my ex she was a chubby girl but beatuful , n i told her idc beaty is in
the inside about that n was w/ her for 10 years n gave her trust n she
cheeted on me twice am i shallow if now i only one to be w/ a beatufull
slim women women or die alone?

it's not what's on the outside dude!

nah man, ur not shallow, ur hurt...., cuz of the fact tht ur ex was
chubby, u got it in ur head tht, if u get with another chubby
person....they'r gonna do the same s**t to u, i know how ya feel, w'eve
all been down tht road b 4

Like your answer Dan.

JC - so you think chubby girls are the only ones who cheat and slim
beautiful girls don't???? Ummmm, what manual did you read that
in????????

If a person is going to cheat, they are going to cheat, doesn't matter
what they look like, male or female, it is a character flaw, has nothing
to do with looks.

It depends what your motivations are...

Yes, you are hurt - I can feel that from here.

Why do you only want to be with a beautiful slim woman? They have the
same potential to cheat you know.

If you are looking for beauty as merely an accessory for your arm then
you are not likely to find lasting happiness.

If you are looking for the beauty within a person as well then outside
preferences are just that...preferences.

No one can tell you what to do or what is right for you.

Good luck.

The only thing I cheat at is cards, cuase I am playing with Wild Bill
and waiting for Crooked Nose McCall to come in the rear door!

no u miss understood, thing is shes the only women i ever been with n i
mean ever from my 1st kiss n she did this should'nt i give me the chance
of tring to experience some one slim n beatufull? this is what i meant

man you are messed dude. Ya gotta move on and forget that crap.

idk if that sounded right, come on i didnt cheet on her was w/ her for
10 years she cheets n i gave her another chance after she was with
another guy for 6 months n i had the oportunity to be w/ at list 2 women
during that time but felt i would be cheeting on her so i waited for her
n i accepted her back like nothing happend n even trusted her like she
asked me to

trying to really but 10 years pluse thinking of my daughter wish she dnt
let me see keeps me thir, i didnt even see her in fathers day

heal

Clean up your internal stuff before you drag it into another
relationship. You sound hurt and confused. Take some time for you.
There is no rush.

Bad mediciene pale face.

breath in ,,,,,breath out ,,,,,,,,,,, ant think before you leap, just
remember some people look good at first and get uglier as you get to
know them, other that look average get more attractive, take your time

this happend 6 months ago she tell me she has a b/f not the guy she
cheeted on me with n she ignoress me when i ask about my daughter how
mush more u want me to wait?

Get a lawyer and go to court!

stop complaining and take some action, obviously if what you say is true
this isn't a rational woman, get some legal help like dam said

opps dan too

it isn't about time ... it is about process and healing ... and it takes
what it takes.

How long do you think it should take to get over your first love, a 10
year relationship, a new reality for your child, infidelity and your ex
moving on?

I am not saying to wait or go forward. I am suggesting that you honour
your process...whatever that looks like for you.

John you can call any thing most do lol

i am alone her she is the one from here all her familly is here i would
be fighting bouth her parents n all her familly, i have deal with curts
b4 i know all this cuz of what happend and what she tell me but i have
no prove of anything how can i fight a whole familly in curt by my self
, tell u the truth it scares me the whole situation scares me ( n i
didnt want to be my father who was never thir) not trying to complaine
more like talk get this out i dont have anyone to talk to idk if thats
wrong of me