh
grrrr!!!!!!!!!! from a women whom tries to walk a milein a mans shoes!!!!!!!

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:49 PM




more than they care to admit? do they change their minds as well? is it a macho thing to do to act one way and feel a different way later on and be scared to admit it?


No, men know they are usually wrong.........smokin
disagree! lol but wow im thinking most just say one thing and mean something different.. and i love to learn men. and their thoughts. but im sensing.. as looking at all factors maybe they really are more like women that they think they want us to beleive..


Your right. Guess I was wrong..............smokin
never doubt your feelings!

buttons's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:52 PM

Or can WOMAN be like MAN? rofl whoa Just being a smart***!
smart i would have to agree..but smart *** i just dont know! im thinking not!

markc48's photo
Sun 06/13/10 04:53 PM
Edited by markc48 on Sun 06/13/10 05:04 PM
Well lets see you and I have plans to go to the beach next weekend. And all of the sudden I get tickets to a rock concert. What will we do?

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